Now I regret I've seen things I shouldn't have,but what if its Gods way o opening my eyes

Thats just about as bad as going through a womans' phone or purse.

I wouldn't do it.

Better not! Lol

Its a very bad idea..going through someones phone could break up the relationship..but them again..what you may find on that phone could as well

Yeah!that's unhealthy boundaries,and your not
respecting someone else.

I really would not.
I would expect the same respect

I don't have a cell phone anymore. When I did the women I was with could've gone through it at any time and I really wouldn't have cared. Now I never went through my women's phones either. If she was hiding something I'd prefer if she told me herself. Those who know me know I respect that kind of honesty good or bad. Finding out third party or from having to snoop around just shows paranoia, low self esteem, and a lack of trust. In short its not manly.

i don't lyk doing it and i don't lyk him going thru mine. it makes u start imagining things dat at times are false especially wen u suspicious.

I wouldn't go through anyone's phone. As for my phone; I could care less who goes through it as I don't keep an pics on it except for one of me in uniform, and delete all messages( phone and text) from my phone, so nothing exciting on my phone.

Um, yeah, that's usually what happens when you violate someone's privacy....if you're with someone that you don't trust, you need to rethink your relationship, not go snooping through their things.

No it's no wise but then again, if the relationship is solid, there shouldn't be anything on that phone either.
Thing is, once you start doing stuff like that, you are the one that's suffering, because as soon as you allow the roller-coaster of suspicion to take off, there's no easy way of stopping it. You'll drive yourself nuts.
If you suspect something is wrong, it's better to cut the crap and start talking (mind you, TALKING, not accusing and shouting)

Good luck

"What if it's God's way?" is the lamest excuse resorted to by people that do unjustifiable and stupid things.

I don't really even use a mobile phone but wouldn't want anyone going through my computer looking for stuff. It's spying and a violation of my privacy. No better than theiving really. There's no need for it really anyway because I'm pretty honest anyway and if they can't trust me, then that's their problem. Frankly, if I've got a steady girlfriend I've got better things to do with my time than chatting up other women. One woman sort of guy here, believe it or not.

Many say no you should not and I do agree with that to a certain extent...

But.......when the trust has been broken and you know that they are doing something they should not be doing I feel it is open to look..

I have never looked in a phone, billfold, or computer of the one I was with till I knew deep down they were up to something..

My gut has yet to fail me on those thoughts.....

But as long as you trust them, then no you should not...

It all depends on the circumstances of what is going on...

It's never a good thing to invade another person's privacy...If trust is broken, resorting to dishonesty to validate/confirm suspicions is not going to fix the relationship....

I wouldn't go through a womans phone or computer, as some things should stay private and that goes for my phone and computer also! I have caught women going through my phone before though and it wasn't because i'd given them any doubts, or reasons to, it was because they were just being nosy, as some people are just like that!

No it will not fix the situation it will confirm that they are not being faithful and it is time to move on...

I'm one of those that I will do what ever is needed to make a relationship work... But also one that at times I have to find out for myself what others have told me and must confirm it myself before I throw in the towel.....I want proof not just speculation...

And have never done it unless I was given one hell of a reason to do so...

As far as just doing it no I have not..

Yeah, I hear that...But if you're wrong, then what?...If my guy goes through my personal stuff behind my back because he suspects something or worse, has been told something by someone else, instead of confronting me, he's not the guy for me anyway...Plus, if he's deceiving me in any way, the "towel" has already been thrown in......by him....

I think if there is suspicion there in the first place theres a much bigger underlying problem that needs to be addressed. Looking in the phone will more than likely make everything worse.

I never would go through a man's phone. Ever. I see it as invading his private space. It's HIS phone, so if I saw anything dodgy going on, it would be my own fault, for looking through it.