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Hi this is what's up... Iv been with this lady for almost a year she's has never been the easiest but loved her regardless,she's bipolar by the way... Anyway a few weeks back i proposed and asked her 4 a hand in marriage she was happy more excited i might add so but now she had her episodes again she dumped me and wants nothin to do with me wev been separated for 5 days now i know she still loves me as much as i love her cos she keeps sending miss you messages but when i try to fix things she says she's just to bad 4 me because of her condition i love her regardless but still think she's not the 1 4 me... What do i do? Do i give her space or try winning her back in my life? T
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If you believe she's not the one for you then you should end it otherwise you will both just end up more upset. This happened with my last relationship we were together for a while and great for eachother and we both were in love but we knew we weren't right for eachother. I hope the best for you!
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i dont understand here..are you talking of female and female ? if it is what you are talking that is crazy
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Be who you are and accept things for what they are, some things are not meant to be.
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Edited by
Porsche1985
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Sat 09/28/13 11:15 AM
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Thanks guys |
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Hey Poreche1985,
Do the best thing for yourself and also after a period of time,you can still be supportive of your bi-polar friend. Both of you guys just need time. Trust me everyone has problems, so you guys are not alone. |
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I don't really understand ... you feel that she's not the right one for you, so why propose and/or try to get her back?
You're basically going against your own gut feeling here. Why? Never go against that type of feeling, it comes up for a reason, it's trying to tell you something. So yes, probably painful now, but if she's not the right one for you, well ... kind of self-explanatory. Wishing you all the best, still a tough situation. 
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Edited by
Porsche1985
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Sat 09/28/13 12:04 PM
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I don't really understand ... you feel that she's not the right one for you, so why propose and/or try to get her back? You're basically going against your own gut feeling here. Why? Never go against that type of feeling, it comes up for a reason, it's trying to tell you something. So yes, probably painful now, but if she's not the right one for you, well ... kind of self-explanatory. Wishing you all the best, still a tough situation.
Thank you... Nah she thinks she's not the 1 4 me because of her condition guess that was n error when typing that... Yes i do love her beyond her condition she's just an amazing woman,she's just doubting herself that m nt gonna b able 2 understand n be with her beyond her condition n s 4 me i love unconditional |
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Hey Poreche1985, Do the best thing for yourself and also after a period of time,you can still be supportive of your bi-polar friend. Both of you guys just need time. Trust me everyone has problems, so you guys are not alone. Thank you alot will do so... She's my ex girlfriend,will always support her thank you |
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i dont understand here..are you talking of female and female ? if it is what you are talking that is crazy That.. but she is cute to have aman and produce nice children,y be that |
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It's so difficult to know whether they're being themselves at times. I have a bipolar ex, and I promised him that I'd be there for him "incase there's an emergency". Surely you'd get what I mean by "emergency". I think it's a shame. He's only been in hospital with it once, and it was no fun listening to how he overdosed. It broke my heart when he told me how the voices were bullying him/urging him to off himself. It's bad enough being bullied by others, but when it's from your own mind, well sheesh. I remember him once saying to me "If I don't take you home right now, I may end up harming you". That scared me like hell. All I can do is look out for him. I suggest you keep her at a distance, until she can show you she isn't gonna take off when she feels like it. I know. Glad I'm not the only one going through it. I try to reassure him. Maybe print information about for her from the internet. Even forum discussion's. Could she join group therapy? Is she on medication at all?
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It's so difficult to know whether they're being themselves at times. I have a bipolar ex, and I promised him that I'd be there for him "incase there's an emergency". Surely you'd get what I mean by "emergency". I think it's a shame. He's only been in hospital with it once, and it was no fun listening to how he overdosed. It broke my heart when he told me how the voices were bullying him/urging him to off himself. It's bad enough being bullied by others, but when it's from your own mind, well sheesh. I remember him once saying to me "If I don't take you home right now, I may end up harming you". That scared me like hell. All I can do is look out for him. I suggest you keep her at a distance, until she can show you she isn't gonna take off when she feels like it. I know. Glad I'm not the only one going through it. I try to reassure him. Maybe print information about for her from the internet. Even forum discussion's. Could she join group therapy? Is she on medication at all? Thank you... Yeah that's true... Yes she's on medication,iv done it all we even went 2 therapy together cos she did ask me 2 *** wt,m always there 4 her... Yea i knw wt u mean by 'emergency' its reli nt easy n pretty scary but i really wouldn't want any other way but with her ey... Its good to get advice n tlk 2 ppl hu hv/r gng thru d sym thng ur gng thru... Thanks |
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It's so difficult to know whether they're being themselves at times. I have a bipolar ex, and I promised him that I'd be there for him "incase there's an emergency". Surely you'd get what I mean by "emergency". I think it's a shame. He's only been in hospital with it once, and it was no fun listening to how he overdosed. It broke my heart when he told me how the voices were bullying him/urging him to off himself. It's bad enough being bullied by others, but when it's from your own mind, well sheesh. I remember him once saying to me "If I don't take you home right now, I may end up harming you". That scared me like hell. All I can do is look out for him. I suggest you keep her at a distance, until she can show you she isn't gonna take off when she feels like it. I know. Glad I'm not the only one going through it. I try to reassure him. Maybe print information about for her from the internet. Even forum discussion's. Could she join group therapy? Is she on medication at all? Thank you... Yeah that's true... Yes she's on medication,iv done it all we even went 2 therapy together cos she did ask me 2 *** wt,m always there 4 her... Yea i knw wt u mean by 'emergency' its reli nt easy n pretty scary but i really wouldn't want any other way but with her ey... Its good to get advice n tlk 2 ppl hu hv/r gng thru d sym thng ur gng thru... Thanks Cool. Glad you feel you can talk about it openly :) :hug:. I'm guessing you proposed because you feel so connected to her. I'm so sorry that you feel you've tried everything. I guess all we can do is take it with a grain of salt. It's so hard to figure out. Can totally understand what you're going through. Just keep hope, and try not to let it get you down. Also, try and give HER hope, whenever you can :) |
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Edited by
jacktrades
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Sat 09/28/13 04:03 PM
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Hey Poreche1985, Do the best thing for yourself and also after a period of time,you can still be supportive of your bi-polar friend. Both of you guys just need time. Trust me everyone has problems, so you guys are not alone. I'm on board with this advice totally,so true! |
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Edited for targeting posters.
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 awww thank you guys aloooot hey
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i dont understand here..are you talking of female and female ? if it is what you are talking that is crazy psychiatry says each woman(not only lesbians) has an inner desire to be with another woman.(to touch or to be touched).it applies not only in case of weired fantasy holder or or sex maniacs but for mature educated women.nd men too love watching that.there are different form of sexuality.i saw here a profile of young lady doctor who wishes to be dominated nd humiliated by her nurse.that is masochism. |
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Just dropped by to see how you're feeling
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Just dropped by to see how you're feeling . Hope it gets easier for you both. I suppose you could try finding humor in it, with her, so that it helps lighten any tension. Though I feel pretty crude joking about anyone's illness, even if they don't mind. How is she coping?
Hello rawrr-girl thank you she's doing fine cos iv booked appointments wt both the psychiatrist n the psychologist for her n she asked if i could come with her so we haven't discussed us yet cos m still thinkin its early for that maybe after al her sessions... M gettin there ey gta stay strong 4 her... Thanks 4 checking up on me its reli appreciated |
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What will be a Human choice . Better or best?
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