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Topic: Simple Pleasures Missed By Being Single
mikey5360's photo
Mon 06/09/14 04:03 AM
Edited by mikey5360 on Mon 06/09/14 04:03 AM
Don't get me wrong I am very happy being single, but........
Something happened to me at work yesterday that shook me to my core.
A girl fell down and I was right there, I offered my hand and assisted her up and onto her feet. But as she put her hand in mine I felt a warmth and intensity of emotions I'm struggling to describe shoot through me. It made me realise I have not held a women��s hand in over 5 or 6 years maybe more, and to feel that even though it was only a helping hand was so special.
I can��t wait to hold someone��s hand for the very first time again, to feel the warmth and softness, to feel the texture of a loved one��s hand as we gently apply pressure and entwine our fingers together.
It will be a very special moment.

pkh's photo
Mon 06/09/14 09:28 AM
Aww that's very sweet, and glad you were there bet she was also. But I know exactly what you mean seems so simple but just kiss on the lips, a nice tight hug and yes soft hands. ..yes I enjoy being single also but do miss that.

Dodo_David's photo
Mon 06/09/14 09:50 AM

Don't get me wrong I am very happy being single, but........
Something happened to me at work yesterday that shook me to my core.
A girl fell down and I was right there, I offered my hand and assisted her up and onto her feet. But as she put her hand in mine I felt a warmth and intensity of emotions I'm struggling to describe shoot through me. It made me realise I have not held a women��s hand in over 5 or 6 years maybe more, and to feel that even though it was only a helping hand was so special.
I can��t wait to hold someone��s hand for the very first time again, to feel the warmth and softness, to feel the texture of a loved one��s hand as we gently apply pressure and entwine our fingers together.
It will be a very special moment.



Experiencing the sense of touch of another's body is something that we singles commonly miss.

no1phD's photo
Mon 06/09/14 10:41 AM
I miss making someone else coffee.
I miss spooning.
. I miss having another adult around.
. I miss watching a TV program.
and having my hand on their lap.
I miss watching a woman eat.
. I miss watching a woman get ready in the morning.
. I miss the sweetness of their voice.
. I miss it all.. even the stuff that we complain about.. well the relationship is going south.. like why don't you rinse the sink out when you're done brushing your teeth.. oh god. what I would give for a glob of toothpaste in the bottom of the sink right now...brokenheart
.

msharmony's photo
Mon 06/09/14 11:57 AM
Edited by msharmony on Mon 06/09/14 11:56 AM
yeah, I miss those things sometimes

Im very physical and miss physical contact in general, be it a breath on the neck, a whisper near the ear, a brush of the arm, holding hands, kissing,,,,or whatever,,,,

and then I think about how temporary those feelings are and the other things I dont miss,,,,, and it helps me move past the missing part,,,,

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 06/09/14 12:10 PM

I think it is something we all miss while being single... There are times I wish I had someone special to do things with like holding hands hugging ect.... Friends are great but they just don't fulfill those areas in ones life.... whoa

456tessa's photo
Mon 06/09/14 12:17 PM
i'm ok single, but i have been without that specialman's touch for so long that i think i'll probably faint when/if it happens again...:laughing:

0ldhag's photo
Mon 06/09/14 04:21 PM
Edited by 0ldhag on Mon 06/09/14 04:24 PM
Aww thats so nice....I miss making out with someone.

Goofball73's photo
Mon 06/09/14 05:21 PM

Don't get me wrong I am very happy being single, but........
Something happened to me at work yesterday that shook me to my core.
A girl fell down and I was right there, I offered my hand and assisted her up and onto her feet. But as she put her hand in mine I felt a warmth and intensity of emotions I'm struggling to describe shoot through me. It made me realise I have not held a women��s hand in over 5 or 6 years maybe more, and to feel that even though it was only a helping hand was so special.
I can��t wait to hold someone��s hand for the very first time again, to feel the warmth and softness, to feel the texture of a loved one��s hand as we gently apply pressure and entwine our fingers together.
It will be a very special moment.



Ah yes.....I remember my first beer as well. :tongue:

mikey5360's photo
Tue 06/10/14 12:29 AM


Don't get me wrong I am very happy being single, but........
Something happened to me at work yesterday that shook me to my core.
A girl fell down and I was right there, I offered my hand and assisted her up and onto her feet. But as she put her hand in mine I felt a warmth and intensity of emotions I'm struggling to describe shoot through me. It made me realise I have not held a women��s hand in over 5 or 6 years maybe more, and to feel that even though it was only a helping hand was so special.
I can��t wait to hold someone��s hand for the very first time again, to feel the warmth and softness, to feel the texture of a loved one��s hand as we gently apply pressure and entwine our fingers together.
It will be a very special moment.



Ah yes.....I remember my first beer as well. :tongue:


I cant believe it took 8 posts for the first wisecrack, your slipping people.

HoneyFly's photo
Tue 06/10/14 01:50 AM
:thumbsup: Kudos Mikey!

luvmeforlife's photo
Tue 06/10/14 05:53 AM

Don't get me wrong I am very happy being single, but........
Something happened to me at work yesterday that shook me to my core.
A girl fell down and I was right there, I offered my hand and assisted her up and onto her feet. But as she put her hand in mine I felt a warmth and intensity of emotions I'm struggling to describe shoot through me. It made me realise I have not held a women��s hand in over 5 or 6 years maybe more, and to feel that even though it was only a helping hand was so special.
I can��t wait to hold someone��s hand for the very first time again, to feel the warmth and softness, to feel the texture of a loved one��s hand as we gently apply pressure and entwine our fingers together.
It will be a very special moment.



awww :)

panchovanilla's photo
Tue 06/10/14 06:01 AM
I miss missing someone when I'm not with them.

OK...that's my serious post for the day.:wink:

luvmeforlife's photo
Tue 06/10/14 06:05 AM
lol pancho

dcastelmissy's photo
Tue 06/10/14 06:08 AM



Don't get me wrong I am very happy being single, but........
Something happened to me at work yesterday that shook me to my core.
A girl fell down and I was right there, I offered my hand and assisted her up and onto her feet. But as she put her hand in mine I felt a warmth and intensity of emotions I'm struggling to describe shoot through me. It made me realise I have not held a women��s hand in over 5 or 6 years maybe more, and to feel that even though it was only a helping hand was so special.
I can��t wait to hold someone��s hand for the very first time again, to feel the warmth and softness, to feel the texture of a loved one��s hand as we gently apply pressure and entwine our fingers together.
It will be a very special moment.



Ah yes.....I remember my first beer as well. :tongue:


I cant believe it took 8 posts for the first wisecrack, your slipping people.


laugh :thumbsup:

no photo
Tue 06/10/14 06:29 AM

I miss making someone else coffee.
I miss spooning.
. I miss having another adult around.
. I miss watching a TV program.
and having my hand on their lap.
I miss watching a woman eat.
. I miss watching a woman get ready in the morning.
. I miss the sweetness of their voice.
. I miss it all.. even the stuff that we complain about.. well the relationship is going south.. like why don't you rinse the sink out when you're done brushing your teeth.. oh god. what I would give for a glob of toothpaste in the bottom of the sink right now...brokenheart
.


well you can have my sink....oh wait...I think I actaully cleaned it yesterdaylaugh :wink:

no photo
Tue 06/10/14 06:34 AM

i'm ok single, but i have been without that specialman's touch for so long that i think i'll probably faint when/if it happens again...:laughing:


yes I feel this same way!

I miss having a best friend. For me that is as important as missing things like touch & spooning & hand holding. I guess that's why it takes so long for those of us who are looking for more.flowerforyou

RainbowTrout's photo
Tue 06/10/14 12:13 PM

Don't get me wrong I am very happy being single, but........
Something happened to me at work yesterday that shook me to my core.
A girl fell down and I was right there, I offered my hand and assisted her up and onto her feet. But as she put her hand in mine I felt a warmth and intensity of emotions I'm struggling to describe shoot through me. It made me realise I have not held a women��s hand in over 5 or 6 years maybe more, and to feel that even though it was only a helping hand was so special.
I can��t wait to hold someone��s hand for the very first time again, to feel the warmth and softness, to feel the texture of a loved one��s hand as we gently apply pressure and entwine our fingers together.
It will be a very special moment.



I hate to say it but it is one of the reasons I love the caring profession. Perks like this are a common occurrence. It can be a whole social life in its self. Of course, it has to be taken in moderation which is no problem because for the most part one can find it the exception to the rule.:smile:

Dark_Brown_Eyes's photo
Tue 06/10/14 01:00 PM
I miss feeling the rush of excitement when I think about someone. I miss getting a hug for no reason or any reason and having that mans unique scent envelop me and stay on me for a long while. I miss sharing secret smiles and whispering naughty things to bring about those smiles. I miss a guiding hand on the small of my back when I walk thru a door. I miss a warm, masculine voice on the other end of the phone telling me to sleep tight and that he can't wait to see me again. I just miss enjoying what it is to be a female and to appreciate what makes males MALE.

no photo
Tue 06/10/14 02:27 PM

Don't get me wrong I am very happy being single, but........
Something happened to me at work yesterday that shook me to my core.
A girl fell down and I was right there, I offered my hand and assisted her up and onto her feet. But as she put her hand in mine I felt a warmth and intensity of emotions I'm struggling to describe shoot through me. It made me realise I have not held a women��s hand in over 5 or 6 years maybe more, and to feel that even though it was only a helping hand was so special.
I can��t wait to hold someone��s hand for the very first time again, to feel the warmth and softness, to feel the texture of a loved one��s hand as we gently apply pressure and entwine our fingers together.
It will be a very special moment.


flowerforyou

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