Being a stay home mom is not that easy.The choice to struggle out of your depth:from inner satisfaction to utter frustration totally depends on the stormy sea like situations- unique to all moms. I chose to stay back home to see my child grow everyday crossing each developmental milestones and take care of him solely.It gives me immense satisfaction. I realise now that my decision was perfect

then it's perfect for you! glad your happy and wish you the best!
welcome



i like seeing women making sense and being happy at the same time

.. perfectly put two.. well done good for you.. your kids are lucky.. and you're lucky to.. welcome.2m2..

Awe, what A beautiful baby! Good job, mama! Welcome to mingle!

So happy for u, im a single stay at home mum of 4 wonderful children, its so hardfor me to find someone who understands that i want someone for me to be in my life, not for my children i am there sole parent and will do whats needed to be done for them.

I understand that my last boyfriend got himself convinced that my son was his because my son didn't have a father in his life and it caused a lot of issues with us I don't mind when people give me advice I welcome advice everybody needs it but I do not like people trying to tell me how to raise my kids help not take over

Yes it is hard, but good for you and welcome

I personally believe it is BEST for them to have s Mother and father parental roles in their life, I don't think nature meant for either to do it all on their own,,,,it ultimately causes the child to loose out, just my personal opinion though

I do what I can when I can, and I make personal sacrifices to my own happiness to try to support theirs,,,

I would feel fortunate to have a man who wanted to be a father figure for my kids, I also feel good being the best MOM I can be,, because that's all I believe I can be,,,,,

I was a stay at home mom for many years and do not regret a minute of it! Time zoomz past and they're grown. enjoy it now while it lasts

I'd like to ask the stay at home mothers, who supported you while you stayed at home?

does it matter?

parenting is a process that lasts DECADES, I personally have had the support of family at some times, the other parent at some times, and social services at others,,,



all parents need some support system,,

whether it be another parent, or extended family , or friends, or (gasp and awe) social services,,


if the end result is healthy and productive children,, than the parents and their support system should be applauded,,,

Taxpayers should not have to pay for someones decision to not be responsible and self-sufficent.

Leeching is not good parenting.

whatever...until 'taxpayers' can come to a unanimous decision about where they want each of their dollars to go

I guess they are stuck with making sure American kids have food and shelter during rough times,,,,


I can think of a MILLION better things to gripe about

Whatever?

So, being a burden on taxpayers and leeching are good parenting lessons?

I taught mine better.

It's up to the individual to make their lives.

It's not the responsibility of the taxpayers to be forced to pay for irresponsible breeders.

its up to us to help others who are less fortunate, because sometimes we may find ourselves being those 'others'

that's what I taught mine, I really don't care to discuss whether that's 'better' than the everyone do for themselves mantra or not

no one exists in a vacuum, no matter how much they wish to 'make' their own life,,,


it is the responsibility of 'christians' and good people to care about others

Christian charity, si.

Forced taxation to support those not willing to do for themselves hell naw!

that only when one ASSumes people only need help because they aren't 'willing' to do for themselves

a common assumption of narcissists who need others to feel better than,,,,

I've read posts all over the net about women claiming they choose welfare over working and being good citizens.

I could dig up a few examples.

yes, the internet can supply MULTIPLE commentaries and stories of all sorts,,,,,,


fraud is fraud, and the law should deal with it,, whether its of the welfare type of the embezzlement type,,,