Too bad they don't take all those internet quotes and investigate them folks living in gated communities who refuse to take jobs because welfare pays better, no?

it would be kind of hard to read every post all over the internet

but I think the penalties are already in place for not seeking work,,,

creating a slave labor force where people feel forced to just accept any wage would not be particularly useful,, in my opinion,,,

no more useful than forcing employers to accept any applicant,,,

Beings the OP is from another country, I am interested to know who supported her and her decision to stay home and not work?

How does that work in your country?

And the other women who stayed home. Who provided your income, paid your rent, bills, gas, vehicle maintenance, etc?

I was a single parent.

When I got custody my youngest was 6 months.

I did the welfare ho thang for just under 2 years.

I put them in daycare and went to school.

Quality time was time spent with them.

There weren't computers then so, I couldn't sit on one all day and claim I was raising kids.

After 2 more years of assistance, I took my kids off the dole.

I taught them, if it ain't worth working for, it ain't worth having.

Sickening, watching poor kids being taught how to play the taxpayers.

sickening, watching kids being taught that needing help makes one a 'ghetto ho',,,,

but thanx for sharing,,,,

Big difference,needing temporary help and being a career ho.

Don't you agree?

absolutely...how long are careers ? 20 or more years

and so many states putting a five year lifetime limit on 'welfare',,,,,Im imagining 'career hos' are much less common than some wish to believe,,,

That line of crap has been over used.

Welfare hos can work the system up till the rats turn 26.

As long as they are in some sort of schooling.

My advice to the welfare ho/slave.

Get a job. Teach yer kid how not to be a scourge on society.

Be nice to hear from other mothers who chose to stay at home with kids.

Who foot the tab?

they 'can' and they 'do', but rarely, because in most places they CANT and they DONT


lol


my advice to PARENTS,, teach your kids to be decent and caring people, as well as healthy and productive,,,,

while that is none of your business. I definite;y earned far more than my keep. There was a study done once where what it would cost to replace the services of a stay at home parent - whether it be the man or the women.

most spouses would not be able to afford the real cost of those services. childc are alone is 2-300 per WEEK

also I always worked a little here and there between children to pay for Christmas and spending $

I feel my children had a much better quality upbringing with a stay at home parent (than children I know who were daycare kids). no price tag on that

Lol how are you doing my friend

If you had a man supporting the household and you decided to raise your kids, I applaud you.

If, you was single, sucking off the taxpayer, shame on you.

If ya can't afford to support kids on your own, quit having them.

Very simple.

Close your legs, use BC or get fixed until you're in a position to contribute.

Way too many leeches.

too many men who feel women should feel 'shame' because the father makes a CHOICE not to participate with the raising of children they create,,

anyone that decides to 'raise' kids should be applauded for doing so,, whatever their financial resource might have been,,,

what we can 'afford' can turn in the blink of an eye over the course of a lifetime ,,,

Exactly why both parents need to be educated enough to not find themselves in a position of having to rely solely on taxpayers.

A contributor is one who does for themselves and, if, they need extra help, we are there.

If a ghetto ho pumps out rats, there should be zero assistance for them. Thier own decision and irresponsible actions put them in that position.

If i had the option and assistance to be able to stay at home with my boys you bet id take it!!! Children are blessings not rats!

I'm reffering to the ghetto ho who pumps out kids to keep the freebies rolling in and the women who choose to act irresponsibily and choose not to be societal contributors.

They choose to leech.

There's always people who take advantage and use others...not the children's fault...

fraud is illegal but sometimes people get away with it

people who are on disability
people who are on family assistance
people who have taken jobs for positions they embellished their experience to get

fraud and dishonesty to get ahead or stay above water are nothing new and not the norm for people who seek help,,,,,

Is this a confession?