Hi there,
Please could you rate me and advise accordingly.

Thanks

For starters, maybe a picture of you,by yourself

Welcome to Mingle2

hi cn we b frnz

Yes , A pic of yourself wud b appreciated as unable to determine who to focus on ?

oh...and watch out for scammers.

Mazzie76! a picture with someone ELSE in the shot?
What if the guy chose the OTHER chick?

Both of the ladies are cuties, but Show the man what he's won, darlin' !

and add more then one pic!

Welcome to Mingle

Maybe more pics of yourself would help your profile......

As everyone else said, more pics, specifically ones of just you....group photos are very confusing on a dating site...

Also, you don't say what kind of guy you're looking for, that might be helpful to any potential date...

Good luck to you

The pic is on but how do I block people esp people who send hurtful and degrading messages.
I don't want to delete my profile but I don't want to be receiving mail like this either.

Please advise!!
Thanks.

What kind of scammers?!
Thanks

I have updated my profile, thanks everyone for your time. Xx

There's a report button on everyone's profile. You can also block emails from certain people from the mail screen- select the email, scroll down and click "block selected"

I'd try to put some more thought in your text. Usually these things develop over time, but now you just have summaries of who you are and what you want. Summaries are not very appealing nor interesting to read.
Remember having to peruse lists at school and how you felt about that? Kind of like "Sigh ... do I have to?"

So many of these words and phrases are self-explanatory and thus redundant:
- Honest - everyone says they're honest and everyone is looking for someone honest. No one is looking for an @sshole, liar or cheater
- Happy go lucky - about 99% of the ppl on a dating site says so. Doesn't make you stand out.

And so on ... So try to avoid the superficial, overused words & phrases and come up with something more erm ... you, something with zest. (You're Scottish aren't you? Then surely you can put yourself on the map! Lol)

Pictures with another woman is not smart. Which one is you and like Paintecards said, guys might ask you about the other girl!

Thanks all have been changed and updated.
Ignorant person blocked.

Thanks again!

please could you advise further I honestly don't know what to say on this. First time trying internet dating.

Thank you. X

Like you I find it hard to write a profile. I still haven't...lol I have however asked several of my friends to help me out. I've asked them to tell me how they would describe me to someone if they were going to set me up on a date. I know how I see myself but how others perceive you may be helpful. Good Luck!

Thanks and good luck in finding mr right. Xx

For a gal who is just cute as can be I think you are setting yourself up for abuse.

If you like cheeky exchanges in person you have the advantage to seeing and being able to limit things that you don't when you use some of the phrases you used. On line you give and inch often people who replay will take the reins and run with it.

,Kind of the same story with the sprawled on the bed sporting the cleavage lead shot. It is great color contrast but you might want to change the location. Guys have great ability to imagine the bedroom.

And as unfair as it is the fact that your profession (which is such a demanding and truly difficult job to be really talented at besides being such a blessing to us that have physical conditions that make that talent a necessity)you might want to say health professional.
You will get the same respect and when you have weeded out the perverts you can tell them details.

I agree with the comments about personality trait words in a profile. Most really don't give anything to start a conversation with but if you reference specific interests that show those traits then it kick starts conversation and responses with people who want more that a cute female.

Welcome to Mingle. Jump in the forums and people will have more opportunities to see you. Good Luck.

If knowing anything at all were a prerequisite
of dating sites, everyone would be bowling instead.

You have already found the forums, so your short-term
work is done.

Now, patience and putting your opinions up is all
that is needed.

Best of luck, oh and nice profile :-)

I Like....


just be you and things will be fine.....




tammy