I don't think its wise to keep children from a parent unless the parent is abusing the child,,,,

plenty of awful spouses are still great parents,, and vice versa

lousy parents can be great spouses,,,,


let the relationships be separate, give them their own separate status ,,,,,and if the father child relationship becomes a harm to the child than and only then do I think it makes sense to protect the child from that parent

I'm assuming that's the childs father in your pictures?

I'd change this up a little

"Her father is not in the picture at the moment. I am looking for a friend who will listen to me and likes kids."



I've dated women with children... Kids aren't the problem
The breakups are brutal for him if he gets attached to your kids
I'd have a hard time getting the relationship going to be honest... but only cause I've been there... twice!

Good luck

Why should a little girl be deprived of her sibling because of a mistake that their mothers made?

Did it ever occur to you that something else may be preventing you from receiving the attention that you want from men on this site?

Situation isn't clear to me. Who is under a year, your daughter or the other girl?
Your ex has only seen your daughter twice or the other girl?

All in all I wouldn't let my little girl go on her own if I wasn't comfortable with the situation, by which I mean concern about your DAUGHTER's well-being, not your own comfort.
As a parent you gotta learn to separate those two. There will be plenty more situations where you'd rather not go or be in, but will have to for you girl's well-being. That's more important than your own comfort.
So do you want to leave your girl on her own and hope for the best, as young as she is, cos you can't control yourself around your ex ? Or do you want (and need) to be there for your girl to make sure she's okay?
What you think is more important?

If you being a single mom scares a dude off,its his problem not yours