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Topic: where are all the single men??? the good ones? all taken?
whattheheywastaken Joined Wed 11/30/11 Posts: 1058	Fri 01/04/13 07:53 AM
Oh hey, that reminds me: Back in College, I was 'too good for her', so my girlfriend had to break up with me. So see, we're out there.

teebee79 Joined Wed 11/07/12 Posts: 2179	Fri 01/04/13 09:03 AM
Oh hey, that reminds me: Back in College, I was 'too good for her', so my girlfriend had to break up with me. So see, we're out there. aww.. sweetie, you got the it's not you it's me speech

whattheheywastaken Joined Wed 11/30/11 Posts: 1058	Fri 01/04/13 12:47 PM
Oh hey, that reminds me: Back in College, I was 'too good for her', so my girlfriend had to break up with me. So see, we're out there. aww.. sweetie, you got the it's not you it's me speech Thanky. Yeah, If only I was just the right amount of good.

puppymupps Joined Mon 01/21/13 Posts: 5	Mon 01/21/13 11:44 PM
Hi All; I just joined this site today and have really enjoyed reading all the responses to this issue. My opinion is yes, there are lots of wonderful men and women out there, but are we setting the bar too high. Alot have talked about visual and I can understand that on both ends. We all want some beauty or handsome that we can be proud to walk down the street with, but in time that will wear away. What about the nice gal or guy that happens to have a child or two and the moment some of us read that, we move on to the next profile, or what about someone who drinks a tiny bit too much or has the ocassional cigarette. Nice guys and girls are not perfect, so my advice is talk to lots of people, have dates and see where it goes. Nice guys and girls, in my opinion, typically won't ask to sleep with you on the first date anyway due to shyness, courtesy, decency and respect for you and themselves. So next time you see someone in your area looking, say hello and see where it goes. Sorry, rambling on.

Zeyboy03 Joined Thu 12/20/12 Posts: 3	Tue 01/29/13 04:53 AM Edited by Zeyboy03 on Tue 01/29/13 04:55 AM
I think they are out there (just as us good women are also), but our past experiences have left us jaded and untrusting. First we have to work on ourselves before we will be able to recognize and nurture a good relationship. What are you doing for you to become someone elses "good catch"? I like.. Smart girl!! :)

Zeyboy03 Joined Thu 12/20/12 Posts: 3	Tue 01/29/13 04:57 AM
Yes its hard i cant find any good guys,ive been looking hard for years now,date sites, text date,chat date, postal dating agencies,my defination of a good guy he gets to know me as a friend first wants my mind not my body,takes me to the cofee shop on the first date not ask me to bed,polite loyal and doesnt cancel on me ten minutes before the date sees me quite often.say twice a week if hes near to and every 2-3weeks long distance,and of cause that the travel isnt all one sided and a polite guy that we say cute stuff to eachother, i dont think im asking to much but i never seem to find anyone,like that My definition of a good guy is something very close to yours and haven't found anything close to it. It's incredible the first ten minutes I was talking to a guy he asked me would I have him in my place for the night !!!! I think there is something in the air that has turned guys into idiots !!! lol true story

tessa68 Joined Sun 10/01/06 Posts: 1699	Tue 01/29/13 07:41 AM
Some of them are here in the Philippines

Tattooed_Fella Joined Wed 01/30/13 Posts: 14	Wed 01/30/13 03:59 PM
Hmmmm same question could be asked to the ladies. Is it too much to ask for to find one lady who doesn't group all men as being the same?

shepherdson Joined Wed 01/30/13 Posts: 8	Wed 01/30/13 07:22 PM
We are out there... Some of us are real gun shy, specially when it seems there is no good women out there. I know better, but like you... It often seems that way. As stated by others.. Perseverance is the key, take your time. Just my opinion, not that IM doing any better than you.

shepherdson Joined Wed 01/30/13 Posts: 8	Wed 01/30/13 07:22 PM
We are out there... Some of us are real gun shy, specially when it seems there is no good women out there. I know better, but like you... It often seems that way. As stated by others.. Perseverance is the key, take your time. Just my opinion, not that IM doing any better than you.

shepherdson Joined Wed 01/30/13 Posts: 8	Wed 01/30/13 07:25 PM
AMEN !!!! Brother

t5t Joined Sat 01/26/13 Posts: 4	Thu 01/31/13 04:19 PM
I'm here, I think i'm a good one, well at least I'm trying very hard.. got my own place, got job and I goto school.

Levit1kiss Joined Sat 02/02/13 Posts: 1	Sat 02/02/13 01:34 PM
you will find what ur looking for

drkeefy Joined Sat 02/02/13 Posts: 1	Sat 02/02/13 02:43 PM
I feel i am a good good guy, 19yrs of going through the motions with the occasional reasonable day thrown in, the other problem is i feel guilty thinking about joining this site!!! Oh i'm screwed! I just want a freind, hold me..... well i got that rant outta da way. by being on here i'm nolonger a good guy so i think the best place to look is goodguy.com or a bin

Kennee77 Joined Sat 01/26/13 Posts: 236	Sun 02/03/13 03:23 AM
They're all locked in my basement. Hehehe and I Enjoy Staying there

jonnyappleseedx Joined Sun 02/03/13 Posts: 36	Mon 02/04/13 10:00 AM
Good guys are out there. Good girls can be misguided though thinking the bad boy image is the rush they need. Good guys finish last because we are the marrying type and are only usefull when the good girls are done playing with the bad boys and getting burned. All i want is fun, family and friends. Ive got an amazing job, a nice home, a new truck, i love to travel the world doing photography, surfing, exploring and the one thing missing is a good girl. Believe me, good guys are searching for good girls but like myself, ive hardly had a single view of my profile but Alf the alien has a following lol

mikaxel80 Joined Sat 10/06/12 Posts: 551	Tue 02/12/13 11:25 AM
It really is hard to find a good man!! I know it is difficult for anyone today, but I am losing hope! Belueve me don't. Try me. If you dont find me good enough.... But i know you will

mikaxel80 Joined Sat 10/06/12 Posts: 551	Tue 02/12/13 11:34 AM
Hi All; I just joined this site today and have really enjoyed reading all the responses to this issue. My opinion is yes, there are lots of wonderful men and women out there, but are we setting the bar too high. Alot have talked about visual and I can understand that on both ends. We all want some beauty or handsome that we can be proud to walk down the street with, but in time that will wear away. What about the nice gal or guy that happens to have a child or two and the moment some of us read that, we move on to the next profile, or what about someone who drinks a tiny bit too much or has the ocassional cigarette. Nice guys and girls are not perfect, so my advice is talk to lots of people, have dates and see where it goes. Nice guys and girls, in my opinion, typically won't ask to sleep with you on the first date anyway due to shyness, courtesy, decency and respect for you and themselves. So next time you see someone in your area looking, say hello and see where it goes. Sorry, rambling on. Damn right!! Open your eyes everybody. By the way, you didnt ramble on.

bikerblueeyes Joined Wed 02/13/13 Posts: 3	Wed 02/13/13 09:10 PM
OK! Where are all the good women at. Chit women out number men now days.

aqua8_1 Joined Tue 02/19/13 Posts: 51	Thu 02/21/13 07:41 AM
check me out please......