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hey tryingagainmike
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Lying is not gender specific. Both men and women lie, but not all. There are people who are dishonest and those that are honest. You simply have to weed through the good and the bad.

My advice is don't waste another moment thinking of this jerk. He is just playing w/ your strings.

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Sad as it is, there are occasions that lying is good. On principle I try not to lie, but I can respect it's usefulness in the proper place.

Basically, if you cause no hard to yourself or others, you're doing good.

sounds to me like a player,he only wants you when his other woman and him fight maybe? and if he won't go out and be seen with you then thats a big deal which probably really does mean he does have someone else. Why don't you find someone else that you deserve!

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there is a thing called diplomacy...you can call it lying if youwant, but, properly applied, can prevent hurt feelings and pain. I think that is often confused with bald faced lying. No sense hurting feelings if you can possibly avoid it

sounds like your a sucker with low selfesteem.. hmm your asking the wrong qustion for one you should be asking why havent you moved beyond him.. Dont get mad at me for being honest but Some people set them self for failure and the sad thing is no matter what I say your probally going to go back to him. well have fun nite nite phill

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Hi, I was given a book called "He's not that into you" and I found out that we allow these guys all kinds of reasons why they do what they do, when the bottom line is that he in not that into you. It is a hard pill to swallow, but it is so much better when you realize that he just is not that into you and that you deserve so much more than that. Now if a guy doews not call or give me the time of day that I feel i deserve, I just tell myself, that he is just not that intome and move on. It is alot easier to face the truth than to live with the horrigble gut sick feeling---what did I do, or what can I say or do to make it different?

mckeachie does have a point! Another reason not to waste a single moment over this so call guy.

The harsh truth is.....Stupid is as stupid does. Not to be mean, just giving you a reality text slap. If you love yourself then you don't need inconsiderate people to bring you down. If you don't love yourself, try focusing your energies on figuring out how to and then maybe you will stop being as co-dependant. If you accomplish this, many things will fall into place. The more you start enjoying life the more you start enjoying life.

~Do not hold people up to your expectations or you will be dissapointed most of your life.~

Just remember to be thankful for all the good qualities that you posses and pity those less fortunate.


ME

Because they're wired that way. Because they know they can get away with it. Because somebody poisoned their Wheaties and they're slowly rotting away from the inside out...

IMHO the best antidote is to date multiple guys/gals. That way you never have to worry about any one person breaking your heart. Oh and it's a hell of a lot more fun than playing the accordion with your toenails... :)

Humm all I can say is he never had the intentions of leaving his wife before or now. If he says he is, it must be just to keep you happy for the momment. But to each there own

Well the first clue is he is UNAVAILABLE so I'm taking it he's married. If you expect honesty out of a cheater then I would step back and ask yourself why if he isn't being honest with his wife or g/f that you think he would be honest with you!!!!!!!!!

Getting involved with anyone that is not available is asking for trouble and I would say that you have stuck around for 8 years too long!!!!!!!

Simple The Loser wants to have his cake and eat it to.....Me I always tell the truth these days because the past has thought me the truth is SO much easier to tell and to REMEMBER.

You've waited *8+* years for him to be "man enough" to tell you he's not interested?!? Maybe 8 years of therapy or pedicures would have been the better option.

<Wondering why you weren't "woman enough" to expect better>

Randomx

'the truth is SO much easier to tell and to REMEMBER'




The older we get we learn that the truth is all we have...But even remembering the truth let alone what we did 10 minutes ago is the problem

someone said dump him and find a real man.....


sweetheart i think you should just count your blessings and keep this guy.

it's obvious that he is committed to you, he's kept you dangling for 8whole years!!
that has to mean something! at least you know who he is, you know he won't take your invitations and you probably know why

you know why he doesn't call you often and you've dealt with it these 8 years!!! you gonna throw all that away!!???

oh yes and the intimacy!! look , how many women can have the space and the freedom to do whatever they want and have a man who will service them once and awhile too!!?

look ya don't have to do his laundry or wash his dishes or smell his stinky underwear and shoes all over your house

you don't have to watch his movies or meet his mother!!

or raise his kids...sounds like a sweet arrangement you have there

quit complaining

you obviously are into him or why would you have invested 8 years...

imagine you would have to live with this guy, knowing he will do to you what he does with his wife... oh yeah you already do , do that...so you know what it is like to be one of many.... do you think you are the only one? ofcourse not, you're not that dumb...

so hey... don't wait for him to end it... why should he???

it sounds like everyone is getting what they deserve!!!!

HIGH FIVE Bl8ant!

NOW PUT ON YOUR BIG GIRL PANTIES AND DEAL WITH IT!

MY GOD GIRL HE IS LIVING HIS REALITY YOU ARE NOT!