Of course, but knowing there's chemistry and knowing she wants sex are two different things.

So, when they say a woman decides to have sex or not within a few seconds of meeting a man, it just isn't true.

i want to meet u

People are smart and with education are capable of making intelligent decisions. When I was 16 my 14 year old girlfriend was on the pill. In fact, every girl I met was on the pill until the mid 80s when AIDS had everyone to afraid to have sex at all.

I told my oldest son that having children would be the end of life as he knew it. It would destroy his future before he had a chance to create it. Any young man that doesn't use condoms every time he has sex with a woman is handing over 100,000 little blank checks. Forget collage. Forget becoming rich. Forget ever owning anything nice and bettering yourself. You'll be too busy changing diapers or working to pay child support.

You don't have a life plan? Better make one fast and stick to it or life will run you over like a Mack truck and leave you bleeding on the side of the highway.

Congratulations champ. Ten pages and you finally got to the conclusion that some women just don't know what they want.

I'm just floored that all of the above came out of "why not sex on a first date"

Faahhhhh....i think you just answered your own question there Texy ;-)

The question was;



This was something I'd read both here and other places.

What I found out is, it's not true. Women, for the most part DO NOT decide to have sex in the first few seconds. It takes more time than that. So, myth busted. Somebody call Jamie and Adam.

We find what we look for, correct?

So if you are looking for head games you will find them.

A woman knows if there is chemistry, the chemical reaction our bodies have with someone that is chemically exciting within a few seconds of being close to them, yes.

Does a woman decide sex will happen then, no.


For me, sex isn't decided at any point. I let nature take it's course. If I am attracted enough to spend some time with you.... then if I am attracted enough to kiss you....if that goes well then maybe more will happen. I still hold the right to say no whenever I feel the need and so does he.

We could have told you from the beginning that not all women are the same and therefor women will decide to have sex at different times. Not all will know immediately if they're going to have sex with someone.

I always look for facts and the truth.



So, why didn't anyone?

Facts and truth from your perspective though....which is slightly biased in one direction, wouldn't you agree?

The facts are the facts and the truth is the truth. That's the difference between truth and opinion. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, but no one is entitled to their own facts. Someone may not like the facts, but that doesn't change them.

My post to you, first page, 8th post....

First of all, women who "know they want to have sex within the first few seconds of meeting a guy" is not true of every woman, just sayin... For those who have experienced this but did not have sex right away, there could be several explanations ...Maybe the guy didn't share her feelings, or maybe he was on the down low, or maybe the woman was menstruating and did not want her first sexual encounter with him to be experienced under those circumstances, or maybe she had a yeast infection or herpes and was not ready to divulge either, or maybe she forgot to pack a condom and was too embarrassed to ask if he had one, maybe she was too nervous, or too shy, or too scared, or too religious, or too WHATEVER!...Why must you always assume the woman is making a power play or playing head games with the man?.....And FYI, sometimes we meet guys we want to have sex with and we really don't give a damn if they respect us in the morning or not because we feel exactly the same way some of you guys feel....

I bet if you scroll back through all 10 pages, you'll find that one or more did say that.

However, it's common sense. Not all women are exactly the same, so not all women will think the same way.

I agreed that some had posted valid reasons.

Who said women are all the same? Not me. I have NEVER said that.

If you did not believe women are all the same, then you would know that not all women would feel the same about knowing when they'll have sex with someone. I guess I just don't understand where this confusion is coming from.

I was trying to discuss the topic in general terms. When I ask a question about something that's generally true, I get 10 replies all saying "I'm not like that." Fine. I'm not asking about you. Just because there are exceptions to a rule doesn't mean the rule isn't generally true.

Tex, statements like "women always want more" do tend to give the impression that you think that all women are the same. It is just false that women always want a serious relationship and this site is full of women that are damaged by bad relationships and are only looking for something casual or just for friendship or to chat. I find it hard to believe that you really do date these women or chat with them if you don't even know that.

So you're asking something about women that you believe to be true for the most part, but you don't want to hear several women saying that's not true, because you're not asking about them?

hahahaha^^^^^.....I'm sure Texy will be along shortly to answer that....just as soon as he gets his foot out of his mouth. Tell me Tex...what does that taste like?

Of course I know that. But, as I said, I was speaking in general terms.