Topic: Would you date someone of a different race..No! why not?
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Sat 01/05/13 08:49 PM


I date who I am attracted to. If it happens to be someone of a different race, that's cool.

I am not attracted to guys who make a huge deal about race, though.


Not a big dale earnhardt jr fan huh???


Nascar? sick

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Sat 01/05/13 08:50 PM

I like my hot lil asian women, They are happy if the roof dont leak, if there is food and if i dont beat them. I have pretty much written off white women, they all seem to want me to have an ATM machine taped to my back. mabe its American women, or mabe its just the ones i meet. dunnow.


Sounds like it's just the ones you've met. Don't make silly assumptions that all of us are like that. whoa

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Sat 01/05/13 09:47 PM

My first online experience was on Zoosk. It was fun ....received a lot of "winks" and chat requests. One day I got an "odd" wink.
The guy said " Thanks for the interest. However I am a white boy and I'm looking for the same"
No he wasn't gay...he was looking for a white girl!

First of all... I did not message this guy...let's put that out there right away! He was in a grouping with a bunch of other guys. I politely told him that I did not view him or message him...Zoosk obviously sends random "matches" . I also informed him that he may want to keep that in mind before sending this type of message in the future.

My point is.... He couldn't be alone in his way of thinking!
Mingle people, if you don't mind interracial dating... however, its just not for you..Can you tell me why?


I never have but I can't say I never will date outside my race. Especially here in Hawaii, whites are the minority. Lots of Asians here and Pacific Islanders


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Sun 01/06/13 01:05 AM


'might date another race or color, it doesnt mean I dont love my strong black brothers,,,,,


I do not buy into the myth promoted by certain racists - that a man is your brother if he has the same racial features that you have.

As I have said before, there is only one race that is native to planet Earth . . . the human race. Looking at humans through a prism of "race" is what keeps racism alive.



there is the human race, but there are many smaller groups that have commonalities,,,,women/men, americans/canadians, southerners/northerners,,,,,acknowledging similarities with others , as long as its not hateful, is natural and healthy

people are just sensitive when the concept of 'race' is brought up, its no more or less of a valid way to categorize similar groups than any other label is,,,

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Sun 01/06/13 02:26 AM
I have dated outside of my ethnic group...several times. And that has never been an issue with me, and it will never be.

Well, I tend to avoid people who look at relationships through ethnic lenses. For such individuals are either very superficial or just plain racist.

There can be different reasons why someone may not make another tick, but should it really be just something like: He/she is Asian, black, white,or green or blue? I strongly believe it should not.

While we have no right to make that decision for anyone, we should not encourage that form of covert racism.

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Sun 01/06/13 02:51 AM


'might date another race or color, it doesnt mean I dont love my strong black brothers,,,,,


I do not buy into the myth promoted by certain racists - that a man is your brother if he has the same racial features that you have.

As I have said before, there is only one race that is native to planet Earth . . . the human race. Looking at humans through a prism of "race" is what keeps racism alive.


It's not a myth where i'm from. As a form of acknowledgement to the culture, we tend to call each other bro, sis, or cuz...it's just the way it is and in no way leaning toward segregation of black, white, brown, yellow, blue, pink or whatever the hell colour you happened to turn out. Although the only blue people i know of, are the ones that constantly tend to hold their breath in the hope of fook knows what.

So, i believe it has nothing to do with colour and everything to do with cultural differences...you either like it or you don't.

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Sun 01/06/13 02:58 AM
Edited by Duttoneer on Sun 01/06/13 03:15 AM

My first online experience was on Zoosk. It was fun ....received a lot of "winks" and chat requests. One day I got an "odd" wink.
The guy said " Thanks for the interest. However I am a white boy and I'm looking for the same"
No he wasn't gay...he was looking for a white girl!

First of all... I did not message this guy...let's put that out there right away! He was in a grouping with a bunch of other guys. I politely told him that I did not view him or message him...Zoosk obviously sends random "matches" . I also informed him that he may want to keep that in mind before sending this type of message in the future.

My point is.... He couldn't be alone in his way of thinking!
Mingle people, if you don't mind interracial dating... however, its just not for you..Can you tell me why?


Interacial dating is a two way thing, the person you ask for a date must be receptive to the idea as well, so this makes it more difficult because of fear of a rejection when asking for a date in my opinion. The tone of the guy's response to what he believed was a message from you was shameful in my opinion.

I have only ever dated UK white ladies, and probably will continue my search in the same way, better the devil you know than the devil you don't, although I must confess that I find oriental ladies very attractive in appearance, demeanour, and attitude to life, but that is possibly through watching too many films. If Zhang Ziyi needs a date when visiting the UK I will find space in my diary. :smile:



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Sun 01/06/13 05:35 AM
Might I add.... Personally I don't think there is anything wrong with feeling comfortable within your own race... I just think it's limited.

I have dated every shade, Color, ethnicity and culture.. Im glad I did!

I feel like my world is all that more enriched! Oh and a side note... dating men of different backgrounds also taught me...Men in general .....are not all that different.

Good or bad ladies....that would be up to you.

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Sun 01/06/13 06:06 AM
I myself do not decide who I date by skin color, I decide who I am going to date by the way I am treated. IF they treat me good and my family good, IF I like them..that is who I date.
Respect me and I will respect you NO matter what color you are!! biggrin

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Sun 01/06/13 08:47 AM


My first online experience was on Zoosk. It was fun ....received a lot of "winks" and chat requests. One day I got an "odd" wink.
The guy said " Thanks for the interest. However I am a white boy and I'm looking for the same"
No he wasn't gay...he was looking for a white girl!

First of all... I did not message this guy...let's put that out there right away! He was in a grouping with a bunch of other guys. I politely told him that I did not view him or message him...Zoosk obviously sends random "matches" . I also informed him that he may want to keep that in mind before sending this type of message in the future.

My point is.... He couldn't be alone in his way of thinking!
Mingle people, if you don't mind interracial dating... however, its just not for you..Can you tell me why?


Interacial dating is a two way thing, the person you ask for a date must be receptive to the idea as well, so this makes it more difficult because of fear of a rejection when asking for a date in my opinion. The tone of the guy's response to what he believed was a message from you was shameful in my opinion.

I have only ever dated UK white ladies, and probably will continue my search in the same way, better the devil you know than the devil you don't, although I must confess that I find oriental ladies very attractive in appearance, demeanour, and attitude to life, but that is possibly through watching too many films. If Zhang Ziyi needs a date when visiting the UK I will find space in my diary. :smile:





I didn't think there was anyone out there who still called people oriental.

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Sun 01/06/13 09:06 AM
I wouldn't mind at all, I actually even caught myself being more attracted to other races lately...

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Sun 01/06/13 09:20 AM



My first online experience was on Zoosk. It was fun ....received a lot of "winks" and chat requests. One day I got an "odd" wink.
The guy said " Thanks for the interest. However I am a white boy and I'm looking for the same"
No he wasn't gay...he was looking for a white girl!

First of all... I did not message this guy...let's put that out there right away! He was in a grouping with a bunch of other guys. I politely told him that I did not view him or message him...Zoosk obviously sends random "matches" . I also informed him that he may want to keep that in mind before sending this type of message in the future.

My point is.... He couldn't be alone in his way of thinking!
Mingle people, if you don't mind interracial dating... however, its just not for you..Can you tell me why?


Interacial dating is a two way thing, the person you ask for a date must be receptive to the idea as well, so this makes it more difficult because of fear of a rejection when asking for a date in my opinion. The tone of the guy's response to what he believed was a message from you was shameful in my opinion.

I have only ever dated UK white ladies, and probably will continue my search in the same way, better the devil you know than the devil you don't, although I must confess that I find oriental ladies very attractive in appearance, demeanour, and attitude to life, but that is possibly through watching too many films. If Zhang Ziyi needs a date when visiting the UK I will find space in my diary. :smile:





I didn't think there was anyone out there who still called people oriental.



I said the same noway

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Sun 01/06/13 09:29 AM
We call it the "human race" for a reason. As long as the person I am dating would be respectful, kind, and comforting, there would be no good reason in the world to say "no, we cannot date."

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Sun 01/06/13 09:46 AM
Id date him


or him




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and even




:tongue:

Duttoneer's photo
Sun 01/06/13 10:35 AM



My first online experience was on Zoosk. It was fun ....received a lot of "winks" and chat requests. One day I got an "odd" wink.
The guy said " Thanks for the interest. However I am a white boy and I'm looking for the same"
No he wasn't gay...he was looking for a white girl!

First of all... I did not message this guy...let's put that out there right away! He was in a grouping with a bunch of other guys. I politely told him that I did not view him or message him...Zoosk obviously sends random "matches" . I also informed him that he may want to keep that in mind before sending this type of message in the future.

My point is.... He couldn't be alone in his way of thinking!
Mingle people, if you don't mind interracial dating... however, its just not for you..Can you tell me why?


IInteracial dating is a two way thing, the person you ask for a date must be receptive to the idea as well, so this makes it more difficult because of fear of a rejection when asking for a date in my opinion. The tone of the guy's response to what he believed was a message from you was shameful in my opinion.

I have only ever dated UK white ladies, and probably will continue my search in the same way, better the devil you know than the devil you don't, although I must confess that I find oriental ladies very attractive in appearance, demeanour, and attitude to life, but that is possibly through watching too many films. If Zhang Ziyi needs a date when visiting the UK I will find space in my diary. :smile:





I didn't think there was anyone out there who still called people oriental.


I believe the term oriental is correct and more specific about ethnicity, in defining a person's origin as a native of the orient, Far East, as distinct from asian which includes peoples from some of the middle eastern countries as well.

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Sun 01/06/13 11:17 AM

Id date him


or him




or him



or him


and even



Im with you! Id take this line up too! Especially Robin Thicke!!!!!!

:tongue:

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Sun 01/06/13 02:00 PM
I will never try dating a blue woman again.
She wouldn't give me the time of day.
She just had a blank stare.


Ya' hear the one about the lifeguard who lost his job?


































The blue kid got him fired.:wink: smokin

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Sun 01/06/13 03:22 PM
Coming from Canada, and travelling around the world, I was fortunate enough to meet women from different cultures.

First and foremost there must be respect for each other.

Learn to listen and accept the differences with an open mind.

I have found in my dating experience that it doesn't matter where they are from or where they live, it matters where they are going. If both of you have a mutual understanding of the future, and what you want out of it, you will help each other to get there.

Yes, I have met the “loyal”, “trust worthy” ones all the way to the “Gold Diggers” and “Visa Wanters”
I would not discount an entire nations because of a few poor choices.

One bad apple, doesn’t spoil the whole bunch!

The true colour of a person will shine through when your relationship is tested. It does not matter what the obstacles are, you will booth work together to get through them.

Everything that I have said applies to any relationship, thanks for keeping an open mind.

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Sun 01/06/13 10:00 PM
nope no waynoway nature is not done that way
apple tree do not mix with tomato plant

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Sun 01/06/13 11:29 PM

nope no waynoway nature is not done that way
apple tree do not mix with tomato plant



the offspring look very 'natural' to me,,,,but to each their own,,,