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Ha, screw that. I don't pay squat on the first few dates. Just free walks in the park or incidental expenditures when I put together something home made. We lower-classmen aren't made of cash. Not even a cappuccino? 
Lol, well come on, sure! My dates tend to have an organic feel to them. So while I'll have something in particular in mind, there's plenty of leeway. For example, if I go on a hike with someone, I'll usually take pity and get them something to warm them up. Or if they're hungry I'll feed them. But yeah no, my first few dates don't usually cost me a dime. I like to get to know a lot of people and I'd like to do it without breaking my bank, and if that's a problem for a girl, she can take her illogical self to some loser and suck him dry instead (not REMOTELY what I meant, for those of you giggling at that). xD I wasn't even REMOTELY thinking of that, now I am Thanks for that 
*tip of the hat* Always a pleasure to inadvertently introduce raunchy jokes to the discussion. xD Hahaha, I'm with Crystal, I didn't go there, until you did.
I guess I should've directed that comment toward the male population whose minds generally seem more geared in that direction, although my guess is the net result would still be the same and all the normal people would still be like, "ugh...it's too early to be thinking about this...and it always will be too early." xD I thought it was funny....we need more funny on this site, lately so many people have had their boxers and panties in a twist, we need levity, dammit... 
 Levity, damn good word Yolanda, damn good word!!...Merry, merry, happy, happy!! 
Thank you.  
Okay Cardzy, your links are up on the general discussion board. Enjoy! =p By the way, I love the tattoo on your left foot. It definitely doesn't do you a disservice. =) Thank you! I think I'll leave this pic up for a while. I'm feeling charitable.... 
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So if I meet a girl and I want to get to know her the first thing I have to do is make sure I can afford her, why is that? I have to buy a women dinner or take her some place nice and preferably expensive because if I don't she won't even take the time to get to know me. To me, it seems incredibly vein. Ahh but they are worth it..... 
...sometimes. The most I invested in a person as far as dating goes was with a girl who I discovered was playing me and two or three other guys. So never again, I'm going to withhold my investments until I come to know character better. I refuse to be walked on like that by anyone again. Wow, it's hard for me to balance one guy, I can't imagine having more than one. She must have been multi-tasking her butt off.... |
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So if I meet a girl and I want to get to know her the first thing I have to do is make sure I can afford her, why is that? I have to buy a women dinner or take her some place nice and preferably expensive because if I don't she won't even take the time to get to know me. To me, it seems incredibly vein. Ahh but they are worth it.....
...sometimes. The most I invested in a person as far as dating goes was with a girl who I discovered was playing me and two or three other guys. So never again, I'm going to withhold my investments until I come to know character better. I refuse to be walked on like that by anyone again. Wow, it's hard for me to balance one guy, I can't imagine having more than one. She must have been multi-tasking her butt off.... Oh she was, the psycho-hose-beast. I was one of the lucky ones though, it only took me two weeks to catch on so it wasn't as bad for me as it was for one or two other fellas. And Yay! You should definitely keep that picture up. It really is cute. =) |
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So if I meet a girl and I want to get to know her the first thing I have to do is make sure I can afford her, why is that? I have to buy a women dinner or take her some place nice and preferably expensive because if I don't she won't even take the time to get to know me. To me, it seems incredibly vein. Ahh but they are worth it.....
...sometimes. The most I invested in a person as far as dating goes was with a girl who I discovered was playing me and two or three other guys. So never again, I'm going to withhold my investments until I come to know character better. I refuse to be walked on like that by anyone again. Wow, it's hard for me to balance one guy, I can't imagine having more than one. She must have been multi-tasking her butt off.... Oh she was, the psycho-hose-beast. I was one of the lucky ones though, it only took me two weeks to catch on so it wasn't as bad for me as it was for one or two other fellas. And Yay! You should definitely keep that picture up. It really is cute. =) It's official, my two fav expressions will always be, "Break your nuts all over my face" and "psycho-hose-beast." 
But yeah, it's good you got out in time...she sounds like bad news.... Thank you very much, it's one of my fav pics of me. I had one of my legs up the other day, but that not might not be a very good idea...so I took it down...
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So if I meet a girl and I want to get to know her the first thing I have to do is make sure I can afford her, why is that? I have to buy a women dinner or take her some place nice and preferably expensive because if I don't she won't even take the time to get to know me. To me, it seems incredibly vein. Ahh but they are worth it.....
...sometimes. The most I invested in a person as far as dating goes was with a girl who I discovered was playing me and two or three other guys. So never again, I'm going to withhold my investments until I come to know character better. I refuse to be walked on like that by anyone again. Wow, it's hard for me to balance one guy, I can't imagine having more than one. She must have been multi-tasking her butt off.... Oh she was, the psycho-hose-beast. I was one of the lucky ones though, it only took me two weeks to catch on so it wasn't as bad for me as it was for one or two other fellas. And Yay! You should definitely keep that picture up. It really is cute. =) It's official, my two fav expressions will always be, "Break your nuts all over my face" and "psycho-hose-beast."
But yeah, it's good you got out in time...she sounds like bad news.... Thank you very much, it's one of my fav pics of me. I had one of my legs up the other day, but that not might not be a very good idea...so I took it down...
Oh don't worry, I'm sure you'll still get plenty of weird comments from the foot-fetish crowd. Those people are always on the prowl, I swear. hehe |
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Ha, probably. I don't get the intrigue of feet. I mean, I like my own, obviously, but someone else's ew....I do like hands, faces, chests and tummies though...
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Maybe its her way of figuring out how much YOU think she's worth. Either way, if she doesnt want to date you because you dont have enough money to satisfy her, why choose her to persue? Why choose those gals? You seem to have very different values so I cant imagine a relationship would work anyway. This. I will never understand why people waste time on people who aren't interested or with whom they're incompatible. There are soooo many people out there, like seriously. If one doesn't work out, scream "NEXT!" and move on.... |
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Maybe its her way of figuring out how much YOU think she's worth. Either way, if she doesnt want to date you because you dont have enough money to satisfy her, why choose her to persue? Why choose those gals? You seem to have very different values so I cant imagine a relationship would work anyway. This. I will never understand why people waste time on people who aren't interested or with whom they're incompatible. There are soooo many people out there, like seriously. If one doesn't work out, scream "NEXT!" and move on.... A- to the MEN! |
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Maybe its her way of figuring out how much YOU think she's worth. Either way, if she doesnt want to date you because you dont have enough money to satisfy her, why choose her to persue? Why choose those gals? You seem to have very different values so I cant imagine a relationship would work anyway. This. I will never understand why people waste time on people who aren't interested or with whom they're incompatible. There are soooo many people out there, like seriously. If one doesn't work out, scream "NEXT!" and move on.... A- to the MEN! 
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How's this for an answer since the OP is not looking for advice. I am worth so much because I take care of myself. Anything I want or desire I can get for myself. I work hard for it. I enjoy it. Why should I view myself as less to make you feel better? My parents kicked my *** to make sure I did better in school and in life. Some women had **** handed to them. A lot didn't. So there is your answer. 2 reason why women feel they are worth much.
Men are so funny..one complains that women aren't old fashioned enough, then another one comes along {same age} and complains about why women want to be wine and dined {sighs} I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING!! We can't win 
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Alicia Keys - A Woman'S Worth
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HD3GECHaxaI 
....YEAH BABAAAY !
{giggitty}
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Why do women think they are worth so much? If a man takes his car to the car shop, it costs $500 to fix it. If a 'dumb' blond takes her car in, it is $1000. I think men set the prices. |
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well someone has to think we are worth something. .....
so why not me I think I'm worth something 
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CrystalFairy I'm not talking about dating random girls and then getting to know them, I'm talking about taking out girls that the guy already knows. You do realized you judged me when you called me judgmental... welcome to the club. Not even a cappuccino, why should he have to pay at all? Would you go on a date with a guy who expected you to buy him something? no I prefer dates that are not expensive but if a guy asked me out and expected me to pay , it would be the last date |
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Why do women think they are worth so much? If a man takes his car to the car shop, it costs $500 to fix it. If a 'dumb' blond takes her car in, it is $1000. I think men set the prices. therefore they should pay for dates to make for the difference and the dishonesty I simply will not date a man who has an issue with picking up the tab...also will not date a guy who will not let ME treat if I am so inclined |
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navygirl
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Sun 12/22/13 02:15 PM
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So if I meet a girl and I want to get to know her the first thing I have to do is make sure I can afford her, why is that? I have to buy a women dinner or take her some place nice and preferably expensive because if I don't she won't even take the time to get to know me. To me, it seems incredibly vein. I can't say I am like that. I have never liked a man trying to buy my love which is why I can't stand expensive dinners or gifts either. Some women are certainly obsessed with a man's wealth but to be fair some men are obsessed with a woman's looks and won't give her the time of day if she isn't pretty enough. Sad that our society is brainwashed that way. For the record; I don't think I am worth that much either.
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How's this for an answer since the OP is not looking for advice. I am worth so much because I take care of myself. Anything I want or desire I can get for myself. I work hard for it. I enjoy it. Why should I view myself as less to make you feel better? My parents kicked my *** to make sure I did better in school and in life. Some women had **** handed to them. A lot didn't. So there is your answer. 2 reason why women feel they are worth much.
Men are so funny..one complains that women aren't old fashioned enough, then another one comes along {same age} and complains about why women want to be wine and dined {sighs} This is so true. I have mentioned this problem on several threads here on Mingles. They can't seem to make up their minds on what they want. LOL |
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I will love that so much
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I assume I will be buying my own unless he insists and only after the first date.
I def buy my own on the first date so theres no expectations of me
Sad to say but some men do that. |
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I def buy my own on the first date so theres no expectations of me
Sad to say but some men do that. Yep; a lot more than you know do that. |
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