Topic: How important are looks to you?
SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 02/16/14 02:52 PM

.... and not look like he rolled out of bed.

That can be quite sexy though!
smokin

Mississippigal2003's photo
Sun 02/16/14 02:54 PM
Only if he's rolling out of mine

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 02/16/14 02:57 PM
Best to not get the hormones going, hahahaha. I have to UNwind, almost midnight.

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Sun 02/16/14 03:05 PM

Best to not get the hormones going, hahahaha. I have to UNwind, almost midnight.


You won't be able to sleep, the intellectual conversations will make you want more.

HoneyFly's photo
Sun 02/16/14 03:14 PM
Not so much as it should equally match to what you like in their personalities.

SarahAnn_'s photo
Sun 02/16/14 03:19 PM

I'm more attracted to personality, but it may also be because I'm physically attracted to a wide range of women. I've also noticed that the more I get to know a person the more or less physically attractive they become to me depending on their personality.


I totally agree, personality can make or break you flowerforyou

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Sun 02/16/14 03:34 PM


I'm more attracted to personality, but it may also be because I'm physically attracted to a wide range of women. I've also noticed that the more I get to know a person the more or less physically attractive they become to me depending on their personality.


I totally agree, personality can make or break you flowerforyou



I totally agree with your total agreement with that statement. Personality does go a long way. No matter how physically attractive a person is, with no personality there is no spark.


soufiehere's photo
Sun 02/16/14 03:43 PM
I think if anyone sees a really good-looking person,
their body starts throwing confetti (hormones.)

Can't be helped, attraction has a life of its own.

The fall-back is the brain.
Can I?
Would I?
Should I?

And we begin to sort possibilities.
Some go right to this.
Others may sample the goods, then begin
thinking, later.

That can be too late :-)


loki_grins's photo
Mon 02/17/14 07:21 AM
Initial attraction is important to me.
Then, character and intelligence.
I'm very liberal and non religious so I seek those qualities because those opposites are deal breakers.
Negative people are gone as well.
I like engaging conversation, kindly expressed backed by logical thought process.
I suppose I want a Lovely Lady.

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Mon 02/17/14 07:49 AM
I never care about what a man looks like , he could be a 400 pound bald beast , but if he has beauty in his heart I will see it , I learn to love people with time spent on getting to know them.

amorvenicito's photo
Sat 02/22/14 04:52 AM

Hello, my first time on here...to me regarding men...HYGIENE!!! CLean and shaven....Yes looks are nice, but how long is anyone going to just sit and starte at a person....I mean ugly is ugly..and a man could look super hot, but then he opens he mouth and I want to say "shut your mouth and just look good"

A nice smile is very important to looks, also good coloring of skin and the whites of a mans eyes....fresh breath.... Personality is what matters most and if I hit it off with someone, then that is what is important.

clintb74's photo
Sat 02/22/14 10:04 AM


Hello, my first time on here...to me regarding men...HYGIENE!!! CLean and shaven....Yes looks are nice, but how long is anyone going to just sit and starte at a person....I mean ugly is ugly..and a man could look super hot, but then he opens he mouth and I want to say "shut your mouth and just look good"

A nice smile is very important to looks, also good coloring of skin and the whites of a mans eyes....fresh breath.... Personality is what matters most and if I hit it off with someone, then that is what is important.

willing2's photo
Sat 02/22/14 10:44 AM
Looks aren't important for a friend of mine.

His old lady was so fugly, when they entered the grocery store the manager recommended paper and plastic.

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Sat 02/22/14 10:53 AM
Willingflowerforyou lol that's horribly funny!

no1phD's photo
Sat 02/22/14 10:59 AM
there is a saying that goes.. your looks may get you in the room.. but it's whats up stairs that keeps you in the room..no1phD

clintb74's photo
Sat 02/22/14 11:33 AM

there is a saying that goes.. your looks may get you in the room.. but it's whats up stairs that keeps you in the room..no1phD



willing2's photo
Sat 02/22/14 12:29 PM


there is a saying that goes.. your looks may get you in the room.. but it's whats up stairs that keeps you in the room..no1phD




Yep. A nice rack will keep mine at attention.smokin

Candiapples's photo
Sat 02/22/14 12:37 PM
Edited by Candiapples on Sat 02/22/14 12:43 PM
Very...yes I will admit that I am shallow initially.
Then when I get a taste of his conceited self absorbed personality..then I start whining about why I never pick the NICE guys ((kid din))
Seriously looks matter to a point just like size matters to a point.
Personality wins me over :wink:

Suzi2's photo
Sat 02/22/14 12:37 PM
I like and I agree Protrainer... IT'S ALL ABOUT ATTITUDE.........

clintb74's photo
Sat 02/22/14 12:38 PM

Very...yes I will admit that I am shallow initially.
Then when I get a taste of his concieted, self absorbed personality..then I start whining about why I never pick the NICE guys ((kid din))
Seriously looks matter to a point just like size matters to a point.
Personality wins me over :wink:


Nice answer.