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Topic: Have you ever met someone and it turned out bad b/c of them
izzyphoto1977's photo
Sat 01/25/14 08:29 PM


Of course when it turned out bad, it was their fault.
What other reason could there be???shades


Well, I'm practically perfect in every way, so yeah.smokin


I thought I was the only perfect person. sad

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Sat 01/25/14 08:30 PM
Dashing hopes and dreams since 1973....pitchfork

izzyphoto1977's photo
Sat 01/25/14 08:34 PM
I've been plotting to take over the world since 1977.

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Sat 01/25/14 08:36 PM
I got a head start....but I was a late bloomer. I was really, really shy for a long time. Now I'm just anti-social.

izzyphoto1977's photo
Sat 01/25/14 08:40 PM
I wasn't ever really taught to be social. I also spent a fair amount of my childhood with people not understanding what I was saying.

navygirl's photo
Sat 01/25/14 08:45 PM







What if you're blaming the other person for what was actually your fault? This was pretty much the first thought I had when I first saw this thread and it comes back every time I see it come back to the top.


I am not taking the blame for a person with addictions. Any other relationship break up; I will take the blame as I am sure I was equally responsible for it but not for addictions.


What if they were addicted to you? Hmmmmmmmmmm. lol


I doubt any man would be that stupid to be addicted to me. laugh


If a crazy lady on Divorce Court can use her...assets to marry a guy. Then I am sure you could use the same thing to make him addicted to you. Or you could cover your body in drugs so when he smells you he gets high and becomes addicted. That might be easier. hahaha


Isn't that kind of like hanging a pork chop on your neck so the dog will play with you? laugh


Well kind of. Once the pork chop is gone though the dog leaves. If this is done right then the guy won't know where the high came from and his brain will connect it to you so he will be addicted to you. It works in theory anyway. lol


laugh

jacktrades's photo
Sat 01/25/14 08:58 PM
Things have gone wrong but I'm not much of a blamer. I look at it like its life situation and I have to deal with it. Maybe it was my fault because I could not reach them or they didn't feel strongly enough about me to change, whatever the reason I acted accordingly and chalked things up to lesson learned.

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Sun 01/26/14 01:56 PM
I made the mistake of trusting someone who said he loved me and asked me to marry him. After 2 years it became clear he had no intention of marrying me, he wasn't the man I thought he was and started hiding things from me. We parted company.

Beachfarmer's photo
Sun 01/26/14 02:01 PM
Edited by Beachfarmer on Sun 01/26/14 02:02 PM
Try moving from San Diego to Kansas for a (accepting my own extensive faults...but.....) total nut job.

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Sun 01/26/14 02:07 PM
Trust no one. Good philosophy, because most people lie and suck. And not in a good way.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 01/27/14 02:52 AM

Trust no one. Good philosophy, because most people lie and suck. And not in a good way.

How about "you reap what you sow"?
It basically means you're responsible for what you attract, what kind of people cross your path. Law of Attraction.
Just like when you're depressed you won't attract happy, positive people in your life.
If you trust no one, your own Heart is blocked. How do you expect to attract (= meet) nice, trustworthy people if your own heart is blocked?
Basically a path to self-destruct. It'll severely affect the rest of your energy system as well.
You're probably living a self-fulfilling prophecy

larsson71's photo
Mon 01/27/14 03:15 AM





What if you're blaming the other person for what was actually your fault? This was pretty much the first thought I had when I first saw this thread and it comes back every time I see it come back to the top.


I am not taking the blame for a person with addictions. Any other relationship break up; I will take the blame as I am sure I was equally responsible for it but not for addictions.


What if they were addicted to you? Hmmmmmmmmmm. lol


I doubt any man would be that stupid to be addicted to me. laugh


If a crazy lady on Divorce Court can use her...assets to marry a guy. Then I am sure you could use the same thing to make him addicted to you. Or you could cover your body in drugs so when he smells you he gets high and becomes addicted. That might be easier. hahaha
Only you could make someones ex, sound like Towelie from South Park, Izzy? Ha ha

lionsbrew's photo
Mon 01/27/14 03:56 AM
I tend to lay blame on myself for most things that go wrong in my life. I own my dirt the good and the bad.smokin

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Mon 01/27/14 04:24 AM
Edited by Leigh2154 on Mon 01/27/14 04:26 AM

I tend to lay blame on myself for most things that go wrong in my life. I own my dirt the good and the bad.smokin


@ Paint...I tend to trust until someone gives me a reason not to...BTW, the reason has to be pretty damn big too...I think peeps are basically good, not basically evil...I think peeps make mistakes...

@ Crystal...100% believe in "You reap what you sow, 100%....Karma is also a biotch:wink:

@ Smexy pants, that would be you Lionsbrewlaugh ...I always take "my" blame, even when someone has to convince me firstlaugh , but I will not take that which is not mine even when some azzhole is trying to force it down my throat...Doing so would be very unhealthy!bigsmile

waving flowerforyou :heart:

navygirl's photo
Mon 01/27/14 07:44 AM

Trust no one. Good philosophy, because most people lie and suck. And not in a good way.


Agreed. :thumbsup:

longboardernew's photo
Mon 02/03/14 10:53 PM
my ex and it was more cause of her family than anything else

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