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| Topic: Do men really like the chase? | |
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Lmao, so funny, bisexual!!!!
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Games are for the young and immature. An adult relationship to me means work, not games. You work at building trust which breeds respect. You work at paying attention to needs and wants. With luck, the other side works in the same way to build something durable enough to weather the storms that life brings. A single lie can bring it all down. The harder you work at it, the easier it is to say, "Don't worry, it will be OK"!... and know it's true. Wow! That's a lot of work Metal  If I am working that hard at anything, I'd better be getting paid!  Payment comes in many forms!  ... and payday is every day!  Yes, I understand what you mean. For me, however, life and love is joyful play. I am excited to wake up every day to see what new thing I can discover about him. I view it as being interested in who he is. An exciting exploration of yumminess. Discovering his subtle shades and nuances...his emotional ups and downs, his creative passions and his crushing defeats. Those crazy misunderstandings that send your mind in nonsensical places. All those things that make us deliciously human. It is just not anything I'd consider work...  No one ever said work couldn't be fun!
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Women are stupid enough. They wait for men to approach them. Its foolish. They must evolve to express themselves. who needs to evolve?  we rest our case LMFAO  
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Games are for the young and immature. An adult relationship to me means work, not games. You work at building trust which breeds respect. You work at paying attention to needs and wants. With luck, the other side works in the same way to build something durable enough to weather the storms that life brings. A single lie can bring it all down. The harder you work at it, the easier it is to say, "Don't worry, it will be OK"!... and know it's true. Wow! That's a lot of work Metal If I am working that hard at anything, I'd better be getting paid! I tend to think if it feels like work....no....so to qualify by work I would say that means you have your partner's interests at heart and remember to communicate about things but once those things feel like work...IDK what I am trying to say exactly but "work" has a negative connotation like it's a struggle I also would not be really happy to know that there is this stern set of expectations - in fact would not enter that relationship I don;'t lie but I am not going to get into a relationship where the guy is "waiting" for me to lie (or whatever the expectation is) and spending his time trying to "catch" me doing those things.... just a thought because that's kinda the impression the pig's comments made on me and prolly not what he intended???? You are reading things into it that aren't there. I take it as a given that any relationship worth having requires "work". There is nothing negative about that. That word has been used in that context by many people my entire life. There was no mention of "waiting for a lie." The context was simply to describe how much damage can be done quickly by something so simple but so damaging in contrast to the time and effort required to build a solid relationship. You apparently are reading with a "negative filter". Try using a positive one instead.  It has a negative implication to me and that is valid - it is how I feel and what I believe. We are entitled to our opinions and it is mature to accept the opinions of others as a valid entitlement we each have, even if you do not agree with them. it is not a negative perspective it simply is what it is... an opinion. You do not have to agree of course but you will also never get me to stay in a relationship that is "work" (not meaning anything personal - just a general "you)" Once the fun and laughter goes south ...I'm soooo outta there...it is what it is I won't apologize for how I am well now my impression is that you feel you can be the judge of my perspective. ....briefly because I have had that experience of a realtionship being "work" to keep it together, I will never go there again. As soon as it tanks or a guy gets negative, bossy, judgemental OR tries to be superior and tell ME what I am thinking...I'm gone faster than butter on warm plate. after all it is MY brain. I will tell YOU what my perspective is - positive - negative- or whatever else Perhaps you need to be a little more careful about sounding too demanding? :) (meant rhetorically) it's a matter of where we've been, perception, and how those expereinces affect us now. |
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Not me, I like a woman who puts up a good debate. If she is that passionate about what she believes in. Wouldn't she also be that passionate about someone she loves? debate is for the classroom, the locker room and the board room not the bedroom men who are stimulated by arguing are a bore I never mentioned the bedroom, If she wants to be on top. Far be it from me to argue something like that. Just hop on and giggle yourself happy. haha I know you didn't mention it. I did. The bedroom is not gonna happen with a man who has an argumentive debate-like personality outside of the bedroom tho so ya - not happenin - guys like that give me a royal yawn lol Well maybe one day you'll meet a non debating, Quiet type, Non offensive Man. Why not throw in loves to go shopping too. I'm not saying they don't exist, But last I checked That type of man is interested more in their own gender not yours. once again I am baffled. I know of intelligent , quiet men, who have mature noncompetitive speaking styles that are very sexy. and trust me they are ALL man  competive men are fine as long as they know it doesn;t belong with their girl - the opposite is very UNsexy. I think the only reason a woman would put up with that is if she had low self esteem and/or did not realize that better options are definitely available |
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I was going to say somehting similar to sweet ... that is, many seem to , but I do not... I do not really compete or play games...
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From my experience, yes, most men want to chase a woman. Problem is women either are too independent and don't let the guy chase them, or women are too aggressive about chasing the guy. I think both can be a real turn off for men.
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