Hi I am just beside myself and sickened to have found out my husband of 27 yrs has been picking up street corner whore's. I am devastated and in between shock, anger and sorrow. What would you do if you found this out about your husband ?

Divorce, counseling, and a visit to the doctor for STDs, comes to mind.

hey dear 1st think do u love me really if u do he will come back to u divorce is big dission dear hav thghts 4m ur side no one can help u out bcz thts ur lyf hunney

What he said and don't settle at the divorce lawyers office... Then learn to move on and live your life...

My first thing...honestly? Get an appointment with my doctor or a clinic and get tested for anything his encounters may have brought to your bed. Sad... but true. After that, well only you know all of your personal complications. You need to assess what's best for you and your children (Although I haven't peeked at your profile though to see if that's an issue). You joined here, so you're already looking at options. Best wishes, after that many years there are so many things you need to take into account. Atleast here, no matter what you decide, you can make some friends and vent where you might not otherwise have a place to vent in "real life" so to speak. But even in real life, as embarassing as it may be, seek out a friend you trust and vent.

better alone....than dead!!!

He has proven that he cares....Nothing for you, his family (if you had one) or your safety!!
JMO

I am so sorry you are going through this. The sense of betrayal must be overwhelming.
May I ask how you found out? Are you sure its even true? Twenty seven years of your life is a lot to throw away if it could be just speculation or rumours.

Find out why. Street hookers are not usually good looking women and he's obviously not in love with them. So, my first question would be....why???

After that, I don't know.

join a dating site.

two things come to mind here,

Jerry Springer...

And...

Another dysfunctional relationship that ended badly...

Don't need to think yourself to death. Truth is life has never been as fair as most of us wanted. It was never your fault. Be strong.

Get your health checked first. Then IF you want to find the truth, try counseling. If he will be truthful, never know what you may learn. If he won't cooperate, make your decision; AS YOU SEE FIT.
God Bless & best wishes.

There is always more to the story. Still, him seeking out whores probably means he wanted more thrill in his sex life. Guys don't seek out whores for looks. They seek them out cause its just wild, unfiltered sex. Anyways, if my lady sought out whores then I'd probably wanna join in. :p

Mmmm I would spend some quality time just thinking it out.
And not do anything while angry and hurt.
Must be awful for you.

Come to some conclusion as to what YOU really want.
What can YOU do to make yourself feel better.
Will it be a matter of living with it, and can you.
Or is getting away from the issue more important.

It is now about you, and what you want and need.
When trust is broken, depression can set in, particularly
when things seem out of your control.

Take it back.

That's one of the first things I'd do.

i think divorce is nt d rite step now........speak out 2 him,,d way u feel,so dat he should realize his mistakes....jus hold him n weep n remember him d golden moments u have spent together.

Doubt if that would be of much help... except for the forum that tend to keep one busy.

That is terrible, not sure what I would do!

Men doing dodgy stuff never surprises me. He would be a fool to throw away 27 years of what you both built together. I don'One day, he will wonder where sleeping at get how anyone can be tempted to leave after being with someone for this long. Sleeping around will really get him in the end. If you both end up breaking up, one day, in the cold light of day, he will kick himself for giving up a lot of time spent with you.

I agree with this advice all the way.Get tested right away! Good luck and god bless!