I attract flies, stray animals and sometimes the Police.

Guys who want all the fun but no commitment.

Was having a bit of a man bashing chat to a good (female) friend of mine the other day about the type of man that we seem to attract.

My friend and I are quite independent, self sufficient women. We are (mostly) easy going, intelligent and have a carpe diem attitude. When we do flirt manipulatively, we are upfront, obvious and you’d have to be blind not to see it coming from a mile off.

We differ in the sense that she likes pretty, well groomed, successful types and I’m more flexible - basically she’s more materialistic than I am (and she’ll readily admit that)..however our personalities often attract the same type of man i.e. subs or men that appear ok initially but are so insecure that they kill the relationship before it starts.

I’m not asking for a character assassination as I'm more than familiar with my flaws. This is more about whether you’re aware of the type(s) of person that you attract.

Creeps, creeps and lots of other creeps. Oh yeah, with a few horny guys thrown in also.

kart attracts types like me.

Must be my magnetic personality.

You won't catch me complaining though.

the fact that you made quite a splash and almost gave me a heart attack tonight has a lot to do with it.

I don't know if I attract any 'types'. At least if I do,they just want to have fun for awhile and then move on to someone else.

I think you are a very special type of lady, and any guy with any brains attracted to you, would realize that and never let you go.

So for all those guys that do that kind of crap, just remember... dumbazzes.

I hear ya on that one! I also get the 20-somethings (while flattering, not practical) and married men. WTF?! Throw in a few controlling men and that about sums it up.