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One of the reasons that I am trying this site is to get better at discussing the topic of sex with a woman. It is not that I can't I am just not comfortable with sex as the main topic. I don't mean like uncle pervy stuff, I would like to get to where I am able to discuss the different aspects, possibilities and such with out getting tongue tied. Is that wrong?
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No, it's not wrong but I'm not sure why you would feel more comfortable talking about it with strangers on the internet rather than with someone that you're actually having sex with.
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You sure you won't make the woman feel that is all that is on your mind? Why not just let it flow naturally, if that is where it goes.
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There's nothing wrong with discussing sex as long as both people are into it. If one is uncomfortable with the topic, it isn't going to go well.
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 Let's talk about SEX....
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Very good point,it is such a repressed topic of conversation in the U.S. In both Australia and England during get togethers it was a much used topic and created fun lively discussion and debates. Here you mention it and you are villified or have a personal agenda.
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Very good point,it is such a repressed topic of conversation in the U.S. In both Australia and England during get togethers it was a much used topic and created fun lively discussion and debates. Here you mention it and you are villified or have a personal agenda. Well, it can be odd when a complete stranger brings up sex and wants to talk about it. Are you saying talking about sex isn't personal, though? If not, what is it? |
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I talk about sex to women all the time, they love it, telll me ehy have never toalke like this before, don't know why they do it. love talking to me, continue contacting me for just that, most are married. I don't know why this happens but it does, i like to do it. One thing is I know that I could **** thiese chicks. But I dob't play with married women.
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One of the reasons that I am trying this site is to get better at discussing the topic of sex with a woman. It is not that I can't I am just not comfortable with sex as the main topic. I don't mean like uncle pervy stuff, I would like to get to where I am able to discuss the different aspects, possibilities and such with out getting tongue tied. Is that wrong? I don't mind talking about sex, in fact I like to hear a man's perspective...It makes me a better lover ..What I don't like is a man who doesn't understand how and when to approach the topic of sex and/or is a one dimensional conversationalist...If I think that sex is all he can or wants to talk about, I'm out...
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Very good point,it is such a repressed topic of conversation in the U.S. In both Australia and England during get togethers it was a much used topic and created fun lively discussion and debates. Here you mention it and you are villified or have a personal agenda. Well, it can be odd when a complete stranger brings up sex and wants to talk about it. Are you saying talking about sex isn't personal, though? If not, what is it? You can get graphic and it can get very uncomfortable, but along the lines of lights on or lights off or do you enjoy it or is it an obligation. There are many ways to approach the discussion without getting deeply personal, but you need to gauge the person you are talking with and not cross into a bad road. |
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Very good point,it is such a repressed topic of conversation in the U.S. In both Australia and England during get togethers it was a much used topic and created fun lively discussion and debates. Here you mention it and you are villified or have a personal agenda. Well, it can be odd when a complete stranger brings up sex and wants to talk about it. Are you saying talking about sex isn't personal, though? If not, what is it? You can get graphic and it can get very uncomfortable, but along the lines of lights on or lights off or do you enjoy it or is it an obligation. There are many ways to approach the discussion without getting deeply personal, but you need to gauge the person you are talking with and not cross into a bad road. Exactly...and in social situations like intimate dinner parties, cookouts, meeting for drinks lighthearted, casual sex talk happens all the time...I can't imagine why any mature adult would find it uncomfortable... |
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Edited by
MetalShadow6
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Sun 03/10/13 11:54 AM
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I think some feel uncomfortable bring it up at times. Some people see it as a taboo topic or as the OP said, don’t want to appear as uncle prevy.
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Very good point,it is such a repressed topic of conversation in the U.S. In both Australia and England during get togethers it was a much used topic and created fun lively discussion and debates. Here you mention it and you are villified or have a personal agenda. the way I see it some things should remain private and that means there will be isolated situations and company in which their discussion is appropriate we all use the toilet, but i dont necessarily want to take part or initiate a conversation about it,,,,and dont begrudge others who do we all have our thing sex is reserved for those I plan to have sex with or in general ADULT discussions centering around the topic for informational purpose and sharing,,, |
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@msharmony, u re right. i support your idea
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Yep, let's talk about sex!!!
Ooo wait, they took that forum out. 
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Yep, let's talk about sex!!! Ooo wait, they took that forum out. 
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Edited by
1Cynderella
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Sun 03/10/13 01:26 PM
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Infallible sex talk tip.
Simply use the asterix when making a sexual reference and you can never say anythign wrong. Example: Fellas, when you used to get  , for saying *** ****** * ** ***? What she's actually reading becomes *** ****** * ** ***, and she’s totally into it!  |
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ummmmaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhh..............
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Let's talk about SEX.... OK whassup dood? sex4 u ....I got girl cheap (j/k) 
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I think some feel uncomfortable bring it up at times. Some people see it as a taboo topic or as the OP said, don’t want to appear as uncle prevy. well then that is not the woman for you. Why would a man pursue a relationship with a woman who cannot discuss intimate behavior? as I live and breathe I will never understand men I don;t see why it is a taboo topic....what you discuss is simply a matter of the nature of the relationship as for the OP, if he is tongue tied maybe he is trying to push a conversation too soon and/or with the wrong person???? just a thought |
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