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Topic: Can you fall in love with someone you have never seen before
Imaani's photo
Sun 12/08/13 09:33 AM
I'm not sure how unseen love actually works. Highly confused as to if it actually exists and if people have the patience and trust to build such a relationship is something I have always been intrigued about.. Please feel free to shed some light onto such a topic.

msharmony's photo
Sun 12/08/13 09:34 AM
blind people are able to fall n love with people they haven't 'seen'

there are many ways to get to know and therefore fall for someone without having to see them,,,,,it just requires that you are receiving an honest and genuine representation from that person of who they are

Imaani's photo
Sun 12/08/13 09:42 AM
Thanks for that. Yes your right people with visual impairments do have emotions and feelings, therefore they do fall in love. Hmm interesting stuff, but what about two individuals who are not visually impaired, but they have never seen each other, however continue to communicate- could love be present there??

no photo
Sun 12/08/13 09:43 AM
Edited by realcarebear on Sun 12/08/13 09:44 AM
Id say it happens but its rare. Its mostly likely your falling for a fantasy tho.
you can give all your heart to someone and they can throw it to the trash. I say do it anyways. Nothing ventured nothing gained.

msharmony's photo
Sun 12/08/13 09:48 AM

Thanks for that. Yes your right people with visual impairments do have emotions and feelings, therefore they do fall in love. Hmm interesting stuff, but what about two individuals who are not visually impaired, but they have never seen each other, however continue to communicate- could love be present there??



I believe all that is necessary is honest communication , whether in person or online, to fall for someone

love can develop

Lemonidas's photo
Sun 12/08/13 09:52 AM
It's hard to distinguish however who is honest and who is not when the only means of communication is simply a text chat. In my opinion its impossible to fall in love over only a chat, it is possible to become enthusiastic about a person however.

If that enthusiasm leads to love afterwards, its possible, but not guaranteed.

cha7385's photo
Mon 12/09/13 05:32 AM
there's a chance that you'll develop feelings to person u haven't seen nor met. its about the connection you share in every conversations you have.falling in love is unexpected. its a process. it develops through time, conversation and experiences shared.

lipkissable's photo
Mon 12/09/13 08:42 AM
Maybe u can if your looking at a photo of her or him

no photo
Mon 12/09/13 10:29 AM
It is very possible. It all depends on how much you trust that person...

larsson71's photo
Mon 12/09/13 10:44 AM
Did that before and thought they were ok, then you seen another side of them that told me ' Nah, this ain't for me! ' Best sticking to people you can see, or jump in the Car and visit with ease! :smile:

no photo
Mon 12/09/13 12:50 PM
It is possible if you believe they are genuine...

flowerforyou

oldhippie1952's photo
Mon 12/09/13 01:11 PM
You can fall in love with someone you have never met. Your mind builds images of what they are like based on your conversations with them. Like msharmony said, blind people fall in love...

luvmeforlife's photo
Mon 12/09/13 01:13 PM
Edited by luvmeforlife on Mon 12/09/13 01:14 PM
yes, but you can also fall out of love just as easily as when you fell in love the second you see them.

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Mon 12/09/13 01:18 PM

You can fall in love with someone you have never met. Your mind builds images of what they are like based on your conversations with them. Like msharmony said, blind people fall in love...


I don't think it can actually be love until you actually meet, though, whether you can see or not. What you think they're like may be different in person.

no photo
Mon 12/09/13 01:31 PM


You can fall in love with someone you have never met. Your mind builds images of what they are like based on your conversations with them. Like msharmony said, blind people fall in love...


I don't think it can actually be love until you actually meet, though, whether you can see or not. What you think they're like may be different in person.


They usually are; I think what most people "fall in love with" is their idea of the person. And when they meet, sometimes the idea is accurate, sometimes it's not. Once I talked to a guy for over a year, thought he was amazing, thought we had great chemistry, blah blah. Finally met him in person, and he felt the same way about me, but for me there was absolutely nothing there. We eventually broke up after a few months; I tried but it just didn't work.

Duttoneer's photo
Mon 12/09/13 01:44 PM
As others have said It's communication, whether in person or on line, and if there is a connection between two people the relationship will move forward in my opinion.
Is love present before they physically meet in person? If they have only been in contact with one another for a week or so and they are meeting locally for a date, then I think probably very unlikely. If they live thousands of miles apart and have been in contact with each other for months, may be over a year, by emails and Skype calls in a long distance relationship that has become exclusive for them both, then I think it is very likely that love exists between them. This is just my opinion.

Toks88's photo
Mon 12/09/13 01:44 PM

You can fall in love with someone you have never met. Your mind builds images of what they are like based on your conversations with them. Like msharmony said, blind people fall in love...


Matured man!.

Toks88's photo
Mon 12/09/13 02:25 PM
Edited by Toks88 on Mon 12/09/13 02:29 PM
I can love someone I've not seen in person if truely whom she said she is in writen words is whom she is. Even when she claims to be whom she isnt, conversation must prove the original her. But, it takes time to notice the behaviour of the person because any devil person can post something nice on here.
Like oldhippie1952 said; your mind builds images of what they are like based on your conversations with them.

Conrad_73's photo
Mon 12/09/13 02:31 PM

I'm not sure how unseen love actually works. Highly confused as to if it actually exists and if people have the patience and trust to build such a relationship is something I have always been intrigued about.. Please feel free to shed some light onto such a topic.

It would probably maybe more the idealized Concept you have of that Person!

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Mon 12/09/13 03:32 PM
I believe in love at first site to some degree, but not love at first notion.

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