how do two members IM eachother on this site?

Why is is necessary to lie about anyting here? I am so tired of being lied to, even likttle ones that I jujst don'lt believe anyone anymore. I don't even know why I bother, I thought games were for children , I've always been honest to everyong and it seems to be getting me no where.

To understand is to comprehend, to comprehend is to know, to know is to have power. this alone does not answer my question. I know I'm attractive, I know I am smart, but I do not know why I get no results here, I received 40 hits in the last 24 hours on a pay site, all want to eet, of those three were acceptable enough to me, that attract me, to feel comfortable in public wsith, I write, I wait, I hope,I see. but I ask, why do I not get any hits on a site here, it is free has countless members, allows so much to its members for free, that has no competition, I use the same pictures of myself, yet I do not get any, not one single hit here. Yes, I do not UNDERSTAND, I do not Comprehend, I have no power, not here. I do not understand why I have such success on a pay site, one that I really do not like, but none here, on a site that I do like

Following someone's post, well, I'm beginning to ask myself that question. In the real world women and younger women tell me to my face that I am handsome and good looking with a muscular body that younger men just do not have. I don't really know if I do or not but this is what I am told. Course they are all married or have someone already. But here, I don't attract any female young or older to even chat with me. I question myself. Like many I have a FB page, I stopped making regular post for a few like three days and people telephoned me to see if I was OK, and they missed me, on and on,but nothing happens here. This site is free, works well, fairly easy to navigate, unlimited, so are the women here wanting some of the same things the men, like me, are? I have no clue.

This is sooo true and defies explanation. Beautiful women in the hands of men who treat them like **** is something I noticed as a teen ager, just couldn't understand it and still don't. Whe I was young just becoming interested in girls I was very shy, intimidated and in high school went steady with a very beautiful younger girl. Suddenly it was like I could have any woman I wanted, something like a power, never experienced it before. And like all absolute power, it corrupts absolutely. I cheated on this girl, hurt her terribly and it was only when I enlisted in the military towards the end of Viet Nam that I realized how much I was in love with her. I lost this girl forever, about once every five years she would reenter my life for a few days, and then leave me without explanation, again and again until I married womeone elsek someone really not worthy of my attention or love. I tried and never cheated of another woman or intentionally hurt one again and it just doesn't work. My marriage failed, subsequent women would stay, sometimes for years, then then cheat on me, lie to me, wtf is this ****. I never try to figure a woman out, just accept them as they are, it's not my place to try and change anyone. Now at 57, I still see the same game going one, beautiful women with men who just don't appreciate what they have, treat them as possessions, have no respect for them, control them. Is this the way it's suppose to be? I'm sorry, I just cant treat people like ****, women or men. The last one left me, lying and cheating again, with a huge financial debt that I'm still struggling with. Never again will I trust a woman with mney. I'm not interested in her money if she has any, and she will nevercontrol what I have at my disposal. I just don't understand.

I really don't know at this point, feel like I'm wasting my time, women, younger ones especially, sometimes write, sometimes view, none are within reasonable reach, usually hundreds of miles away at least. Most women like me enough to chat at least, can't even get that here. I'm real, I'm honest, too old? I don't know. Yes, I'm a little picky, but I look at the other males out there and come on now. This site is well constructed, you get it all for free. Pay sites are out for your bucks, even after you cancel they will hold your profile out there as a lure. Zoosk is one, I got absolutely no results there, the site tries hooking me up with women that I'm not attracted to all the time. I'm not beautiful, but I'm not a fat slob at all. Suddenly all these Zoosk women are trying to contact me, meet me and I'm not going to pay to gell them no or yes or take any chance on a site that says it's free, and then it costs something to do anything. I do not like deceptive practices. The only thing this site does not do is contact your email when there is activity on your account, but then, I guess no one is interested in me anyway. Like I said, feel like I'm wasting my time here. Everyone have a good day.

I know that love is still out there, finding one who is compatible is another thing, someone who will be loyal, put you above all others, someone who is honest, even if it hurts, honesty goes such a long wayit's right up there with good manners and with all of that cones a degree of class that will mesh with any group of people. A slender,, attractive woman, not a girl, would fulfill all these wishes I have.

Oh it's a beautiful day! Snow is melitng, sun is shining, good day to go flying. Too bad I don't have some nice looking chick to share it with. A man is a terrible thing to waste.

I talk about sex to women all the time, they love it, telll me ehy have never toalke like this before, don't know why they do it. love talking to me, continue contacting me for just that, most are married. I don't know why this happens but it does, i like to do it. One thing is I know that I could **** thiese chicks. But I dob't play with married women.

I have slender in there so that it will eliminate me having to tell all the fat chicks that I'm not interested inthem. Doesn't mean that I don't lke them, just that is not what I'm interested in. Also I cannot at all see how a girl or woman who is already slender would take offense at the titla, knowing already that she is already there and what I'm looking for. If anything I'd thing it would make them a little poleaed since many men are hung up on breasts, which slender cirls are usually on the meager side of that form of endowment. I don't care about that. Slender girls always have a nice looking backside that that really is a turn on fo rme and that's what starts the whole attraction process for this dude. I agree with the woman that said I should be able to say abnything I want. Aren't we all suppose to be adults here? I'm leaving that the way it is. Since asking that question I got two mails wantint to hook up, both ate way on the younger side of life as I'm old enough to be their father, like a little too young don't you think?.
If anyone else as something to ad and can do it in a constructive manner I would like to hear from them, maybe somone whi is a little slender. Really it's a matter of symetry for me, an average looking girl where everything fits just right is just as beautiful as a slender on to me. Anyway, thanks for all who dare to write and can do so tactfully, others are certainly welcome. On my FB page I get compliments about my looks all the time so I don't what the problem is here. Take care everyone, I mioght go flying today..

I'm 57, single, live alone, and I have two cats.

Single still

I've been on other dating sites and have no problem attracting women. The problem is the women I attract are ones that I'm not attracted to. I like how this website is set up, easy to use, write to people, etc, and it's free, But here not only do I attract what I'm not attracted to, I hardly have anyone who is interested in me at all. I think it's difficult to say what you would like without offending someone, or someone taking offense indirectly. So if someone can offer some positive criticism I'd appreciate suggestions.. Thanks. John.