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Topic: What type do you attract?
42BlackBBW Joined Mon 09/12/11 Posts: 3243	Wed 05/30/12 04:22 PM
Was having a bit of a man bashing chat to a good (female) friend of mine the other day about the type of man that we seem to attract. My friend and I are quite independent, self sufficient women. We are (mostly) easy going, intelligent and have a carpe diem attitude. When we do flirt manipulatively, we are upfront, obvious and you’d have to be blind not to see it coming from a mile off. We differ in the sense that she likes pretty, well groomed, successful types and I’m more flexible - basically she’s more materialistic than I am (and she’ll readily admit that)..however our personalities often attract the same type of man i.e. subs or men that appear ok initially but are so insecure that they kill the relationship before it starts. I’m not asking for a character assassination as I'm more than familiar with my flaws. This is more about whether you’re aware of the type(s) of person that you attract.

esebulldog Joined Wed 08/05/09 Posts: 22342	Wed 05/30/12 04:33 PM
IRL - very young girls who party hard on mingle - none

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Wed 05/30/12 04:40 PM
Looks wise, creepers... personality wise I usually attract really awesome guys. Not all relationships last but I'm lucky in that mine have been with pretty decent guys.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45390	Wed 05/30/12 04:46 PM
Mmmm, I would have to say I pretty much attract anyone I care to :-) (I realize this is not politically correct but the truth often is not.)

TammyA Joined Sat 03/10/12 Posts: 300	Wed 05/30/12 04:52 PM
Well obviously, thus far, I've attracted the WRONG ones.

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Wed 05/30/12 04:52 PM
Ummm......Losers, drunks, tramps,creepers and strays. I tried changing my aftershave....but........ occasionally.....a sweet lil old lady will hit on me at the grocery!!

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21786	Wed 05/30/12 04:56 PM
I usually don't classify people into types. But I tend to go out with blonds, brunettes, and redheads.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 05/30/12 04:59 PM
All types. I couldn't narrow it down to just one type.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Wed 05/30/12 05:15 PM
Was having a bit of a man bashing chat to a good (female) friend of mine the other day about the type of man that we seem to attract. My friend and I are quite independent, self sufficient women. We are (mostly) easy going, intelligent and have a carpe diem attitude. When we do flirt manipulatively, we are upfront, obvious and you’d have to be blind not to see it coming from a mile off. We differ in the sense that she likes pretty, well groomed, successful types and I’m more flexible - basically she’s more materialistic than I am (and she’ll readily admit that)..however our personalities often attract the same type of man i.e. subs or men that appear ok initially but are so insecure that they kill the relationship before it starts. I’m not asking for a character assassination as I'm more than familiar with my flaws. This is more about whether you’re aware of the type(s) of person that you attract. It seems I tend to attract like minded women for the most part. Right now, there's only lady I'm focused on, so...

Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Wed 05/30/12 05:18 PM
The really young ones! I'm not sure why???

Urg04es Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 1411	Wed 05/30/12 05:27 PM
IRL - very young girls who party hard on mingle - none Darn it-I told you not to post my picture. LOL! I seem to be attracting all the want to be scammers lately. I think I am going to hit a limit with blocking priviledges if I keep it up. LOL!

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48947	Wed 05/30/12 05:36 PM
What type do I attract? In real life or in cyberspace?

Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Wed 05/30/12 05:44 PM
Well I sure don't like guy's with hairs all over them!

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Wed 05/30/12 09:07 PM
Apparently the wrong ones, given that I'm still single.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Wed 05/30/12 09:13 PM


smileyy19 Joined Mon 03/19/12 Posts: 43	Wed 05/30/12 10:32 PM
Young guys that need their MOTHERS!!!!!!!! Melmacians.

IndigoIllusions Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 5625	Wed 05/30/12 10:39 PM
That is funny!! ...just sayin'. Seems I attracted a lot of "wrong" guys, then I met the great guy I'm with now.

42BlackBBW Joined Mon 09/12/11 Posts: 3243	Thu 05/31/12 12:12 PM
IRL - very young girls who party hard on mingle - none She's the wrong colour but 20 years ago, that was almost me

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Thu 05/31/12 12:33 PM
I attract none.

42BlackBBW Joined Mon 09/12/11 Posts: 3243	Thu 05/31/12 12:37 PM
I attract none. Don't believe that for a minute