Topic: WHAT ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT QUESTIONS 2 ASK SOMEONE YOU MEET
irisheyes79's photo
Sat 01/26/13 07:35 AM


are they real. and your place or mine.
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yes they are but the t-shirt is fake..................
bigsmile

irisheyes79's photo
Sat 01/26/13 07:36 AM


are they real. and your place or mine.
yes AND neither - shut up and let me drivedrinks
laugh

krupa's photo
Sat 01/26/13 08:31 AM
Seems like an lot of questions about a past that can't be changed......and not enough questions about what you want from the rest of your life and the s.o.b. you will spend it with.

no photo
Sat 01/26/13 09:15 AM
are you breathing?
do you like sex?

no photo
Sat 01/26/13 09:16 AM
ok i will be serious.
HMMM....
ARE YOU REALLY A GIRL?
oops sorry again.


Patrick955's photo
Sun 01/27/13 01:33 PM
Seriously guyz dis is romance 4 cryin out loud nt sum military training skul, it's quite true we ought 2 ask questions, but it has 2 cme slowly. all dis questn in a day hell nah.

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 01/27/13 04:01 PM

I will start and please feel free to add more...

-What is the one thing about yourself that you would like me to know?

-Have you had a long-term relationship? Why did it end?

-What do you think is the most important value in a relationship?

-Have you been married before?

-Do you have any children? How do you feel about children?

-If you are married, who would you honor first: your spouse or your friends or your parents or your children (if applicable)?


Wow; since when does a casual date qualify as a basis for an amature attempt at a psychological or financial profile? And how would anyone think amature results are enough to draw a conclusion from?

I get why people want to avoid the nutcases and deadbeats but if a person has something to hide chances are they are way more used to hearing these questions than you are asking them so you are not going to get a truthful answer to a straight up question.

So faceing the fact that discovery about someone is a process and not just something you can pull out a check list and get out of the way seems more intelligent to me.

Do I take notes about what I learn about someone over time and compare or even check it for honesty; sure, it pays not to make serious life decisions on marginal or conflicting information.

But the best way to get information about someone is just watch and pay attention to that little voice in your heard that tells you wheather you are being BS'd or not.

One thing about paying attention you see how people treat other's, spend money, communicate, step up in a situation, and most generally live is that is exactly how they are going to treat you in the future. The hints you get will be subtle but that little crappy feeling in the pit of your stomache should be enought to move on. And yes it is a game of numbers where you are going to probably kiss a hundred toads or toadetts in the process.

If you are not up for the process then bag dating and just hang out with friends. Which is probably a lot easier to attract someone you want to be with and will fit into your life. At least friends and family can help you check out the ones you do meet. How people act around your friends and family will tell you way more about how a relationship is going. If someone is not wiling to be around your peers fairly early in the relationship (I am NOT talking about minor children) then you would be beating your brains out for nothing.

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Sun 01/27/13 07:57 PM
Ii like it. That' hilarious.you caught me off guard.even funnier haahha.........:tongue:

Allan's photo
Sun 01/27/13 10:27 PM
What is the one thing that u like about yourself?

Taimane2012's photo
Tue 01/29/13 12:44 AM
I would just keep it simple and fun on the first few dates.

What do you like to do for fun? What's your favorite food's? what kind of movies do you like? What's your favorite sport's?

Listen well and let them do all the talking! lol, you'll be amazed at what you find out!

no photo
Tue 01/29/13 10:35 PM
Do you enjoy blow jobs?

SimplicityAtItsBest's photo
Tue 01/29/13 10:37 PM
Are those real????

surprised

JustANormalPerson's photo
Tue 01/29/13 11:30 PM
I just go with one

Did it hurt

Then she says what

And u answer

When you fell from heaven.

SimplicityAtItsBest's photo
Tue 01/29/13 11:35 PM

I just go with one

Did it hurt

Then she says what

And u answer

When you fell from heaven.



Hmmm..Didn't know peeps still use that corny pick-up line. laugh

JustANormalPerson's photo
Tue 01/29/13 11:45 PM


I just go with one

Did it hurt

Then she says what

And u answer

When you fell from heaven.



Hmmm..Didn't know peeps still use that corny pick-up line. laugh


Only when its worth it. :smile:

PrintsCharming's photo
Sat 04/06/13 11:39 AM
What are you doing to make the world a better place ?

What are your 3 best characteristics you bring into a relationship ?


ViaMusica's photo
Sat 04/06/13 11:48 AM
What are you looking for in life and in dating/relationships? (Helps to nail down how compatible we might be.)

What do you think is really important in life? (See above. There has to be at least some basic match-up in this, I think.)

Do you read books? (Please tell me you read books.) What kind of books do you like best? (Helps me to get a handle on how the other person's mind works if I know what they read. And if they don't read, then there's likely to be a disconnect between us at some point, since I'm both an avid reader AND a writer.)

What would you like to be doing in five years? (Again, something that gives me an idea of what makes this person tick, because ambitions and long-range thinking say a lot about someone.)

msharmony's photo
Sat 04/06/13 11:49 AM
these days,,

are you married?
are you std free?

lol

Mortica7's photo
Sun 04/07/13 12:26 AM
Let's see, after several incidences of 'mis-communication' standard questions:
1. Are you single?
2. How long have you been single?
3. And is your last girlfriend and/or wife aware that you are single?

It seems that some men have a propensity to change their status without informing their partners of the change.
Go figure

PrintsCharming's photo
Sun 04/07/13 12:50 AM
Are you happy ?