Having been struggling with this exact topic myself since my divorce 2 years ago, here's my two cents... after my divorce I dated a woman around the same age as myself and my ex,it felt just like my marriage. I think women do mature faster,and as they get older routine and stability become number one to them. to me it spells death bed. I would rather torture myself at the gym, get back to feeling twenty something. These days I feel like I can maraud like I did in my twenties but smarter. I have yet to date a early thirty something or better yet twenty something but my guess is that's probably what I'm looking for. Younger women seem more like they still have the common sense positive influence that speaking only for myself is good to have around, but yet they are not afraid of change. Hopefully I will be able to speak with more experience in the near future.