I'm asking this because of what I read last night. A book that states that men fall for how a woman makes him feel and woman tend to stay in there heads more and think.
So if this is true, how important are looks to you, asking both men and women, but PLEASE without any men or women bashing. We have enough of that in other topics. I'm asking to be honest and open.

If it's about how a woman makes you feel, what is the role of looks? And which looks matter to you, just a woman's face, eyes and the body is less important? What if a woman has a gorgeous body but she looks like the back-end of a bus? What if she has neither a pretty face or great body, but makes you feel great!
(Deliberately making the examples extreme, I know it's never black & white.)

One more question: if it indeed is about how a woman makes you feel, then what exactly is it you need/want to feel to start loving a woman? What is this feeling?

Don't believe all you read in books. There are some really silly books out there. People are not clones, each person is by definition an individual, unique. Love is loving the person, not what they look like, and love does not come to an end, so the idea of falling in love and falling out of love is false. If I loved someone 50 years ago, I love her now. Some of the most famous 'love poetry' is written by people who wouldn't recognise real love if it came and bit them on the bottom. They confuse sexual passion with love, like my very favourite poet Pablo Neruda, he wrote some powerful stuff, wonderful, lyrical, I love it! full of insane passion, then Shakespeare comparing his love to a rose? The ultimate silly fantasy, it's all just words, just romantic nonsense, not love. Love is not romantic at all.

@ Clint

I'm in
Aww thank you Clint, you are sweet too

in the real world it is important.. it's the first sense that we have.. then the second sense hearing. 3rd sense smelling.. fourth sense tasting..

. that's why I'm online is a bit backwards... you get to know their mind the thought process first... I rarely view people on forums... it would be nice if in real life... we could just hold electronic text. bored over our faces... hello how are you. type type type.. backslash hashtag.

LOL Thank god we don't