ok so looks are nothing without personality but i have to be attracted to them...if that makes sense

second answer...no i wouldnt because im a chicken s-h-i-t and i have very low self esteem about myself

Mrgoodbar.....have you ever taken into consideration that it has nothing to do with your looks but what's in your bio or your posting name........there is lots to be said for what's in a name.

personality is the key,if the person isnt good to you and they cant make ya laugh its time for them to go

i go for personality i like stimulating conversations when i meet a guy

i may go up and ask for a number, but the shyness keeps me away, on the internet its different, cuz they dont see you, lol

Attractive personalities go a long way with me. So a blend of both, someone not deemed generically attractive can have the most incredible smile, and a lightness of spirit that shines through.

As to walking up and saying hello, yep, I do it all the time, male or female, I always have room in my life for interesting people...but NOT an agenda for dating.

What's on the inside is the most important, but to be honest it's their looks that catch my attention first....

1. Personality over looks any day...
2. I would be too shy, and a bit old fashioned...
3. Thanks- but your too young

My 2 cents... personality every time!

My last relationship was the happiest I had ever been... we connected on every level. When we first met, I was nto physically attracted to him, however, he was the most fantastic man I had ever met. As our friendship grew, he looked sexier & sexier ;o) By the time I fell in love, I could not imagine anyone more gorgeous or sexy in my eyes.

So yes.... personality ;o) I always knew it was what is on the inside that counts... and I had always heard beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Now I know beyond any shadow of a doubt, that no truer words exist.

(incase you are wondering why we are still not together, is because he passed away due to complications following surgery).

Awwww sorry Light... But I loved you comment

((((delray)))) thanks honey ;o)

Personality anyday if he didnt have that we wouldnt be together

he may look good but no sense of humor or sense of who he is if something would happen to his looks hell no i aint have it

I go for personality more. Though there has to be some attraction physically at first, but that could be simply a smile or a twinkle in his eye. Physically I can't pinpoint a certain type that I am attracted to because it all depends how everything comes together on the individual person. If a person's good-looking, but has no personality, it's not gonna work for me.

To answer the second question, if I find someone attractive, do I go up to him and ask for his number or a date. The answer is no. I'll try to make eye-contact but I'm not one to usually approach a guy that I've never spoken to before. I'm shy until I feel comfortable around the people I'm with.

Personality and Humor is my two

Babydoll, you hit it right on the head....personality goes a very long way....but what attracts you from the word go is looks.....Let's face it, when you first see someone you don't see their personality now do you?

Lightvoice, I too am sorry for your loss.....sad tale indeed....

((Mike))) thanks... much appreciated ;o)

A great personality is what makes someone attractive.....

I agree with Mike...there has to be some initial attraction, or why would you even consider talking to them. You never see their prsonality on their sleeve...it's their eyes, their smile, it's something that makes you want to talk to them in the first place.




Light...I am so sorry to hear about your loss

The initial attraction is important and usually starts a conversation, but looks are far less important then personality. I need to be able to hold a conversation with a guy and need to be able to trust him.

I would not ask for a phone number probably, except if I was drunk lol