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Single ladies in K.C?
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Im new on here and i live in Gladstone. Im a 5'10" guy with blonde hair, blue eyes weighing in at about 170. I love working out, traveling, hiking, camping, surfing and photography. Ive had a good job for over 17yrs, own my own home and am very stable. Looking for a ambitious, adventurous, good hearted, loving women for dating and possible LTR.
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Any Good Guys Left???
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Are there any good guys left in Missouri?!? Under 30?? Lol 
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Im new on here and i live in Gladstone. Im a 5'10" guy with blonde hair, blue eyes weighing in at about 170. I love working out, traveling, hiking, camping, surfing and photography. Ive had a good job for over 17yrs, own my own home and am very stable. Looking for a ambitious, adventurous, good hearted, loving women for dating and possible LTR.
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Im new on here and i live in Gladstone. Im a 5'10" guy with blonde hair, blue eyes weighing in at about 170. I love working out, traveling, hiking, camping, surfing and photography. Ive had a good job for over 17yrs, own my own home and am very stable. Looking for a ambitious, adventurous, good hearted, loving women for dating and possible LTR.
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mornin ((((Stoners))))  ahhhhhhhhh the aroma of ganja in the mornin is like music to the nostrils.. this BUDS fer y'all!!  sssssmokin..  
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a flip, yeah!! puff puff pass stoners! :)
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I typically find that emails using baby, honey, sweetie and other terms of endearments, are from scammers or fakes.. excuses or reasons aside for using them.. a simple Hi, how are you? or something similar is preferable on initial contact.. I just feel that using any form of intimacy before knowing another is disrespectful, which creates an immediate distrust and wariness.. at least it does for me.. Yep; I agree with what you said and yes I would find it disrespectful too.  No you don't NG... you're a hot sexy thang and you know it. No disrespect intended. Point being... you can sluff-off any slow-witted come-on, any day of the week, yes? What makes this site different? First thanks for the kind compliment as you make an old gal feel good. A person crosses the line when they disrespect me in my uniform. Don't forget; I have people to command and when someone does that; it makes me look weak and I won't be taken seriously. Out of uniform; I probably wouldn't even respond to their comments and would just ignore them. |
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Being called baby, sweetie, honey and so on by complete strangers makes me think those guys call all kinds of women by those names. Rather than be one of many, I prefer my own name used if we have been introduced. No need for cutesy little terms of endearment from strangers as it's cheesy and insincere. Of course it's not meant to be personal. And not quite sure how it's diversity. Why not use your own advice and try to be more understanding of where others are coming from as well? Maybe you'll understand why it might bother some people. I don't think it's a big deal to be called hon, sweetie and so on by random strangers. I think it's a bit cheesy, though. And insincere, since some do it to everyone. But if it makes you happy, go for it. |
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I typically find that emails using baby, honey, sweetie and other terms of endearments, are from scammers or fakes.. excuses or reasons aside for using them.. a simple Hi, how are you? or something similar is preferable on initial contact.. I just feel that using any form of intimacy before knowing another is disrespectful, which creates an immediate distrust and wariness.. at least it does for me.. |
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Being called baby, sweetie, honey and so on by complete strangers makes me think those guys call all kinds of women by those names. Rather than be one of many, I prefer my own name used if we have been introduced. No need for cutesy little terms of endearment from strangers as it's cheesy and insincere. Of course it's not meant to be personal. And not quite sure how it's diversity. |
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Edited by
jonnyappleseedx
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Tue 02/05/13 09:01 AM
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Being called baby, sweetie, honey and so on by complete strangers makes me think those guys call all kinds of women by those names. Rather than be one of many, I prefer my own name used if we have been introduced. No need for cutesy little terms of endearment from strangers as it's cheesy and insincere. |
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I recently came across a profile where this young lady had written about leaving this site because men use words like baby, honey, beautiful ect when messaging her and shes highly offended that men would speak that way to her when she doesnt even know them and why are all the men just trying to f**k her on a dating site... My response to her is as follows lol: I just wanted to say that after reading your profile rant i was shocked. This site like mant others have the option for "casual encounters" meaning that there are people on here just wanting to get down and dirty. If thats offensive to you maybe you should try "E Harmony" or "Christian Mingle" You are a beautiful women so why take offense to someone telling you they think you are? I use the word hon alot in messages, is that wrong as well. I swear politeness is so rare these days that some people mistake it for flurtation...Please, message me back. Just say...."Well Darlin'...Bless your heart!"...and move on.
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Edited by
jonnyappleseedx
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Tue 02/05/13 08:49 AM
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To be fair, calling someone 'baby' or 'honey' without knowing them is a bit much and to some, disrespectful. It is true, every so often people are just being kind but there is a lot of arrogant males who are out just for some play who use sweet words as bait for their own hidden agendas. I've seen it done far too many times... makes the rest of us look bad. I'm kind of on the fence as I think there are some elements that would be fine to say on the profile, but more often than not most things are best left for conversation or as you said, to be posted on a forum. The woman may be broken, but more than likely, she has good reason. Doesnt do anybody any good to judge her and then make a post about it. You made some good points but I believe went about it in a less-than-optimal way. I have a problem simplifying... willowdraga said it best. Respect~ |
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Hi John Many of us use the terms you do especially if we are southern raised. Nothing wrong with you being polite and being a gentleman. As many women who will take offense to this there will be many others who appreciate you taking the time and effort to be kind. Be yourself no matter what spin anyone tries to put on it, and if your spin is politeness, God bless you. The world needs more people who are willing to care enough to make endearing comments to those they are in contact with. |
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I recently came across a profile where this young lady had written about leaving this site because men use words like baby, honey, beautiful ect when messaging her and shes highly offended that men would speak that way to her when she doesnt even know them and why are all the men just trying to f**k her on a dating site... My response to her is as follows lol: I just wanted to say that after reading your profile rant i was shocked. This site like mant others have the option for "casual encounters" meaning that there are people on here just wanting to get down and dirty. If thats offensive to you maybe you should try "E Harmony" or "Christian Mingle" You are a beautiful women so why take offense to someone telling you they think you are? I use the word hon alot in messages, is that wrong as well. I swear politeness is so rare these days that some people mistake it for flurtation...Please, message me back. Oh, gee. A woman dared to use her profile to state what she thought about the way that strange men talked to her. Oh, the horror of it all. [ /sarc ] There is no rule or law which forbids people from ranting on their own profiles. So, why are you opposed to the woman's exercise of free speech? If you don't like what she says, then move on.  I, as a decent individual who naturally speaks using the terms dear and hon all the time merely had an opinion that i wanted to state here in the forums. It really sucks that people like yourself has turned this country into nothing but political debate. I guess using the term "Thanks hon" before pulling away from my bank drivethru is sexual harrassment these days. Thanks for keeping all us Americans in check A.L.F
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I truly believe there still are polite people around. As I hang around with many who are. She's probably just fed up of the low-life scumbags, and is feeling like she doesn't care for men much right now. Given how ones she was with portrayed themselves as nothing worthy. What's so nuts about the whole thing, is that rather than those men putting their best foot forward, they put their worst one forward. It really makes me hide from men at times. |
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Atleast post your rants here and not as your profile info. lol Who really wants to read that your fed up with online dating when your viewing their profile? Just simply move on and sign out. Try real world dating for a change youll see its much the same. If your offended by compliments, that says alot in itself.. Im new on here and ive tried other sites. this site gives you the ability to have these forums for discussion and actually get to somewhat know other people. Its a multi use site for friendship, dating and even sexual encounters. If you cant take the heat, get yo azz out da kitchen. Yeh, the forums are for ranting, not your profile. That's ignorant. |
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I have to say, this has turned out to be very interesting to say the least. Half of you have this Dr. Phil mentality going on. "You can take a monkey on a roller coaster but dont expect him to bake you a cake afterwards" Whats that even mean?
 My honest opinion is, none of you are here for the rants. Most are here because finding someone in the real world is too tough. Am i wrong? I use the term "Thanks hon" alot in "real life", Maybe to a waitress who brings that refill or the lady at the drive thru window somewhere. This is part of a country upbringing and is just being decent and polite. Its certainly not to be taken offensively. I apologize for being offended by this young lady who in my opinion is not only trying to cut the scumbags off at the pass but also keep the "good guys" at bay. My apologies. I still believe that politeness is so freakin rare these days that people mistake it as flirtation.
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Im from Gladstone
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Just what it says, i need a good girl with a bit of a bad side to her. A princess in public but a freak in the sheets. Just playin ladies, hit me up im new here and in K.C
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