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| Topic: where are all the single men??? the good ones? all taken? | |
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Yes its hard i cant find any good guys,ive been looking hard for years now,date sites, text date,chat date, postal dating agencies,my defination of a good guy he gets to know me as a friend first wants my mind not my body,takes me to the cofee shop on the first date not ask me to bed,polite loyal and doesnt cancel on me ten minutes before the date sees me quite often.say twice a week if hes near to and every 2-3weeks long distance,and of cause that the travel isnt all one sided and a polite guy that we say cute stuff to eachother, i dont think im asking to much but i never seem to find anyone,like that yeah me too :-) |
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It really is hard to find a good man!! I know it is difficult for anyone today, but I am losing hope! Same here, but the other way around..hard to find a good woman these days too, goes both ways. I think that all the millionaires are on Match, all the younger guys are chasing younger girls or looking for Cougars with money. So that leaves ordinary fellas. Ironically most of the profiles that I read, there is no way I could be the guy that women over 40 want. Even IF I was to hit everyone of my goals. |
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i agree with cracker, there is an intimidation factor from many woman my age which discourages contacting them. that said, it's quite understandable that internet scam-weary and real life scam-weary ladies my age must use careful discernment. i try to proceed as though the strict caveats do not apply to me as i am a nice, decent guy. so, here's one!
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Cause when life looks like easy street there is danger at your door.
Ya, we all learn to reason and express ourselves. But I will will have to admit for me that there are a bunch of loaded mouse traps floating in my noggin. I guess I have gotten stuck in my ways (relationships) that I don't care to re-set all of the traps. I don't think that I am bad; honestly somethings we just don't need to re-experience. |
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:) hello all!!
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Its harder to meet a good guy. Guys tend to fall into so many categories that a woman has to watch out for! The biggest one on a dating site...is the horn dog!
A serial dater who is trying to "hit" every flavor of female that's out there. I'm not saying there aren't skeezy women out there.. but fellas Real Talk...when you say there are no good women...don't you mean the drop dead gorgeous model type isn't responding to your email! Not saying looks aren't important..men are visual! Could your standards be a tiny tad bit high? |
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Or scammers. . .they seem to be lurking everywhere on dating sites!!
They seem to be the only ones making contact! |
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Its harder to meet a good guy. Guys tend to fall into so many categories that a woman has to watch out for! The biggest one on a dating site...is the horn dog! A serial dater who is trying to "hit" every flavor of female that's out there. I'm not saying there aren't skeezy women out there.. but fellas Real Talk...when you say there are no good women...don't you mean the drop dead gorgeous model type isn't responding to your email! Not saying looks aren't important..men are visual! Could your standards be a tiny tad bit high? Word! Word! Word! Thank you. |
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I am visual, too, men. Sorry if your droopy chest and triple chin do not attract me. Maybe if you hit the gym once in a while, you may have better chance of capturing the woman of your dreams. If you want a dreamgirl, what have you to offer her? Your money? Your sports car? Your butterfly collection? Puhhhlease. Let's get real here. It is called equity. You should offer the same as you would like to receive. Hello!
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Or maybe it's your enigmatic personality that you expect dreamgirl to be captivated by. LMFAO
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Here it is people! The real deal! No crap, just the straight truth! LISTEN UP! Nice guys are all over the place. All you have to do is look for a single guy, that has been that way for a while and PRESTO there is your nice guy. Women don't like nice guys, that's why you can't "find" us. You want Brad Pitt, only richer and with a twelve foot long private area. It takes TESTOSTERONE to get those traits! It also turns you into a raging arsehole! The skinny, not so great looking guy with the average private parts is your nice guy. Stop whining and message him. With no manly in him and knowing that he is at best: average, he most likely won't contact you first. He's too shy. Hope that doesn't sound like a total jerk, it's just the truth. I know, I'm a nice guy too. Pretty average though. lol  . I guess some really want it all, but some men are just complete turds, and will treat women however they want. Looks REALLY AREN'T all that.
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Here it is people! The real deal! No crap, just the straight truth! LISTEN UP! Nice guys are all over the place. All you have to do is look for a single guy, that has been that way for a while and PRESTO there is your nice guy. Women don't like nice guys, that's why you can't "find" us. You want Brad Pitt, only richer and with a twelve foot long private area. It takes TESTOSTERONE to get those traits! It also turns you into a raging arsehole! The skinny, not so great looking guy with the average private parts is your nice guy. Stop whining and message him. With no manly in him and knowing that he is at best: average, he most likely won't contact you first. He's too shy. Hope that doesn't sound like a total jerk, it's just the truth. I know, I'm a nice guy too. Pretty average though. lol [/quote BS...I don't believe this. I refuse to believe that only an Urkel look alike can be a " nice guy"! I'm not looking for Brad Pitt.. I'm no Angelina...but someone to match me is NOT asking too much! If I feel I'm somewhat attractive why cant I have a somewhat attractive?! Why should I have to settle ? Id rather be alone. |
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Its harder to meet a good guy. Guys tend to fall into so many categories that a woman has to watch out for! The biggest one on a dating site...is the horn dog! A serial dater who is trying to "hit" every flavor of female that's out there. I'm not saying there aren't skeezy women out there.. but fellas Real Talk...when you say there are no good women...don't you mean the drop dead gorgeous model type isn't responding to your email! Not saying looks aren't important..men are visual! Could your standards be a tiny tad bit high? Personally I know that there are many, many good women out there. I also know I am not their cup of tea, so to speak. That does not make them not good women. Just that I don't appeal to them. But someone will. Yes there must be some attraction. For both men and women. But until you talk or spend some amount of time together you never know if there is anything beyond that initial hmmm...he/she is cute phase of initial attraction. |
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Exactly Toxic! When you look for your lady...you can look with a confidence I just don't have. You can be somewhat sure she wont be a horn dog..just trying to hit it and forget it. A gold digger you can spot with blinders on...but for us ladies we have to investigate a little harder for that " good" man!
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Edited by
toxicpoizon
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Tue 01/01/13 10:34 AM
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Exactly Toxic! When you look for your lady...you can look with a confidence I just don't have. You can be somewhat sure she wont be a horn dog..just trying to hit it and forget it. A gold digger you can spot with blinders on...but for us ladies we have to investigate a little harder for that " good" man! @ the term horn dog! Haven't heard that in awhile teebee79. So you are looking for a good man. We are looking for a good woman without going broke in the process of discovery.
You are right that we can spot a gold digger with blinders on but they be changing their game so fast you better keep up or you will still get your wallet jacked! If it ain't the outright looking for sugar daddy, seeking a weekly or monthly allowance, fwb with the benefits being your time and $$$ going to them and they will be your friend - nothing else happens, it is the sob story give it to me until I get paid and I will pay you back. Which rarely happens - it is just their way to see how much you will give them. And that only scratches the surface. I have to tell these young boys I work with if they hitting you up like that, you aren't the only fool - I mean one they trying to jack. |
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I am looking for the same thing. Just someone to hangout with and talk to. Don't want to deal with any baggage but just a good time. I don't mind lending an ear or shoulder to cry on but don't want it to be all about that.
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hey there lilms123...i wanna talk to you...
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Hello!!
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IamwhoIam1 : Like your take on the issue.
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i am avalible Live in south east idaho
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