Myself, I believe it can't be done. I believe that we carry those we loved in our hearts for all time. Oh, they break that heart, cause deep pain and anguish, but if you've really loved someone, while the crushing blow remains, you still love them.

Hearts are not meant to be perfect things. They are to be dented, cracked, smashed, chipped and broken. After the damage is done, the heart still feels, still carries the memories of the love and the pain. While a broken heart mends slowly, and really only with the aide of another, small shards are usually missing, because the previous owner did keep a small piece - strange though how it remakes it's exact shape.

Forget my love? How can I when she will be with me always?

yeah.!

exactly i feel .

true love never dies.

It all depends on your mind. If you have a strong mind, yes, if is weak no. If you are having a hard time, I will suggest to learn to meditate. It strenghtengs the mind and you will be able to control all thoughts. Hope this helps. Ooooorrr, just go on several dates. have fun and laugh alot eventually new thoughts replace old thoughts. I was married 21 years and loved her very much, I switched her off very quickly. Try also making a list of possitives and negatives. All I got. Or drink and kill some brain cells. drinker:

EJ:

True love is what God show His people. Other than that it is a rationalization we humans use to explain why we stay with our partner when she/he pisses us off so often.

I believe we choose these things.


I know frm experience that true love will definitely die if one or both partners chip away at it long enough. but when it is well tended, yes, it can last forever. So my lesson I have learned is to choose wisely.

No, it is not easy to forget a true Love. When I Love, it is a true Love and that does not die out easy.

I only remember the one's who were sweet to me, others not that much at all. Nasty ones are easily forgettable, and to be disposed of quickly. What makes me feel better, is the thought of the horrid one's being on a dating site, asking why they can't find a woman to date. Uh, hello. I think they must know why, deep down. They just expect women to suddenly accept their newly bitter selves. There is a reason I dumped them. They sure do know. Makes me laugh. A lot. . Thankgod we don't have to put up with them anymore. . One just kept going ON AND ON about the Falklands War, and how unfair it was that he had to pay his bills. He was way grumpy. I hear men complain a lot about these types of things, but I for one, am not one to sit and listen to moany people.

When I love, I love from my heart. Even when broken my heart still works.

Debbie, Debbie and Ann are you listening in this day? Three times my heart has been broken...yet I still dream of them but would never get back with them. No second chances to hurt again, would rather take a chance on someone new.

Another one had Staffordshire Bull Terriers. Never again. Isn't one enough? He had five. All that barking got annoying, so his neighbours ended up reporting him to the housing association, and he ended up getting an eviction notice. *rolling my eyes*. It was a bit dramatic. I knew I was better off leaving. I only date shy men, so I get surprised when they start opening up, more.

I agree with these comments, love can be lost because of our actions, or the actions of our partner, or both our actions.

Yep; it's easy to forget someone you love when they hurt you so badly that you end up hating them.

i have love for everybody thats been a part of my life...i dont think being weak minded has anything to do with it...people are constantly evolving and learning about who they are and couples grow apart sometimes...whats really cool is knowing you were a part of something special for a while in a world where everything comes to an end eventually... what more can we ask for

I've always found it easier to forgive the big things than the small ones. The big ones don't come around often enough to kill my affections. But, the little things seem to happen every day and just drive you nuts.

absolutely not easy..
you will always remember the person but u will forget the feelings

If you forget your love..call it something else..cause it ain't love..

Probably not.
All you can really do is understand this person was a part of your life. Why would you want to forget part of your life?