Here is a seroius question. What do you go for more, looks or personality?

Here is another to answer, if you seen someone you thought was attractive in a public place, would you go ahead and ask them for a number/e-mail/or even a date?

Just some thoughts I've been having, oh and if anybody is interested...

personality! i really don't care about looks :) just has to be taller than me :)

Hm.. good question. If I see someone attractive I'll talk to them, and if their personality isn't up to par.. then I'm gone.

ill talk to anybody they dont have to be pretty

generally looks get my attention initially....but gotta have personality to keep it!

i love his smile the most attractive thing on a man :) and his eyes

personality.......if a man can't capture my mind, and keep it stimulated than nothing will keep me around........looks are secondary......


I am pretty much old school, prefer the man to do the asking..........

i go for there personality, as beauty is the eye of the beholder

personally i dont think that u could get laid if you walked into a monkey whore house with a handful af bannas. just joking got to go for looks u dont want some nasty lookin girl

af+of sorry wasnt paying attention

both...the initial attraction is going to be based on their looks, then discover the personality. If i saw someone in a public place, such as starbucks or what have you, i would buy them a java chip, then go from there.

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Snugglesbyfire, I'm with you You took the words right out of my mouth!!

The only problem I see is that times have changed, and I get the feeling that guys expect women to do the asking anymore! What say you ladies?

not true rufus not all of us

I guess might as well answer my own question for all those to see. I'm the type of guy that is attracted to the "pretty" (no offence) but, oh yes there is a but, I'm also into the personality more because it seems like dating would be much more fun when you had a decent conversation with somebody other then just grab assing 24/7.

As for my other question, I'm kind of a shy guy so I don't ask too often mainly because I might get denied then I'll feel pretty ****ty about myself. Hopefully that won't happen anymore.

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Personality and I guess I'm old school too I would not ask for a number.

I cant understand why a girl puts so much into looks and half the time into money. Not to sound rude or even crude, but when making love who thinks about such things as if the visa got payed, the guys way to short, or is there is a pimple on a left check. When out to dinner, and you eating what are you thinking. I dont see my self as an ugly duckling, I may not smile much, and my eyes might have you melting in the sunset. But what about the heart, love and comapnionship based on looks and a sweet smile. I dont know but it seams the number one thing should be a kind and gental heart, and maybe if luck is holding up, a great attidude to the relationship. But to rely on a smile and bedroom eyes. Sorry no wonder the divorce rate is so high in the USA.

Hones there has to be an attraction there usually first thing that I notice is there smile and there eyes that means allot for when one has that genuine smile that lights up there face that is what will catch my attention first. But then they must have that sense of humor which is a must for me. Then if they can capture my mind as well for if they can not carring on a conversation and keep me interested I will soon grow bored. As I'm one that likes to talk so they must be a talker as well. Looks are not everything yes there must be an attraction but not always meaning the looks the way they treat you is a big factor and there must be first and foremost a connection there or it will not go anywhere for me.

I think that the ladies on this site are looking for looks or a young guy that shows off his muscles. I put myself out to alot of ladies here but very rarely get any replys back. But when I am in public it is a different story. I go to the grocery store and I am being hit on, I go to a club and get hit on. I think the ladies on this site judge a man by the way he looks and ignore talking to him to see what kind of a person he really is. Yes, looks are great but they sure don't pay the bills and buy the finer things in life.lol

i go for what is in a persons

I've seen lots of pretty on the outside

And ugly in the inside

Sometimes the real beauty is in the inside JMO