Topic: WHAT ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT QUESTIONS 2 ASK SOMEONE YOU MEET | |
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Hi!,If there's something about me that turns you off,would you tell me, or would you tell your bestfriend?
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Edited by
CremeBrulee
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Sun 04/07/13 04:07 AM
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I will start and please feel free to add more... -What is the one thing about yourself that you would like me to know? -Have you had a long-term relationship? Why did it end? -What do you think is the most important value in a relationship? -Have you been married before? -Do you have any children? How do you feel about children? -If you are married, who would you honor first: your spouse or your friends or your parents or your children (if applicable)? Most important to me; Are you seeing/dating anyone? Because,i dont want any women attacking me with a container full of acid!! After that,all the other info that i need,i get thru conversation! I have had guys asking if i had any questions that i need to ask......even pestering me about it,just because they asked me qns and i answered,they think i'll grill them back!!! I dont do grills-am not the FBI or CIA! What i want to know about a man am interested in,i'll know-given time and attention,So long as i asked that 1st question! |
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I will start and please feel free to add more... -What is the one thing about yourself that you would like me to know? -Have you had a long-term relationship? Why did it end? -What do you think is the most important value in a relationship? -Have you been married before? -Do you have any children? How do you feel about children? -If you are married, who would you honor first: your spouse or your friends or your parents or your children (if applicable)? I agree with some of these questions and would add How do you feel about marrying? The questions don't make me feel drilled or anything, they are just questions. Si,and we all know that some men dont feel the necessity to tell the truth when interrogated like that! |
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People can lie or imbellish answers to certain questions asked in interrogation form. I prefer a more relaxed conversation revealing when I feel comfortable. Am with you!! |
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People can lie or imbellish answers to certain questions asked in interrogation form. I prefer a more relaxed conversation revealing when I feel comfortable. Am with you!! |
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Just because you ask a bunch of questions doesn,t mean you are getting the truth ,so why bother?Time will tell. VERY true!! |
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I think I would have a harder time believing somebody that said they didn't have debt.Nowadays I think most people have some sort of debt. Actually,I dont!! |
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One of the things I usually like to ask is: What is your name? Ha ha haaa...... This as Numbre 1!! |
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Edited by
1Cynderella
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Sun 04/07/13 07:29 AM
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I agree that a name is a good place to start, then i want to uncover their personality. I may ask casual questions as we converse, but don't tend to even consider more serious matters until i know if i would even be interested in the first place.
Strangely enough, a lot of men i meet seem to be more curious about who my daddy is... |
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How about:
Number 1: Are you in a relationship? I want to know that right away. Next: Do you have a job and do you live independently or with your mother? |
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Are you rich or famous ?
What kind of car do you drive? |
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What do you do in your spare time? I want to know if they have any #1.
Are your parents still alive, it will usually get them talking about their relationship with them. I always bring up subjects of diversity, because i love all people and need someone with a open heart and mind. |
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a little bit of questions is ok, just not a lot b/c it will really feel like you are on a job interview and that would just totally turn me off.
here are some questions: what are you in to? what type of person do you think of yourself as? what are your hobbies or fun ideas of things to do? |
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Edited by
Starstuddedeyes
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Mon 04/08/13 05:15 PM
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Please can you bring your birth certificate, your driving license, and your I.D card? Because I'm sooooooo paranoid that you could be a Paedo or a Psycho.
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If you act like they're too important, they'll react like you're not.
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