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Topic: Do guys like single moms?should I tell them in my profile?
EmmieK Joined Tue 10/22/13 Posts: 13	Tue 10/22/13 10:35 AM
does mentioning you are a single mom scare guys off or is it a good thing to tell them first thing on your profile?

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Tue 10/22/13 10:39 AM
not sure why it would scare a guy off but yeah,you oughta put it in your profile,if you don't already have it in there

EmmieK Joined Tue 10/22/13 Posts: 13	Tue 10/22/13 10:47 AM
yeah its in there but no ones talking to me and I figured maybe it scared them off

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Tue 10/22/13 10:51 AM
yeah i looked after i posted that.you might also want to add more info,like what you're looking for in a guy,your interests,...etc those kind of things would help out a bit

Dani3082 Joined Tue 04/23/13 Posts: 32	Tue 10/22/13 10:55 AM
If you being a single mom scares a dude off,its his problem not yours

EmmieK Joined Tue 10/22/13 Posts: 13	Tue 10/22/13 10:55 AM
If you being a single mom scares a dude off,its his problem not yours thanks

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Tue 10/22/13 12:10 PM
There's a section on the profile for whether or not you have kids, so if you fill out that section, they already know. You don't have to go into details on your profile. As for whether it turns guys off or not, I know there are a lot of guys who are willing to date a woman with kids, just like there are women who are willing to date a guy with kids. Good luck to you.

sparkyae5 Joined Thu 03/28/13 Posts: 1595	Tue 10/22/13 12:13 PM
honesty is always best.....up date the picture,,, guys like eye candy..........keep positive,,negativity turns guys off..............

metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Tue 10/22/13 12:15 PM
There are several answers to your question. If you are just looking for a date, it probably won't matter. If you are looking for a long term relationship, it will matter to some and not to others. If you are looking for a husband, it will matter a lot. Since the ones who will run at the mention of a child are not the ones you would probably be interested in, you should tell everyone.

katskary Joined Mon 08/26/13 Posts: 178	Tue 10/22/13 12:42 PM
does mentioning you are a single mom scare guys off or is it a good thing to tell them first thing on your profile? am a single mom to and at first i thought it would scare guys away but i still went ahead and mentioned it in ma profile coz i believe in honesty and i have found friends and some who picked interest. there are guys who really don't mind it just be patient

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Tue 10/22/13 01:16 PM
yeah its in there but no ones talking to me and I figured maybe it scared them off Did it ever occur to you that something else may be preventing you from receiving the attention that you want from men on this site?

Truelove57 Joined Tue 10/30/12 Posts: 7	Tue 10/22/13 01:41 PM
HONESTY PAYS, ALWAYS BE TRUTHFUL, A MAN WHO WILL LOVE U WILL ALWAYS LOVE U?

Ianjames1912 Joined Tue 10/15/13 Posts: 8	Tue 10/22/13 01:48 PM
Not at all. Does being a single father scare women off ?

EmmieK Joined Tue 10/22/13 Posts: 13	Tue 10/22/13 02:17 PM
yeah its in there but no ones talking to me and I figured maybe it scared them off Did it ever occur to you that something else may be preventing you from receiving the attention that you want from men on this site? like what?

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Tue 10/22/13 02:58 PM
I don't see the point of withholding that sort of information, people are going to find out anyway if you start really interacting/meeting. If you have kids, just say you have kids, anyone who minds isn't the sort of person you need to be dating anyway.

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Tue 10/22/13 02:59 PM
Not at all. Does being a single father scare women off ? Some women aren't interested in dating men with kids, you just find the ones who are.

mr romantic Joined Fri 07/22/11 Posts: 2	Tue 10/22/13 03:30 PM Edited by mr romantic on Tue 10/22/13 03:31 PM
you dont have to tell them straight off depends how you feel let your personality shine through first then when the times right just be honest no shame in being a single mum

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Tue 10/22/13 03:40 PM
you dont have to tell them straight off depends how you feel let your personality shine through first then when the times right just be honest no shame in being a single mum Why should she hide the fact that she has children? You're saying she should't be ashamed of her kids, but you're telling her not to admit she has them.....I don't see the point of misleading someone with that sort of information; good personality or not, you shouldn't lie about something like that.

JOHNN111 Joined Wed 05/13/09 Posts: 9273	Tue 10/22/13 03:53 PM
I'm assuming that's the childs father in your pictures? I'd change this up a little "Her father is not in the picture at the moment. I am looking for a friend who will listen to me and likes kids." I've dated women with children... Kids aren't the problem The breakups are brutal for him if he gets attached to your kids I'd have a hard time getting the relationship going to be honest... but only cause I've been there... twice! Good luck

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Tue 10/22/13 04:53 PM
Yes, because it would eliminate the men who aren't looking for a relationship with single moms.Most of the women I have dated had kids no worries, you'll find someone nice.