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Topic: Do men really like the chase?
Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48926	Wed 04/24/13 05:37 PM
Why should it be the man doing the chasing?

xtreme305 Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 388	Wed 04/24/13 05:37 PM
Not me, I like a woman who puts up a good debate. If she is that passionate about what she believes in. Wouldn't she also be that passionate about someone she loves? debate is for the classroom, the locker room and the board room not the bedroom men who are stimulated by arguing are a bore I never mentioned the bedroom, If she wants to be on top. Far be it from me to argue something like that. Just hop on and giggle yourself happy.

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Wed 04/24/13 05:48 PM
I just pass a note to her that reads, "I like you. Do you like me? Check YES or NO". That's about the extent of my chasing. LOL it worked back in third grade. If its not broken don't try to fix it. Lol..very funny guys...BUT THE TRUTH ABOUT THE NOTE PASSING IN MY EXPERIENCE WAS USUALLY DONE BY HER DELIVED BY HER FRIEND JUST BECAUSE WE COULDN'T CLUE IN THAT ALTHOUGHS SHIN KICKS IN THE PLAYGROUNDS FOR THE LAST 6 MONTHS CLEARLY MENT "I LIKE U A LOT" AND THE QUICKER & HARDER THEY KICK U FOR BUGGING THEN MORE THEY LIKED YOU. And as sone as a figured it all out they change the telltales.

Unknow Joined Thu 04/01/10 Posts: 1482	Wed 04/24/13 05:52 PM
hehehe for me the chase is like trying to find the pot of gold at the end of a rainbow And when there are 10 guys to each lady like internet sites seem to be I am but the duck Farting under the water You folks have fun with that though... Are you sure you do that just under water?

xtreme305 Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 388	Wed 04/24/13 05:59 PM
I like grumpy cat better

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Wed 04/24/13 06:01 PM
I just pass a note to her that reads, "I like you. Do you like me? Check YES or NO". That's about the extent of my chasing. thats actually clever and sexy,,,thats putting forth an EFFORT through creative thinking I still think those who dont put forth the effort dont think shes worth the effort,, those who just EXPECT it because they say hi or play a compliment, to me, are lazy,,,,or else just not thinking much more of the woman than a piece of meat,,,, If its my girl I will put forth the effort or if she the the only girl their and I'm interested, i'll feel it out.

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Wed 04/24/13 07:57 PM
I just pass a note to her that reads, "I like you. Do you like me? Check YES or NO". That's about the extent of my chasing. A girl never gets too old for this one to lose it's charm.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 04/24/13 08:02 PM
I just pass a note to her that reads, "I like you. Do you like me? Check YES or NO". That's about the extent of my chasing. LOL it worked back in third grade. If its not broken don't try to fix it. That's what I'm talking about. It was our version of texting.

Unknow Joined Thu 04/01/10 Posts: 1482	Wed 04/24/13 08:58 PM
I like grumpy cat better

Unknow Joined Thu 04/01/10 Posts: 1482	Wed 04/24/13 09:03 PM
I like grumpy cat better <<<<<<<<<<<<How about this one?

xtreme305 Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 388	Wed 04/24/13 11:27 PM
Yes! Grumpy cat is in my Cool Book.

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Wed 04/24/13 11:43 PM
Always operated from the premis that if you have to "chase" or be "chased" they really are not that into you or them. If it is not mutual why waste your time? If both care about each other they want to be together and make it happen.

xtreme305 Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 388	Wed 04/24/13 11:46 PM
Always operated from the premis that if you have to "chase" or be "chased" they really are not that into you or them. If it is not mutual why waste your time? If both care about each other they want to be together and make it happen. your wisdom knows no bounds.

mg1959 Joined Thu 04/05/07 Posts: 7872	Thu 04/25/13 02:55 AM
Who has time for chasing? Not sure I get this one. Maybe I've missed a chapter in life by the sound of this thread. Don't mean to sound negative at all, but are you guys talking about a chase instead of romance? Chasing from what I'm reading almost sounds like a head game. Not sure I have time for head games. However I have all the time in the world for romance.

ArtGurl Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 17722	Sun 04/28/13 12:33 AM
I have just been reading through and enjoying all of your responses. I have always thought that women have this crazy notion that men like to chase more than they actually do. Then they play hard to get thinking it will bring the man closer...and are disappointed when he disappears instead. I have never been an advocate of games. I do though love the allure of mystery. We humans are fascinating creatures! Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts!

metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Sun 04/28/13 05:31 AM
Games are for the young and immature. An adult relationship to me means work, not games. You work at building trust which breeds respect. You work at paying attention to needs and wants. With luck, the other side works in the same way to build something durable enough to weather the storms that life brings. A single lie can bring it all down. The harder you work at it, the easier it is to say, "Don't worry, it will be OK"!... and know it's true.

bipolar2011 Joined Fri 05/06/11 Posts: 51	Sun 04/28/13 08:23 AM
Women are stupid enough. They wait for men to approach them. Its foolish. They must evolve to express themselves.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 04/28/13 09:18 AM
I have just been reading through and enjoying all of your responses. I have always thought that women have this crazy notion that men like to chase more than they actually do. Then they play hard to get thinking it will bring the man closer...and are disappointed when he disappears instead. I have never been an advocate of games. I do though love the allure of mystery. We humans are fascinating creatures! Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts! I never really understood the appeal of playing hard to get. Rather than playing silly games, I wish people would just be straightforward about what they want.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 04/28/13 09:18 AM
Women are stupid enough. They wait for men to approach them. Its foolish. They must evolve to express themselves. My guess is that you're not going to get women to approach you with this comment.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 04/28/13 09:30 AM
Not me, I like a woman who puts up a good debate. If she is that passionate about what she believes in. Wouldn't she also be that passionate about someone she loves? debate is for the classroom, the locker room and the board room not the bedroom men who are stimulated by arguing are a bore I never mentioned the bedroom, If she wants to be on top. Far be it from me to argue something like that. Just hop on and giggle yourself happy. haha I know you didn't mention it. I did. The bedroom is not gonna happen with a man who has an argumentive debate-like personality outside of the bedroom tho so ya - not happenin - guys like that give me a royal yawn lol