Crystal thank u for sticking up for me u think I'd get a break after I told everyone that I'd misunderstood the topic. I think its because all the other post were people judging for the pics and not the profile so I assumed it was for pics. But after correcting myself and completing my profile they ur still taking jabs. But its okay I'm not insecure and I'm not concieted either. And I've dealt with jealous woman my entire life. My best friend of 5 yes told me she no longer wanted to go out with me because she was sick of my getting all the numbers. I told her its because I'm confident in myself as a person and that's y I get hit on more. She's just as pretty as me but I do get hit on more and its because I have the confidence to walk up to a guy and start a convo.

Well i enjoyed them like 5 minutes ago...
{eyebrows going up and down}
lol


SHHHHHhhhhh !

You're welcome.
And welcome at Mingle, good luck!

@ @

Well this is an online site. Those pictures may or may not be you. Thats why the personality is so important at least to me. With the question about making oneself look sexier. Thats actually a really tough question because one has to really get to know a person for a short time before they can know exactly the qualities that make a person sexy and how to bring out those in photos can take a little time. I'd say though being the you that you are and owning yourself is most important.

The corvette tho as far as cars go is drop dead sexxy.

I guess I shoulda known
By the way you parked your car sideways
That it wouldn't last

See you're the kinda person
That believes in makin' out once
Love 'em and leave 'em fast

I guess I must be dumb
Cause you had a pocket full of horses
Trojan and some of them used

But it was Saturday night
I guess that makes it all right
And you say what have I got to lose?
And honey I say

Little red corvette
Baby you're much to fast
Little red corvette
You need a love that's gonna last

I guess I shoulda closed my eyes
When you drove me to the place
Where your horses run free

Cause I felt a little I'll
When I saw all the pictures
Of the jockeys that were there before me

Believe it or not
I started to worry
I wondered if I had enough class

But it was Saturday night
I guess that makes it all right
And you say, "Baby, have you got enough gas?"
Oh yeah

Little red corvette
Baby you're much to fast, yes you are
Little red corvette
You need to find a love that's gonna last

A body like yours (a body like yours)
Oughta be in jail (oughta be in jail)
Cause it's on the verge of bein obscene
(Cause it's on the verge of bein obscene)

Move over baby (move over baby)
Gimme the keys (gimme the keys)
I'm gonna try to tame your little red love machine
(I'm gonna try to tame your little red love machine)

Little red corvette
Baby you're much to fast
Little red corvette
You need to find a love that's gonna last

Little red corvette
Honey you got to slow down (got to slow down)
Little red corvette
Cause if you don't you gonna run your
Little red corvette right in the ground

(Little red corvette)
Right down to the ground (honey you got to slow down)
You, you, you got to slow down (little red corvette)
You're movin much to fast (to fast)
You need to find a love that's gonna last

Girl, you got an *** like I never seen
And the ride...
I say the ride is so smooth
You must be a limousine

Baby you're much 2 fast
Little red corvette
U need a love, u need a love that's
That's gonna last
(Little red corvette)
U got 2 slow down (u got 2 slow down)
Little red corvette

Cuz if u don't, cuz if u don't,
U gonna run your body right into the ground (right into the ground)
Right into the ground (right into the ground)
Right into the ground (right into the ground)

Little red corvette

Just be yourself kiddo, the rest will follow.

Hopefully you'll join in the forums and get a feel for mingle.

Great place great people.

This is true, about getting to know someone's personality online, not just their good looks. I know a guy who is hot as hell, but he's proven to be a real *******, so yeah....

Your beautiful! Work it girl!

Have fun!

Girl you are to me,all that a woman should be

I don't see begging for attention as confident. I don't see blaming failed relationships as jealousy as confident. Maybe poor social instruction, selective hearing, or just associating with other people who back only their judgment/values as flagging self esteem.

I would however take a series of people in my young life; especially an equally pretty friend of 5 years, telling me they are offended by behavior so aggressive that I walked away with a pocket full of numbers, not a great validation of ones value, to the exclusion of my peers as an honest check on behavior that is going to end up with me having no friends and men who value me on looks alone as valuable input. Painful yes; true friends and real boyfriends walking away can't be easy.

Telling someone so insecure, or full of themselves, they are begging for validation that they are gorgeous, hot, sexy that they are average, a truth, or less than perfection, another truth, as being jealous or being a "B" is missing the point that she ask for an opinion making it very clear what she wanted to hear. Pouting or arguing with questionable logic when you don't hear what you want doesn't sound confident either.

Confident is asking for advice; listening to it thoughtfully, acknowledging that people took the time to respond, maybe even asking for further explanation to anything you do not understand, and then moving on from the experience.

And being told her looks are average is not and insult. Neither is telling someone her focus is off the mark. Many have told her she is desirable on a physical basis only and I don't see that as a bad thing. Not the most important thing just factor.

Should anyone feel stupid for a flub on format? No.

Should they be a little less hard on themself and value themself for way more than something than what they fell into by birth? Yea I think so.

Especially when beauty is VERY subjective, only skin deep, and by the very nature of time passing will fade if it is only based on a person being able to wear a certain size, do a certain level of performance, or stimulate a certain response based on sexual desire alone, or because it fits into a strict commercial definition in popular society.

Is OP a pretty woman? Yes. With a little training and style tips I would say she could actually capitalize on her blessings in a very positive way. Developing a little insight from this experience could go a long way toward that goal. It is not always the people who are cheerleading what you have always done that didn't work are who you want to listen to.

you are beautiful

You are still in great shape.

Great comment!

No baby you are fantastic. Should be more ladies posting more pics. Love your confidence, would be better to enlarge on your profile, give the boys something more going in. We don't get unlimited messages. Harry

I agree with rko & PacificStar: She is ok, but not super pretty, but not un-attractive either. She should do ok at the beach in Boston, BUT, I am just trying to figure out what country she is from? If she doesn't want to be a piece of meat (sex only) she should save the 2-pic photos for her date.

hi I'm a 49 year old male single I would say your pictures yes they look at bridge but to the right person you're the most beautiful girl in the world but to others your average two other people could be just are young girl

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