It all depends on your mind. If you have a strong mind, yes, if is weak no. If you are having a hard time, I will suggest to learn to meditate. It strenghtengs the mind and you will be able to control all thoughts. Hope this helps. Ooooorrr, just go on several dates. have fun and laugh alot eventually new thoughts replace old thoughts. I was married 21 years and loved her very much, I switched her off very quickly. Try also making a list of possitives and negatives. All I got. Or drink and kill some brain cells. drinker:

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