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What do you think?
Am I being unfair to a woman I am going to marry? I do not love her currently, but I know I will. So is this unfair of me? Don't flame me too hard.... |
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I'm going to put this as delicately as I can Old Hippie. You are not only being unfair, you are being untruthful, unless you have told her this and she is willing to marry you anyway. Good luck whatever decision you finally make.
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Not quite sure I get your statement. Is it a "what if" statement or for real?
Anyhow, why marry someone when you don't love her? Loneliness, convenience?? If she loves you, it isn't right. And it's not the right thing to do to yourself either. |
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Marriage should be a union between two people that are in love... It would not only be unfair to her but to you as well.
Guess it all depends why you would marry someone your not in love with. If it is for convenience or to have someone take care of you that is wrong in so many ways... Hire ya a maid instead... When one is using another for their own needs and not the needs of both it will finally make the other one resent them in the end... One can not predict love it is either there or it is not.... 
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There is only on thing worse then being alone! That is,being with the wrong person!
People Marry for many diffrant reasons.Just make sure you are up frunt with her. |
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no honesty, no love........besides ''it will come out in you body language''...when its one sided the other feels used.....the truth is everyone is in a relationship for what they need,we also need to be in it for the other persons needs for it to last...because you hold the other persons heart in your hands......
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People who get arranged marriages sometimes grow to love each other over time. This isn't something I'd like to be involved in, but I know it happens. As to whether or not you're being unfair to her, if you've told her you love her and you really don't, then yes, you're lying and that's unfair. You don't need anyone else to tell you that.
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I notice none, nearly, of my friends responded. I guess knowing me they knew this was a hypothetical question!! Which is why I said don't flame me too much....just wanted to make conversation...
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I notice none, nearly, of my friends responded. I guess knowing me they knew this was a hypothetical question!! Which is why I said don't flame me too much....just wanted to make conversation... You are a jewel among men. I read the post, scratched my head and thought "what is he talking about?"  It will be an interesting topic to follow. Great conversation... 
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Oldhippie, how would you feel if it were you on the end of that? Think about that.
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