Topic: sex on first date
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Tue 01/29/13 11:41 AM
Why not? Is it always that only men who need sex ? Women also would like to have sex just for fun.

beyourman7's photo
Tue 01/29/13 11:42 AM
sex on the first date is fine if you dont want to go any further than that in a relationship, very rarely do relationships last where there is nothing to look forward too

navygirl's photo
Tue 01/29/13 11:43 AM

sex on the first date is fine if you dont want to go any further than that in a relationship, very rarely do relationships last where there is nothing to look forward too


:thumbsup:

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Tue 01/29/13 11:59 AM
Edited by singmesweet on Tue 01/29/13 12:01 PM

sex on the first date is fine if you dont want to go any further than that in a relationship, very rarely do relationships last where there is nothing to look forward too


I know several people who have had sex on the first date or very early on and the relationships lasted quite a while. So, I wouldn't assume that it's always true that a relationship isn't going to come out of sex on the first date. Not sure why you would think there's nothing to look forward to, either.

whattheheywastaken's photo
Tue 01/29/13 04:14 PM

so you guys have already experienced sex on first date?


I haven't experienced sex period.

I have experienced first dates that have lasted till sunrise,
but no sex on the first date.

teebee79's photo
Tue 01/29/13 04:16 PM


so you guys have already experienced sex on first date?


I haven't experienced sex period.

I have experienced first dates that have lasted till sunrise,
but no sex on the first date.


Couldn't sneak out the bathroom window, huh?

I kid...laugh

whattheheywastaken's photo
Tue 01/29/13 04:19 PM
Edited by whattheheywastaken on Tue 01/29/13 04:20 PM



so you guys have already experienced sex on first date?


I haven't experienced sex period.

I have experienced first dates that have lasted till sunrise,
but no sex on the first date.


Couldn't sneak out the bathroom window, huh?

I kid...laugh


lol no, I had to wait to be unchained from the basement.

teebee79's photo
Tue 01/29/13 04:25 PM




so you guys have already experienced sex on first date?


I haven't experienced sex period.

I have experienced first dates that have lasted till sunrise,
but no sex on the first date.


Couldn't sneak out the bathroom window, huh?

I kid...laugh


lol no, I had to wait to be unchained from the basement.


Ahh....makes sense! My captives usually make a break for it after the bathroom breaks!!
Chains..gotta remember chains!pitchfork

whattheheywastaken's photo
Tue 01/29/13 05:26 PM





so you guys have already experienced sex on first date?


I haven't experienced sex period.

I have experienced first dates that have lasted till sunrise,
but no sex on the first date.


Couldn't sneak out the bathroom window, huh?

I kid...laugh


lol no, I had to wait to be unchained from the basement.


Ahh....makes sense! My captives usually make a break for it after the bathroom breaks!!
Chains..gotta remember chains!pitchfork


Bathroom break? All I was given was a bucket.

Goofball73's photo
Tue 01/29/13 06:49 PM





No it's not ok. I want a committed relationship then sex.



Prude! :tongue: laugh


No need to be Nasty!!:angry:

This is my own personal Choice.


Notice the tongue and the laughing emoticon. I meant no disrespect at all. Dang it! (Sigh) Twenty lashes for me again. Lol!

MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 01/30/13 12:53 AM
Edited by MariahsFantasy on Wed 01/30/13 12:54 AM



No it's not ok. I want a committed relationship then sex.



Prude! :tongue: laugh


Whore!! :heart:

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Wed 01/30/13 01:16 AM
I am 18 and I think sex of first date is important to makes sure u are able to please each other sexualy

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Wed 01/30/13 05:37 AM
I wouldn't have sex with anyone I wasn't perpared to marry ...just in case she spawn the Antichrist

when kids enter into the equation, you have to be willing to get married and take care of them as a family unit

Goofball73's photo
Wed 01/30/13 05:41 AM




No it's not ok. I want a committed relationship then sex.



Prude! :tongue: laugh


Whore!! :heart:


Awwwww shucks. You do care. :wink: laugh

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Wed 01/30/13 05:49 AM






No it's not ok. I want a committed relationship then sex.



Prude! :tongue: laugh


No need to be Nasty!!:angry:

This is my own personal Choice.


Notice the tongue and the laughing emoticon. I meant no disrespect at all. Dang it! (Sigh) Twenty lashes for me again. Lol!


Didn't you get the memo? We're nor allowed to be funny on here any more, this is s serious site after all.

Goofball73's photo
Wed 01/30/13 05:57 AM







No it's not ok. I want a committed relationship then sex.



Prude! :tongue: laugh


No need to be Nasty!!:angry:

This is my own personal Choice.


Notice the tongue and the laughing emoticon. I meant no disrespect at all. Dang it! (Sigh) Twenty lashes for me again. Lol!


Didn't you get the memo? We're nor allowed to be funny on here any more, this is s serious site after all.


You mean we can get banned for this? scared scared :angel: :laughing:

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Wed 01/30/13 06:57 AM

Didn't you get the memo? We're nor allowed to be funny on here any more, this is s serious site after all.


oh ok, that's why a lot of my posts were being deleted, wow that's a relief, I was thinking it was because I was being rude or something

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Wed 01/30/13 11:50 AM
Sex on the first date...YES
and on the second, and the third...and the 50th...and the, well you get the picture. The dating stops when the sex stops!

resserts's photo
Wed 01/30/13 03:50 PM
Some people place a lot of importance on the meaning of sex in a relationship and to what it means to their self-respect, and other people are much more relaxed about it. I don't think it's necessarily one way or the other. If you think sex is considerably more important on a level beyond the intimacy of the moment, then you probably wouldn't want to be physically intimate too early in a relationship. If you don't take sex very seriously beyond the act itself, then do what feels right to you in the moment. One other thing I will point out is that not all first dates are created equal; if you have been chatting long-distance with someone online for weeks or months and you feel like you've gotten to know that person quite well, it might not be as introductory as a run-of-the-mill first date with someone you met at a bar. Don't do anything because you think you're "supposed to" and don't do anything you aren't comfortable doing, but otherwise do what comes naturally if you feel so inclined.

dreya83's photo
Wed 01/30/13 06:24 PM
hell no