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I've been with an older woman and she nagged me like she was my mother. Never had to put up with that from a younger woman. I suppose that it is flattering when a younger woman takes a shine to you and it's nice having a girlfriend that respects you and actually values your opinion. I mean, they still just do what they want anyway but at least they listen to you if you have more maturity and life experience. Call it a midlife crisis if you like. I met a girl half my age recently and it was like reliving my youth a bit and I had been feeling stuck in a rut. I was single and it wasn't a case of trading in for a newer model. It's got nothing to do with wanting to show her off to my friends or not finding older women attractive. It's nice if they do have all their own teeth though. I find younger women easier going anyway and it seems to me that the older ones are more interested in what you own and what sort of lifestyle you can provide them with. LOL @ own teeth, here we go again stereotyping..and LOL @ older are more interested in what sort of lifestyle you can provide..I really hope us okder women already have that figured out by now [double lol] Yes, exactly. The older women have it figured out what sort of lifestyle they want and when I tell them that I'm still a student at forty four that doesn't usually go down too well with them. I'm not saying that they necessarily want you to finance their lifestyle but they are at least going to want you to pay your way and they tend to want stuff like a cottage in the country or a trip around the world. Usually a middle aged woman is looking towards her retirement and she's done with bringing up kids and has those sorts of priorities and ambitions. I actually had an ex telling me that she didn't want to be with me because she didn't think that I could look after her in her old age. |
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I've been with an older woman and she nagged me like she was my mother. Never had to put up with that from a younger woman. I suppose that it is flattering when a younger woman takes a shine to you and it's nice having a girlfriend that respects you and actually values your opinion. I mean, they still just do what they want anyway but at least they listen to you if you have more maturity and life experience. Call it a midlife crisis if you like. I met a girl half my age recently and it was like reliving my youth a bit and I had been feeling stuck in a rut. I was single and it wasn't a case of trading in for a newer model. It's got nothing to do with wanting to show her off to my friends or not finding older women attractive. It's nice if they do have all their own teeth though. I find younger women easier going anyway and it seems to me that the older ones are more interested in what you own and what sort of lifestyle you can provide them with. LOL @ own teeth, here we go again stereotyping..and LOL @ older are more interested in what sort of lifestyle you can provide..I really hope us okder women already have that figured out by now [double lol] Yes, exactly. The older women have it figured out what sort of lifestyle they want and when I tell them that I'm still a student at forty four that doesn't usually go down too well with them. I'm not saying that they necessarily want you to finance their lifestyle but they are at least going to want you to pay your way and they tend to want stuff like a cottage in the country or a trip around the world. Usually a middle aged woman is looking towards her retirement and she's done with bringing up kids and has those sorts of priorities and ambitions. I actually had an ex telling me that she didn't want to be with me because she didn't think that I could look after her in her old age. I see your point now and agree |
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My daughter married a man 12 years older than her. They had become best friends before they got married. However, my daughter was always the major breadwinner. He never did anything to better his ability to provide a better lifestyle for his family. They had 3 kids. They finally separated after 20 years of marriage. During that separation, he died of a heart attack in his sleep. He was only 56 years old. He didn't take care of himself, he drank too much, and was irresponsible with money. He bragged that everyone told him he had everything a man could want, except his wife. As a person, he was good and I liked him. As a provider I had little respect for him. He was a little self-centered and thought he could just slide along in his marriage. Guess he was wrong.
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Because we can.
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Because we can. |
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i don't think you are wrong. some younger women do enjoy the safety and security that older men have to offer. some older men like younger women because of the freedom they seem to have. yet when you say some women get too comfortable in a long term relationship, i think you could say the same for men i guarantee i guarantee that there are older men who are very good listeners. they will listen to any women talk as they are pulling down their panties (bulldog double guarantee - patent pending) Lol too funny! Ive always been attracted to older men. I believe its the security and safety like ya said. I also appreciate his experience! ;-) |
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Tent?
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Because we can. Only Some can! 
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Because we can. Only Some can! Ah yes. But those of us who can, do. 
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correct me if iam wrong Easy enough...you are wrong. Sorry...let me say this in terms you will understand ...Ur rong. AN WHY IS DAT |
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First..a young woman can make a man feel young again [even if its just psychological]  A man loves to impress and its easier to impress young naive women than older seasoned ones  What better way for a man to impress his friends? He may want children She may have less stress and responsibilities and have more energy She may look up to him and respect him more because of his age OR Shes just a sexy Hot young Thang  Very good,well done! You get an A+ 
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correct me if iam wrong Easy enough...you are wrong. Sorry...let me say this in terms you will understand ...Ur rong. not because a ja mi *** from mi nuh dunce or fool nw u say mi rong tall mi why sorry let me put it in the terms u will understand tell me why u say iam wrong |
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Tent? Yeah, I'm assuming the older guys set up a tent and lure the younger girls inside for dates...I could be wrong though...
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i don't think you are wrong. some younger women do enjoy the safety and security that older men have to offer. some older men like younger women because of the freedom they seem to have. yet when you say some women get too comfortable in a long term relationship, i think you could say the same for men i guarantee i guarantee that there are older men who are very good listeners. they will listen to any women talk as they are pulling down their panties (bulldog double guarantee - patent pending) plus you're less likely to break a younger womans hip while gettin busy  
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Tent? Read that post out loud slowly. |
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Women my age age are way older than I. I have met women younger than me that are older than me. I am healthy active, doctor told me I had the heaqrt of a 40-45 year old. Yeah, I can't do many of the things I used to be able to do and I hav a touch of arthritis in my right thumb. I can still walk 3 Km in to town and back with out gasping for breath. I know 50 year old women who can't do that. I look for a younger woman because I can't find one my age who can keep up. Now I am not going to date someone who is younger than my kids or in one case my oldet grandchild. That smacks of pedophila. So there that is my opinion and like belly buttons everyone has oan and thinks theirs is the cutest.
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Having been struggling with this exact topic myself since my divorce 2 years ago, here's my two cents... after my divorce I dated a woman around the same age as myself and my ex,it felt just like my marriage. I think women do mature faster,and as they get older routine and stability become number one to them. to me it spells death bed. I would rather torture myself at the gym, get back to feeling twenty something. These days I feel like I can maraud like I did in my twenties
but smarter. I have yet to date a early thirty something or better yet twenty something  but my guess is that's probably what I'm looking for. Younger women seem more like they still have the common sense positive influence that speaking only for myself is good to have around, but yet they are not afraid of change. Hopefully I will be able to speak with more experience in the near future.
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Sat 11/23/13 05:59 PM
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not all men have the same reason(s) for doing what they do as of course neither do all women.
sometimes older guys may not have the healthiest reasons for dating younger...like a mid life crisis thing, or control issues (which is a lot of what I see in the responses so far) and some just happen to meet someone younger who they like but seriously...by a certain age, say 40 or 50, it gets really hard to find someone our own age who is still single. some of the reasons are better than others (healthier as far as mental health) but alot of times it breaks down to the numbers...that is who there is...so why exclude someone because they are a little younger? |
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Tent? Read that post out loud slowly. my bad tend |
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Tent? tend my bad |
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