believe it or not guys aren't always the ones taking advantage and i hate people being so bias. Seriously we're all adults here make your decisions and what happens happens so think before you do something that is a given its your decision there is no right or wrong answer to your question its all based on your own morals and only you can answer whether this is ok to you or not. Im sorry ladies but if you let a guy have you on the first night is it really his fault blame can go both ways its like kids now days blaming their parents for them being the way they are and saying they did something bad because their parents raised them wrong. someone agree with me?