Actually the way they say hi and if they are inviting or now. Shy is always good too, but there has to be some confidence in how they say it. If they smile or give ya the look of they would rather be somewhere then with u, thats important. There poster i know it sound weird but if they seem in a rush or just mellow and relaxed.

I personally go by the size and color of the thong she is wearing.
Naww..I need a good personality and some eyes that I can just fall into head first!!

ROFL i love that picture!

Honesty

Love

Communication


Looks (that would be the bonus part )

Oh...the lipstick needs to match the thong too!!

takes note to self...Lipstick must match thong


Thong?? those things that rub on your crack? gads!! you not only want us to wear those but match them to our lipstick???

Wait...wait...no ..I'm okay..I don't wear lipstick therefore I do not have to wear a thong! HA!

I am officially exempt , thank you!

judging by couples i see on the street, it depends on how you meet, in person it might be they had a nice butt or a cute smile even pretty eyes. Looking back on my past boyfriends it was not all about looks and i will be the first to admit that. Think about it how many times have you been friendly with someone who you thought was not that cute but ended up having a crush on them after getting to know them? my ex for example i had a crush on his best friend, but after getting to know him i realized that he was a great guy. then he became more attractive to me after the feelings started to grow.

i want to thank to all who has add there opinion on this topic

charles

Gotta have that look. I don't mean beauty, but it's I can hand crank a Harley look 4 me. Gets me everytime.....

Chemistery, honesty, kindness, garbage man or ceo once they have quality and all the above yes please.

all the above are important but for me I base the 1st impression on how they respond to me. How do they treat me, with respect or as another piece.......

personally I look to see if they wear boxers or briefs and the color is important,Just playing I look at the beauty of there heart and if they have a sense of humor,I'm pretty shy so they have to capture my mind also.

again thank you all for your comments on this topic i really appreciated

charles

Looks...they are very important. A picture is worth a thousand words. But, that's just the first impression. Someone's cultural background (or sub-culture) is very important for the long term. Similar tastes in food and music...high up there.

thx for keeping this topic alive & going i would like to hear from more people if possible..

charles

Alot of things come to play.......looks, personality, if they can hold down a job, if they like children, if they like animals, how they treat me, how they treat their family....nothing goes unnoticed!!!!

I think its the little things like personality. How she screams at her family members at family functions. Or how she sits in front of the shrine she built out of her exboyfreinds pictures complete with candles and mumbles to herself about why he left her. Or how she runs over the neighbors garbage can with her geo tracker every time I forget to put the toilet seat down.

Hi Charles...how are you doing,Sweetie?
Nice thread, there, Dear...


Oh, I just had to say...

GG2 you crack me up...
not mel gibson and not howdy doody...


I think I'll laugh at that all day...

And lakeman ...your comment doesn't surprise me..

I like color cooordinated sexy little nothings to wear
clothing and matching lipstick, too..

but,. those thongs... ..
so, uncomfortable... egads....


Do you have some...Lakeman????

I'd like to see you guys try them on...

and all kidding aside..


It's all about honesty ....

It all unfolds....it may take some time,
but, the truth eventually comes out
sometimes, oftentimes, sooner than later...
and that is the most important thing of all
whether the person in honest and kind,
loving and sincere and willing to go the distance...
I don't need or want just a "fair weather friend"