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| Topic: Is saying, "I Love You", ever wrong? | |
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I'm confused, how could telling someone they are loved be wrong? Just say it if you feel it? If it gets complicated after, it's not because of you or what you said... JMHO. yep, gotta take things slow... but when it's right just let the words flow...  good morning, greeneyes... 
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If you mean it, its never wrong. But if you dont, think of it as a suicide note. hi mikaxel, nice to meet you... now...... jeeeeezz, a suicide note? can you please expound on this a tad further... so my mind can wrap itself around your concept, at the very least...  |
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Edited by
AthenaRose2
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Tue 02/12/13 06:12 AM
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If you mean it, its never wrong. But if you dont, think of it as a suicide note. hi mikaxel, nice to meet you... now...... jeeeeezz, a suicide note? can you please expound on this a tad further... so my mind can wrap itself around your concept, at the very least... yes, me too... as flattering as attention can be, too much to soon has the opposite effect especially if it's from a complete stranger, even if it's shown in all good intentions... now if it's from somebody I'm secretly crushing on while he acts like I don't even exist, if he suddenly turned on the charm that could be a song from a different chorus... you feel my beat??? 
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I think some people may be addicted to the thrill of meeting new people and "winning" someone "over." If this involves saying "I love you" they will say it (and say anything) to "catch" their "fish" of the week or month...Their interest may be sincere at first but the trouble is they have a short attention span. And get bored very easily...Before long they feel an urge to keep moving down the line to hunt for new "fish to catch." (And another chance to "score" with someone new.)...I guess people like this are called "players." They "play" at love and "play" with people's emotions. Sad!
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If you mean it, its never wrong. But if you dont, think of it as a suicide note. hi mikaxel, nice to meet you... now...... jeeeeezz, a suicide note? can you please expound on this a tad further... so my mind can wrap itself around your concept, at the very least... yes, me too... as flattering as attention can be, too much to soon has the opposite effect especially if it's from a complete stranger, even if it's shown in all good intentions... now if it's from somebody I'm secretly crushing on while he acts like I don't even exist, if he suddenly turned on the charm that could be a song from a different chorus... you feel my beat??? |
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If you mean it, its never wrong. But if you dont, think of it as a suicide note. hi mikaxel, nice to meet you... now...... jeeeeezz, a suicide note? can you please expound on this a tad further... so my mind can wrap itself around your concept, at the very least... yes, me too... as flattering as attention can be, too much to soon has the opposite effect especially if it's from a complete stranger, even if it's shown in all good intentions... now if it's from somebody I'm secretly crushing on while he acts like I don't even exist, if he suddenly turned on the charm that could be a song from a different chorus... you feel my beat???
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I don't think it's wrong but I think a woman would be smarter to let the man be the first one to say it.
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I think some people may be addicted to the thrill of meeting new people and "winning" someone "over." If this involves saying "I love you" they will say it (and say anything) to "catch" their "fish" of the week or month...Their interest may be sincere at first but the trouble is they have a short attention span. And get bored very easily...Before long they feel an urge to keep moving down the line to hunt for new "fish to catch." (And another chance to "score" with someone new.)...I guess people like this are called "players." They "play" at love and "play" with people's emotions. Sad! Oooohh Greeneyes, you just pushed my button... how I know these players games and have been burned once myself. These kind of men are so convincing, I guess because they believe what they're saying, though I doubt it... I think it's like you said they like to fish and throw back rather quickly... but once we've been burned like this if we're smart we become extremely cautious of the men that follow this guy's performance. So, it is very sad that these types of games are played with people's feelings because it just makes meeting sincere people so much more difficult. |
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I don't think it's wrong but I think a woman would be smarter to let the man be the first one to say it. hi DLR, nice to meet you... and I agree with what you've said too.. |
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Do these three words, “I Love You”, hold some kind of magic power that can change a person’s life overnight? Or is it only the lonely hearts club band that knows the tune to this song, and how these three words can string people along?  Is saying, “I love you”, ever wrong? Why is it ever wrong? |
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Do these three words, “I Love You”, hold some kind of magic power that can change a person’s life overnight? Or is it only the lonely hearts club band that knows the tune to this song, and how these three words can string people along? Is saying, “I love you”, ever wrong? Why is it ever wrong? because love can hurt... and so can believing someone loves you when they don't... |
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Love don't always hurt. You say it as if it does everytime. What gave you that notion? By the way, love cant always have a +ve result. God, not everything has. We just have to minimise its hurtfulness as we do for everything in everyday life
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Love don't always hurt. You say it as if it does everytime. What gave you that notion? By the way, love cant always have a +ve result. God, not everything has. We just have to minimise its hurtfulness as we do for everything in everyday life I wasn't including every act of love as being painful... I was generalizing on your original question, "why is it ever wrong?" Because playing with someones heart by telling them you love them when you don't and you're just using the words as a means to an end causes real pain when they realize they've been played or used. So, it's wrong to tell them you love them when you don't. |
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Sure, it is never right to tell someone 'I love you' to get what you want and play with that person's heart. What if it is the other way round? Meaning what if the player is played? Would it make him/her happy? That's what i would like to know from these so called players. In my country I have seen many women do it. If there has been a law.....
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Sure, it is never right to tell someone 'I love you' to get what you want and play with that person's heart. What if it is the other way round? Meaning what if the player is played? Would it make him/her happy? That's what i would like to know from these so called players. In my country I have seen many women do it. If there has been a law..... Do you mean that a con has been out conned, when a player has been out played? It seems to me that players, if they are good at their games would know the tells of other players. So, if a player gets out played there must have been some reason to give their hand away. Maybe they thought by giving more they would get more, because their feelings were more deeply involved then the other's, but they took their chances anyway hoping for a truer commitment, when they should have just kept up the game until they knew there was no way for them to lose. just saying... |
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