The second and third pic keep ... Get rid of the rest :) ur very pretty! But please don't post pics of ur body u will attract nothing but douchebags on this site! Or maybe ur into that ... Just be careful girlie! And good luck :)

That's kind of the gist of the "rate my profile" forum...to rate the profile, pics only being part of that, and there is no profile to rate at this time, which is fine for now as these things are always a work in progress anyway.

Although you are a cute girl, I would have to agree with what someone said earlier about seeming insecure. You seem like a nice girl so far, but it seems as you worry about and look far too much for the shallow and cosmetic appreciation from others. Don't worry so much about what others think of your looks, and look for those that want to be around you because you are a good person, are smart, funny, nice, etc. When you shine from the inside, you shine on the outside.

Hello and welcome to Mingle2.

On a scale of 1-10 I'm saying 8 which is above average. Now your personality and how you carry yourself give you the potential for a 10. But I don't know you so just remember misery loves company don't let others dictate how you feel, your hot, got mad sex appeal.

Omg! I had no idea the beach is indoors!?!

Half dressed pics will attract the wrong crowd!

We are rating your pics because there's nothing else to rate-no text!

Well,goodluck to you!

just another pretty face.....
{snicker}

Hi JadeViolet,

You don't have to dwell on the criticism you've gotten, but everybody seems to want to help you. The pictures are good, and they are a very important part of your profile, but you still have work to do.

You left out all the information that might help us appreciate you as a person, and even start a conversation. For starters, you could have entered the text you used in your opening post of this thread and that would have help a lot! Also, do us all a favor and fill in the other information, like your interests, more text for the 'blurb' saying what you're like and what kind of man you seek.

As for the criticism for what you wear in your pictures, you could be more selective, but if those are the kind of clothes you like to wear, then go ahead and leave them up. I think they're nice, and even if they do attract ill-mannered guys, then you'll figure it out soon enough. You're young and can still have fun with it.

Lastly, I'd like to say that you should have put more work into your profile before asking advice on it, and also the sideways photos are a pet peeve of mine. You're still clearly an attractive, young woman, so you should be fine. That said, for a rating, subtracting for the completely lacking text, and the few sideways pictures, I rate the profile 6/10.

Good luck!

I feel stupid because I thoutht this was one of those rate what u look like n a scale of 1 to 10. After reading one of the post I soon realized it meant the entire profile I didn't see the other portion as I just joined so I will fill it outasap. As far as the comments regarding me being insecure well i didn't want to come off that wat but after being verbally abused and constantly put down the few months before I broke up w my ex I guess its just nice to be told nice things. And as far as the smartass that made that comment about the beach the point I was trying to make was if people can go to the beach and see girls in their bikinis why is it such a problem to see a girl in their bikini in a pic online. JM not nude I'm not showing huge amounts of t and a. And I agree personality matters but u have to be attracted physically for there to be any real chemistry let's get real people.

I'm probably the only person on this site who will agree with you on this. I tell people all the time that looks get interest, personality keeps it, but no one wants to accept that. Hooray for idealism.

I would say beauty is in the eye of the beholder. A skinny girl could be beautiful to someone and someone else may have a preference to someone chubby.

Coming back to rating your pics, I would say you look amazing. Only one thing which I find so hard to believe is why would someone looking so gorgeous be on such a site.

There is more to beauty than what we see...

Yeah you're beautiful...

I think where this rating of your profile went sort of sour, is the fact that you put a lot of emphasis on beauty and your looks, plus your first posting feels like "Please look at me and tell me how gorgeous I am!" The title you choose says the same thing.

Yes, you are a pretty girl, but do you want to attract men only with your looks or would you like a guy who's also interested in you?
I'm not judging, if that's what you want, fair enough. Sure men will love it, including (especially?) the creepy ones. But like Mortman said, you'll find out soon enough yourself if this is the case or not.
It's trial and error anyways and it does depend on what you are looking for. Maybe right now you need to hear that you are beautiful, so who are we to judge.

If you are looking for a serious man/relationship, I'd add a bit more text. And in that case, I'd dump the half naked pictures too and the one with the white baggy dress. The other piccies are great!

Good luck

I don't think you fully understand what "rate my profile" means. It means look at the overall picture (not just looks) and comment on what might need improvement. Your looks are fine. Much of the rest of your profile is empty. I think the comments you misunderstand are the ones telling you to focus on the "inner" and not so much on the "outer" you.

True. It's a major turnoff to me when a guy refers to himself as hot. Even if he is, I'm like ew. Modesty is sexy.

Ha, because only ugly people join dating sites....

You mean,only the outwardly "ugly" should be/would be on "such a site"??

Trust me, you're gonna get plenty of willing men banging down your door to get a date with you, but don't look to random strangers on here for validation if you're not completely prepared for an honest (or soul-crushingly critical) answer.

Best advice I can give, since I used to be that way myself to a certain degree until I realized what I need is just a few faithful followers rather than a wealth of false friends to validate my existence.

And I kinda hate to say it, but....yeah you do seem a bit on the insecure side.

don't focus on finding the right man, focus on being the right woman, and the right man will reveal himself.

May your heart always be in the right place and your actions follow through.

I've got to say that I cannot believe some of the comments in here.
Maybe people should ask themselves why they react like a total @ss or b**ch when a pretty girl posts pictures. Do you have such low self-esteem that you feel threatened by a young, good-looking girl?

Is it really necessary to start tearing her apart? How would YOU feel if we had a look at your pictures and do the same thing? And believe me, I can tear anyone apart just the same, especially as most don't have the looks or body that this girl has.
Does she need to be 'punished' for looking good because you can't handle not looking so good or being older?
If you feel that way, you might wanna do some serious soul searching!

Can we please remain respectful and not get totally ridiculous because of a pretty face and body?
She came here as a new member, why can't she be welcomed like others? She said she misunderstood this rating topic, leave it at that and come up with something constructive OR shut your gob!

How a woman looks on the outside is important to most women, as - rightly or wrongly - the world grooms them to place appearance extremely highly. It naturally follows that ladies like feedback as to how they look. I personally worry for someone who does it on a public forum, but I salute the bravery.

All of our life experiences are limited, and sometimes we don't learn the right lessons. Yet, one of my own observations is that attractive women tend to be very picky about how they look and almost invariably very self-critical. Much more so then those not so blessed in physical experience.

I don't believe in scoring physical appearance, particularly as much of it is emotive. For example, and not referring to this lady, I don't like giant bottoms, yet in one culture such is a thing of great beauty. Both are valid views.

Whilst my own photos are extremely unlikely to attract any female, if I go to a party I quickly have some woman latch onto me. Electricity, humour, and a whole host of things can often outweigh physical attributes. I think that such works both ways. I like energy, intelligence, wit, sparkling eyes and overall fitness. Again things which often do not come over well in photographs.

Turning the subject slightly: When relationships fail one can often search for answers in the wrong places - is it how I looked, didn't I do the right things to make him / her happy etc?

Finally, on some level or other most of us are insecure. It's good to recognise that in others and try to boost their confidence. Being critical is perhaps not the best way to achieve this.

Hey Jade ... Well, if nothing else you got a taste of forum life ... It will go down easier if you add a teaspoon of sugar ... Since you thought the "Rate My Profile" meant pics only, I'll just stick to that...You have a beautiful smile, a fabulous figure, and a nice, err, umm, bum ... Your hair is to die for and you look great in jeans ... Welcome to Mingle! ... Luck, love, and happiness!