Topic: WHAT ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT QUESTIONS 2 ASK SOMEONE YOU MEET
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Mon 01/21/13 11:45 AM

Nothing says romance like an interrogation.



especially if they show up with handcuffs

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Mon 01/21/13 11:49 AM

I'd want to know that they are single. Beyond that, I would hope the questions would just come up in conversation, as I don't like being interviewed on a date. And I have no desire to sit and ask someone a list of questions.


:smile: I agree,it's not a job interview

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Mon 01/21/13 02:56 PM
If you have to ask him all sorts about himself, then it seems he could be hiding info from you. Tread carefully if they seem reluctant to give much away.

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Tue 01/22/13 05:09 AM
Well maybe I would ask: Why are we here for? What is the meaning of love for you? Have a great day to all.:smile:

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Tue 01/22/13 08:42 AM
Here's a few other important questions to ask early;

Do you take any psychiatric medications?

Have you ever been arrested?

If you became pregnant, would you be willing to have an abortion?

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Tue 01/22/13 11:55 AM
honesty is a must, i would want to know if they were in a relationship, and the rest would come with chatting, you guys have a wonderful afternoon :)

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Tue 01/22/13 05:47 PM

Nothing says romance like an interrogation.




huh Torgo, how do you know about the Melmacian dating ritual?

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Tue 01/22/13 06:21 PM
I would ask, are you from China's Northern Hebei Province? If so, what kind of vehicle did you drive?

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Tue 01/22/13 06:43 PM

Here's a few other important questions to ask early;

Do you take any psychiatric medications?

Have you ever been arrested?

If you became pregnant, would you be willing to have an abortion?


Can we have dinner first??

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Wed 01/23/13 04:18 AM


I will start and please feel free to add more...

-What is the one thing about yourself that you would like me to know?

-Have you had a long-term relationship? Why did it end?

-What do you think is the most important value in a relationship?

-Have you been married before?

-Do you have any children? How do you feel about children?

-If you are married, who would you honor first: your spouse or your friends or your parents or your children (if applicable)?


Honestly if someone asked me all these questions the first time they met me I would be looking for a exit...

If we had meet online first I would have asked if they were married, had children ext...just to make conversation...prior to meeting them...Then make the first meet more casual and easy going...

And if I was meeting them for the first time outside of the internet would only ask if they were married if they asked me out on a date... all the other stuff will come through conversation.

Myself I don't like to be drilled, get to know them first and ask questions along the way... People tend to feel threaten if they feel like they are being drilled about their life... You can find more out just starting things slow others are more likely to feel at ease and reveal more about themselves...JMO...whoa


Amen to that! lmao

Asking to many q's on a first date especially q's that i find personal to me, would have me heading for the door quick smart. Besides you wouldnt want to know or share too much about yourself with your date anyway... what the hell would you talk about on the nxt date (if there is a nxt). Be selective in what q's you ask... nothing too personal and or offensive.

I find a little humor can be a nice ice breaker and then from there just ease into the conversation. You dont want bombard them with q's that may have your date running for the hills.


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Wed 01/23/13 08:11 AM
are they real. and your place or mine.

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Wed 01/23/13 02:01 PM

are they real. and your place or mine.
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yes they are but the t-shirt is fake..................

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Wed 01/23/13 04:31 PM
1. Hi! Would you like some coffee?
2. What's your curfew?...
His answers to these would set the mode of our date...

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Wed 01/23/13 04:34 PM
Your place or mine?

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Wed 01/23/13 05:38 PM
Do you have a credit card?

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Wed 01/23/13 09:06 PM


are they real. and your place or mine.
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yes they are but the t-shirt is fake..................
take it offlove

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Fri 01/25/13 08:05 PM
Edited by Casper039 on Fri 01/25/13 08:06 PM

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Fri 01/25/13 08:43 PM


I will start and please feel free to add more...

-What is the one thing about yourself that you would like me to know?

-Have you had a long-term relationship? Why did it end?

-What do you think is the most important value in a relationship?

-Have you been married before?

-Do you have any children? How do you feel about children?

-If you are married, who would you honor first: your spouse or your friends or your parents or your children (if applicable)?


Honestly if someone asked me all these questions the first time they met me I would be looking for a exit...

If we had meet online first I would have asked if they were married, had children ext...just to make conversation...prior to meeting them...Then make the first meet more casual and easy going...

And if I was meeting them for the first time outside of the internet would only ask if they were married if they asked me out on a date... all the other stuff will come through conversation.

Myself I don't like to be drilled, get to know them first and ask questions along the way... People tend to feel threaten if they feel like they are being drilled about their life... You can find more out just starting things slow others are more likely to feel at ease and reveal more about themselves...JMO...whoa
drinker :thumbsup: first possible exit, first plausible excuse lol

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Fri 01/25/13 08:44 PM

Here's a few other important questions to ask early;

Do you take any psychiatric medications?

Have you ever been arrested?

If you became pregnant, would you be willing to have an abortion?
now there's some true romancerofl rofl

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Fri 01/25/13 08:45 PM

are they real. and your place or mine.
yes AND neither - shut up and let me drivedrinks