Hey

Of course you should tell (doh).

But personally, I usually stay away from single mums - not because of the kids, but because I`m scared that if things get though in our relationship, she will just give up.. don`t want to waste time on that. I have never given up on a relationship myself, even when it almost got the best of me, so I deserve better.

so I have a lil boy, I tell people I have a son upfront, and heres where the problem starts, they say their all cool wit it and oh I love kids, but then when my son gets my attention more than the guy, he acts nuts. esp. men w/o kids! im like I told u upfront got a son, im n school getting my degree, and workin on weekends, tryin put food on the table and all the normal daily stuff that's gotta be done. ive pretty much quit lookin at guys my own age, I cant deal wit anymore immature males. (done wit my story, lol)

I'm a little out of your age range to send a personal message but I would like to talk. I'm a widowed dad and I know how hard things can be.

A women having a child to me it shows that she is more mature than a lot of these women without children. You ladies ought to look fpr an older man who is not afraid tp step up to the plate. God bless you all

tonilynn87, if a man doesn't understand that your son has first priority, then that man isn't worth your time.

What did you guys do, scare the poor thing? LOL

blood thristy hoo dogs lol

Lol mg,why!did she deactivate?

This is my first night on..just wanted to say hey back.

Maybe she got the answer she wanted and left....

Hi painte!

She did too, she's a "suicide girl";they're volatile.lol
Yes,got the answer she wanted and now she will go
throw it in her bf face; who knows...

Hi Pony, yep she hung in there as long as she could then out the ole escape hatch.

Hi pony.

being urself is best be proud of ur kids, just put it in ur profil,wat i tink is often a problem with most single moms and dads should be impatience,lack of trust,being bossy,lazines,perfectionsm, etc old atitudes which is ofen trsfd into new rltions

let's strike a sincere balance here, if a single dad tells a woman that a kid of his was left 4 him by a former wife and though need a new mate but sncely will want his new mate to know bout his duty 2wards his kids will she understand nd acept?

Why can`t you people just accept that fact you`re too weak for a serious relationship? This tread is just stupid, same with your stupid comments. Every time you give up on a relationship, you are back at square one, you`ve waste more time - why do you still live your life this way? It`s stupid, you are only wasting each others time.

Must put in the profile the true status so that won't waste time chatting each other but then the man/woman don't like him/her have child/children with their past partners.

Must put in the profile the true status so that won't waste time, effort, money, etc. chatting each other but then the man/woman don't like him/her have child/children with their past partners, can't hide it forever anyway. This is for those who wan't to build a deeper relationship not just for sex or for fun. Not just for a one night stand or a very short time but for those who longs for a lifetime relationship & companionship. Being honest what makes it to begin a relationship and trust and love grows. Hope I say it right...;-)

In my own opinion as a filipina and base on our culture that our folks lives with us in our home and we take care of them when they are very old. What I want to say is in my case that I have 3 children that if ever one is interested on me specialy if he doesn't have a child of his own should show love and kindness to my children so that they will love him back like their own father and would care him when he gets old and will not abandon him or leave him in his old days.