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| Topic: what do you base your 1st impression in a relationship? | |
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this is my opinion..
i beleive that in a relationship for me personality is more important than looks & love over money. looks can be deceiving, money can come & go, to get someone to smile with you feels good inside knowing that anything is possible matter of putting your mind to it. haveing a true close friend that you can talk to means alot.. i have notice that a few ladies are picking on looks, how much the man makes & drives.. what do you think? |
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They better have one helluva personality!
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i dont need some super model babe just some attraction and of course u cant do without a nice personality ..it gets old fast -_T
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arcade...
When everything is all said and done...it will be nice to be able to have a conversation with him. Looks are important to a certain extent, you have to be able to find that "click". What he dtives and how much money he makes...in the long run...shouldn't matter. |
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I agree, I'm not looking for Mel Gibson but I ain't lookin for Howdy Doody either!
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Personality is a must for me if they do not have a sense of humor and can't joke around hummmm then forget it lol
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thank you puffins i agree the right chemistry/compatibility also should be there also..
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After dabbling with cute but vapid airheads for years and years, I finally realized that it's better to be with someone who has more than 7 functioning brain cells.
Airheads are BORING, especially if you end up married to one..... |
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arcadefan, it goes both ways. If you were me, you'd see that most men, in fact, 90% go for looks over anything else. I'm a heavy woman and get passed up all the time just because of my looks/weight. Pretty sad, because I think I'm a great lady and have lots to offer the right guy. I used to get hurt feelings all the time, but no more!! It's the guys lose that he is so shallow/vain that and doesn't even want to get to know the great person I am inside :)
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gg2, if Howdy Doody has a great heart and is fun to be with........I'd take him any day!! Looks will only get you so far, and then it's only the insides that count.
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hadeeya
thank you for your opinion I appreciate get a female point of veiw from the other side as you speak of.. well put.. |
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personality and honesty is a huge thing for me. I totally believe in honesty. Looks are just a plus
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thx kat
for you opinion honesty does play a small part in a relationship |
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The way the person is on the inside is so important. All people are beautiful inside or outside.
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I agree.
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mish
thx for pointing that out way the person is on the inside is so important.. |
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in the eye contact
and how the conversation flows |
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I personally think it is a package deal. I have met very attractive people that get uglier as you get to know them and vise versa! You can not judge sombody by a picture alone ...but at the same time you have to be attracted to them.
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I agree with the lovely fresh, that is why i think friendship is extremely important before going forward to any kind of relationship
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I think it also depends on what kind of relationship you are looking for. If its just friendship then as long as you both have a great time together then thats what is important. If you are looking for a more personal relationship then its what both of you are looking for, whether it be looks, personality or both.
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