believe it or not guys aren't always the ones taking advantage and i hate people being so bias. Seriously we're all adults here make your decisions and what happens happens so think before you do something that is a given its your decision there is no right or wrong answer to your question its all based on your own morals and only you can answer whether this is ok to you or not. Im sorry ladies but if you let a guy have you on the first night is it really his fault blame can go both ways its like kids now days blaming their parents for them being the way they are and saying they did something bad because their parents raised them wrong. someone agree with me?

sex on first date?? as for me ..
BIG NO .. if its my first time meeting face to face ,were still stranger to each other,i still believe in old fashion way .. and we should be relax and have fun each other ,then we can maybe ??after 3rd or 4th date ?? but thats my opinion and im sticking with it.
FOR ME ,,having sex with someone ON FIRST date without having feelings to that person is YUK!!!

Ok if reasons for dating is jux for SEX,but not ok if dating means gettin to know each other better,cos it depicts disrespectfulness on the gurl side.

What if a woman wants to take advantage of a man?

That's a pending decision. Til then you are still a whore. But hey, that's a good thing as you know.

Ya most boys would love to have sex on their first date... But it depends on his date if she is ready..

totally agree

Yep! Your right...everyone should accept responsibility for their own actions.

It's fine with me. Nothing to serious, feelings can be easily hurt. Personally I don't have any expectations.

I totally agree, too many people use their 'family situation' as an excuse for bad behaviour. I agree some girls are as bad as guys. Idiots are not gender biased ;)

Your ryt!!

Hello y'all

Yes, I like it. In fact, if a woman doesn't have sex with me on our first date, I don't ask her out again. I've only been on a couple of first dates that didn't end with sex. So, from my point of view, it's the normal thing.

Women keep talking about "respecting themselves." I don't understand how enjoying a pleasurable experience with another adult is disrespectful to one's self. In fact, it seems to me that denying one's self that pleasure would be more disrespectful.

There was a time when waiting made sense. She could become pregnant and be left to raise a child without a man in a world where she couldn't make a decent living. But, times have changed. Birth control has given women the power to choose when and with whom they'll have a child with.

YEP..ITS OK....AS FAR AS U R NOT COMMITED...JUST FOR FUN...

Surely there are two feelings on first date sex.
Firstly some people both men and women are thrilled by casual sex.
Secondly there is the loving relationship where sex is stupendous.

They sure do!

Who said sex on a first is casual?

And, what's so "stupendous" about sex in a loving relationship?

It's been my experience that th longer two people are together, the less frequent sex becomes and the more tedious. But, when it's new, with a new person... It just doesn't get any better than that.

Why buy the Cow,If ya get the Milk Free???

Some of us want to keep the milk all to ourselves.

Absolutely No sex on first date.