Topic: Do men really like the chase?
MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 04/24/13 02:15 PM
Always...

TBRich's photo
Wed 04/24/13 02:18 PM
When I was younger, I chased certain women. To me it became a game, not a serious situation where I was trying to win someone's heart. Unfortunately, once they gave in, I immediately loss interest. This is when I first started getting slapped by women. I remember one woman, who finally started responding and began petting me down there. My first thought was that I already wasted too much time and effort with her and clearly I won, so I told her no thank ypu, and began to leave. She began slapping me so hard, she split my forehead open.

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Wed 04/24/13 02:29 PM
Don't fool yourself, Men don't want to chase women. Like a wise man once said.. Don't go chasing after buses or women. You'll get left behind every time.

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Wed 04/24/13 03:22 PM
Some just like an arguement. Sometimes, they can't stand it when a woman defends herself. He wants her to be all needy and whiny. If she isn't being all clingy, then she is instantly thought of by that man as "ignorant".

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Wed 04/24/13 03:27 PM
Not me, I like a woman who puts up a good debate. If she is that passionate about what she believes in. Wouldn't she also be that passionate about someone she loves?

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Wed 04/24/13 03:41 PM
Edited by 1Cynderella on Wed 04/24/13 03:43 PM
Wasn't it Confusion who said...Some men like to fish; while others eat? :tongue:


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Wed 04/24/13 03:45 PM
Don't you mean Confucious?

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Wed 04/24/13 03:47 PM
Well, I don't know about respecting what they earn, since everyone is different, and you do see a lot of disrespect out there, even from guys who have chased and won their ladies heart.

I can say in general most do love the chase, and in many cases seem to almost require it. Going to great lengths in some situations when they feel the gauntlet is thrown. Obviously some get annoyed and don't like or want the challenge, but it could be argued that is what makes it intriguing for many.

I will say all men want to feel like they are the "best" though in any situation since no one wants to feel like the runner up.

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Wed 04/24/13 04:00 PM

Don't you mean Confucious?
Nope.laugh

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Wed 04/24/13 04:05 PM
Just don't forget some men know how to set fish traps. Also fishing lines with triggers. That way they can go do something else. While the fish basically fish themselves. I suppose we can always make use of someone to clean the fish before we eat them. tongue2

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Wed 04/24/13 04:06 PM

I read this the other day and am curious what you think.

Pop psych books talk about how men love the chase and how they need a challenge. But many women misinterpret that and act like a challenge for no reason. Most men get annoyed with that and feel manipulated (not intrigued) when women try to make them chase them.

I've also ready that typically men respect what they earn.

Is it, therefore, important for a man to feel like he has earned his woman? Like he is the 'best' man when he wins her.

What do you think?


Umm, I would say it varies depending on personality types.....Based on personal experience, I find most men love the thrill of the chase, a good challenge, or feeling a sense of accomplishment when they win her heart..I also believe those same men have limits...If a woman plays "hard to get" too long, he will eventually lose interest in both the chase and her....:wink:

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Wed 04/24/13 04:50 PM
I just pass a note to her that reads, "I like you. Do you like me? Check YES or NO". That's about the extent of my chasing. :tongue:

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Wed 04/24/13 04:52 PM

I just pass a note to her that reads, "I like you. Do you like me? Check YES or NO". That's about the extent of my chasing. :tongue:

LOL it worked back in third grade. If its not broken don't try to fix it.

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Wed 04/24/13 05:00 PM
I've got enough challenges in my life already. I don't need my woman to be a constant challenge too. If she's playing "hard to get" games
I'm out of there.

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Wed 04/24/13 05:03 PM

I just pass a note to her that reads, "I like you. Do you like me? Check YES or NO". That's about the extent of my chasing. :tongue:


thats actually clever and sexy,,,thats putting forth an EFFORT through creative thinking

I still think those who dont put forth the effort dont think shes worth the effort,,


those who just EXPECT it because they say hi or play a compliment, to me, are lazy,,,,or else just not thinking much more of the woman than a piece of meat,,,,


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Wed 04/24/13 05:04 PM

I've got enough challenges in my life already. I don't need my woman to be a constant challenge too. If she's playing "hard to get" games
I'm out of there.


^^^ :banana:

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Wed 04/24/13 05:23 PM
In reading the responses, seems like the women like to be chased more than the men enjoy doing it. Now with some of the anti-stalking laws in place, in some communities, some forms of chasing women could be misconstrude as bring stalked.

Now me, I will chase a lady, within reason. But if the lady doesn't respond to me, I'll cut my losses and stop. Why should I waste my time? I'm not a patient chaser. I might have missed out on a good one, but I also may have saved myself alot of future pain and agravation.


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Wed 04/24/13 05:27 PM
I live in a city where women outnumber men 12 to 1. Why chase women? there's plenty of them.

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Wed 04/24/13 05:32 PM

Not me, I like a woman who puts up a good debate. If she is that passionate about what she believes in. Wouldn't she also be that passionate about someone she loves?


debate is for the classroom, the locker room and the board room


not the bedroom

men who are stimulated by arguing are a bore

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Wed 04/24/13 05:35 PM

I've got enough challenges in my life already. I don't need my woman to be a constant challenge too. If she's playing "hard to get" games
I'm out of there.
yup:thumbsup:

that kind of game playing is for children, not adults desiring a genuine relationship