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I feel for you. I wouldn't want to be the woman he left his wife for either. The safest thing to do is to never get involved with a married man or woman. |
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if he cared about the kids then he would want to be a roll model and leave the marriage, is it really fair to destroy the wife because he is unhappy, do you not think it hurst more to have someone cheat on you then admitting the relationship is over, would it not be harder for the wife to get over the pain knowing she was thrown aside for another woman? If he was any man at all he would have let his wife in on his secret that he don't love her and let her move on instead of staying in a loveless marriage "for the kids" who see miserable parents and ends up hating marriage because their parents were so unhappy. No this guy will never leave her and is playing you.... change your phone number what ever it takes get him gone.... heal now get it over with find a guy who loves you and not one that will just use you... if you were his world he would do what ever it took to have you in it.... your not his world your at your home and he is with his wife. Seriouly just walk away. Gonna hurt like hell but for the best. This. |
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I believe the line (stayed for the kids) is a load of crap! But do what you gota do. Yeah, same here. They always say they stayed so the kids don't have to suffer through a divorce. My parents divorced and we're all just fine. That's what visitation is for, you might not like it, because it's not every day, but it can be done without anyone suffering serious psychological damage.  
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What? Are you an idiot or are you just letting your hormones do the thinking for you?
The guy is using you, and his wife. Tell him to get his own life straightend out BEFORE he starts messing yours up. That crap about staying for the kids is just that, crap, and a huge pile of it. I'm thinking if you check his credit rating he's not in the best financial shape and he's hedging his bets. |
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I did end it and brought up his wife and kids. And said what a fool I was and told him never to contact me again. End of story
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its really obvious you love him so just let him inn..
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I did end it and brought up his wife and kids. And said what a fool I was and told him never to contact me again. End of story Good for you.
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You should get in touch with his wife and show her the text messages he sent you.
The guy is obviously just looking for a bit on the side. He's probably cheating on her with other women that are daft enough to listen to his BS. Forget what you think God thinks about it. What do you think his wife would think about it and if your husband was doing that wouldn't you want to know? |
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You should get in touch with his wife and show her the text messages he sent you. The guy is obviously just looking for a bit on the side. He's probably cheating on her with other women that are daft enough to listen to his BS. Forget what you think God thinks about it. What do you think his wife would think about it and if your husband was doing that wouldn't you want to know? What would be the point of that? I'm sure his wife knows what he's up to, if she doesn't now, she will eventually. I'd stay out of the guy's marriage, she did the right thing by walking away. Also, you do know that most of the time, people get mad at the messenger? Unless the wife is in complete denial, she has to know what he's up to if she's known him for 42 years. I tried to tell a woman that her bf was hitting on me and not only did she get mad, but he cussed me out and threatened to hack my computer. So yeah, I'd stay out of that, it's not her place to police what he does, she's not his wife. |
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You should get in touch with his wife and show her the text messages he sent you. The guy is obviously just looking for a bit on the side. He's probably cheating on her with other women that are daft enough to listen to his BS. Forget what you think God thinks about it. What do you think his wife would think about it and if your husband was doing that wouldn't you want to know? What would be the point of that? I'm sure his wife knows what he's up to, if she doesn't now, she will eventually. I'd stay out of the guy's marriage, she did the right thing by walking away. Also, you do know that most of the time, people get mad at the messenger? Unless the wife is in complete denial, she has to know what he's up to if she's known him for 42 years. I tried to tell a woman that her bf was hitting on me and not only did she get mad, but he cussed me out and threatened to hack my computer. So yeah, I'd stay out of that, it's not her place to police what he does, she's not his wife. Well, I don't know but it seems like pkh is always coming on here telling us about how she's being scammed and it seems to make her feel better when she reports them, so what's the difference? Is it because she cares about her friends on Mingle being scammed but not total strangers that aren't on the internet? I want to see this dude on the Jeremy Kyle show. |
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Honestly if he can get bored of his wife and takes kids as a burden, he will feel the same way about you one day if you go on build things with him
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You should get in touch with his wife and show her the text messages he sent you. The guy is obviously just looking for a bit on the side. He's probably cheating on her with other women that are daft enough to listen to his BS. Forget what you think God thinks about it. What do you think his wife would think about it and if your husband was doing that wouldn't you want to know? What would be the point of that? I'm sure his wife knows what he's up to, if she doesn't now, she will eventually. I'd stay out of the guy's marriage, she did the right thing by walking away. Also, you do know that most of the time, people get mad at the messenger? Unless the wife is in complete denial, she has to know what he's up to if she's known him for 42 years. I tried to tell a woman that her bf was hitting on me and not only did she get mad, but he cussed me out and threatened to hack my computer. So yeah, I'd stay out of that, it's not her place to police what he does, she's not his wife. Well, I don't know but it seems like pkh is always coming on here telling us about how she's being scammed and it seems to make her feel better when she reports them, so what's the difference? Is it because she cares about her friends on Mingle being scammed but not total strangers that aren't on the internet? I want to see this dude on the Jeremy Kyle show. I'm not familiar with her posts, so I'll take your word on it. I just think it's a waste of time to, as the "other woman," try to "expose" someone to his wife. I mean, if you're trying to break them up, I guess, yeah, sure whatever, and good luck with that. But most of the time they don't break up, both of them just get mad at you. I still think the wife knows she's married to a major douche, she either doesn't care or she's willing to deal with it. And I'd let her have her wreck of a marriage. |
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It can never end up good, even if he does break up with here, his kids will hate you, everyone will see you as a marriage destroyer and obviously they are still together no matter what he says.
You don't stay in the same home and married forever if you don't choose to. You are only going to end up hurt or hurting others, obviously you are not sure or you wouldn't have mentioned it here. |
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Sorry that you're going through this.
 . I think you and his wife should become best friends, and both tell him to bugger off, and tell him to go find someone stupid enough to date him. Then both close the door on him, and go party :)
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You should get in touch with his wife and show her the text messages he sent you. The guy is obviously just looking for a bit on the side. He's probably cheating on her with other women that are daft enough to listen to his BS. Forget what you think God thinks about it. What do you think his wife would think about it and if your husband was doing that wouldn't you want to know? What would be the point of that? I'm sure his wife knows what he's up to, if she doesn't now, she will eventually. I'd stay out of the guy's marriage, she did the right thing by walking away. Also, you do know that most of the time, people get mad at the messenger? Unless the wife is in complete denial, she has to know what he's up to if she's known him for 42 years. I tried to tell a woman that her bf was hitting on me and not only did she get mad, but he cussed me out and threatened to hack my computer. So yeah, I'd stay out of that, it's not her place to police what he does, she's not his wife. Well, I don't know but it seems like pkh is always coming on here telling us about how she's being scammed and it seems to make her feel better when she reports them, so what's the difference? Is it because she cares about her friends on Mingle being scammed but not total strangers that aren't on the internet? I want to see this dude on the Jeremy Kyle show. I'm not familiar with her posts, so I'll take your word on it. I just think it's a waste of time to, as the "other woman," try to "expose" someone to his wife. I mean, if you're trying to break them up, I guess, yeah, sure whatever, and good luck with that. But most of the time they don't break up, both of them just get mad at you. I still think the wife knows she's married to a major douche, she either doesn't care or she's willing to deal with it. And I'd let her have her wreck of a marriage. Well, I'm not even sure what the point of this thread is anyway because she says that she already knows. It's like she comes on here to tell us that people keep taking her for a fool and I tried to say to her that she gets scammed because she talks to people that don't even live near enough for dating. Now we're telling her that a married man that trots out that old chestnut about how they just stay together for the sake of the kids is a player. No schit Sherlock. |
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Nows it's time to let the lessons and healing begin for everyone.
Life throws us a lot of stuff and can really play with our minds, but thank God we have that voice inside of us that is always there, always speaking softly and never leaves. Sometimes we try to shut it off, or cover it up, but it's still there ready to give us the straight line. How many times we (I) get off the path thinking maybe there is a short cut only to find comfort when I finally return to myself and my spirit. peace kiddo, good to see you P LOL, Rawrr "your too cute for words" |
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Did you both conversate enough, first? Just wondering For a godly person you're sure quick to insult people on these forums. You do this a lot. And actually 'Conversate' IS a word. It means 'Talk'. I don't have conversations with a dictionary in my hand. However, you probably do. |
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Edited by
2KidsMom
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Mon 10/21/13 02:04 PM
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I already know what most of you will say. But I've met a married man he was totally honest up front. She had a long affair and they stayed for the kids. I know we've heard that before. Kids are grown and he's tired of just existing and wants to move forward. I said I can't be the reason a 42 year marriage ends he says it ended a long time ago. I've tried to stop this several times but he keeps calling and texting I finally broke and took his calls again. Thing is I believe him and he makes me laugh everyday and as wrong as it is it feels so right. There's so much more to it. But I'm so confused I told him in Gods eyes it's wrong and he agrees but said his marriage ended along time ago and he just existed for his girls and now he feels alive again and wants to move forward and so do I. How can something so good be so wrong? Life is short and full of so much BS ...you know me..The Clown.. I beg to be different..lol Go For IT..and enjoy whatever happiness it brings you.for however long it lasts.  and just fyi..I have been on both sides of the fence.
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Nows it's time to let the lessons and healing begin for everyone. Life throws us a lot of stuff and can really play with our minds, but thank God we have that voice inside of us that is always there, always speaking softly and never leaves. Sometimes we try to shut it off, or cover it up, but it's still there ready to give us the straight line. How many times we (I) get off the path thinking maybe there is a short cut only to find comfort when I finally return to myself and my spirit. peace kiddo, good to see you P LOL, Rawrr "your too cute for words" MG, How are ya? . Sorry that i forgot to e-mail you. It's just that situation with my biological father has been on my mind a lot. Hope you're doing good.
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That is a real sticky predicament. I'd say he has to have broken it off with her completely before I would give him a chance.
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