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| Topic: Have you ever met someone and it turned out bad b/c of them | |
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Of course when it turned out bad, it was their fault. What other reason could there be??? 
Well, I'm practically perfect in every way, so yeah. 
I thought I was the only perfect person. 
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Dashing hopes and dreams since 1973....
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I've been plotting to take over the world since 1977.
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I got a head start....but I was a late bloomer. I was really, really shy for a long time. Now I'm just anti-social.
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I wasn't ever really taught to be social. I also spent a fair amount of my childhood with people not understanding what I was saying.
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What if you're blaming the other person for what was actually your fault? This was pretty much the first thought I had when I first saw this thread and it comes back every time I see it come back to the top. I am not taking the blame for a person with addictions. Any other relationship break up; I will take the blame as I am sure I was equally responsible for it but not for addictions. What if they were addicted to you? Hmmmmmmmmmm. lol I doubt any man would be that stupid to be addicted to me. 
If a crazy lady on Divorce Court can use her...assets to marry a guy. Then I am sure you could use the same thing to make him addicted to you. Or you could cover your body in drugs so when he smells you he gets high and becomes addicted. That might be easier. hahaha Isn't that kind of like hanging a pork chop on your neck so the dog will play with you?
Well kind of. Once the pork chop is gone though the dog leaves. If this is done right then the guy won't know where the high came from and his brain will connect it to you so he will be addicted to you. It works in theory anyway. lol
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Things have gone wrong but I'm not much of a blamer. I look at it like its life situation and I have to deal with it. Maybe it was my fault because I could not reach them or they didn't feel strongly enough about me to change, whatever the reason I acted accordingly and chalked things up to lesson learned.
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I made the mistake of trusting someone who said he loved me and asked me to marry him. After 2 years it became clear he had no intention of marrying me, he wasn't the man I thought he was and started hiding things from me. We parted company.
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Edited by
Beachfarmer
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Sun 01/26/14 02:02 PM
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Try moving from San Diego to Kansas for a (accepting my own extensive faults...but.....) total nut job.
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Trust no one. Good philosophy, because most people lie and suck. And not in a good way.
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Trust no one. Good philosophy, because most people lie and suck. And not in a good way. How about "you reap what you sow"? It basically means you're responsible for what you attract, what kind of people cross your path. Law of Attraction. Just like when you're depressed you won't attract happy, positive people in your life. If you trust no one, your own Heart is blocked. How do you expect to attract (= meet) nice, trustworthy people if your own heart is blocked? Basically a path to self-destruct. It'll severely affect the rest of your energy system as well. You're probably living a self-fulfilling prophecy |
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What if you're blaming the other person for what was actually your fault? This was pretty much the first thought I had when I first saw this thread and it comes back every time I see it come back to the top. I am not taking the blame for a person with addictions. Any other relationship break up; I will take the blame as I am sure I was equally responsible for it but not for addictions. What if they were addicted to you? Hmmmmmmmmmm. lol I doubt any man would be that stupid to be addicted to me.
If a crazy lady on Divorce Court can use her...assets to marry a guy. Then I am sure you could use the same thing to make him addicted to you. Or you could cover your body in drugs so when he smells you he gets high and becomes addicted. That might be easier. hahaha |
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I tend to lay blame on myself for most things that go wrong in my life. I own my dirt the good and the bad.
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Edited by
Leigh2154
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Mon 01/27/14 04:26 AM
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I tend to lay blame on myself for most things that go wrong in my life. I own my dirt the good and the bad.
@ Paint...I tend to trust until someone gives me a reason not to...BTW, the reason has to be pretty damn big too...I think peeps are basically good, not basically evil...I think peeps make mistakes... @ Crystal...100% believe in "You reap what you sow, 100%....Karma is also a biotch 
@ Smexy pants, that would be you Lionsbrew ...I always take "my" blame, even when someone has to convince me first , but I will not take that which is not mine even when some azzhole is trying to force it down my throat...Doing so would be very unhealthy!
  
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Trust no one. Good philosophy, because most people lie and suck. And not in a good way. Agreed. 
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my ex and it was more cause of her family than anything else
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