Topic: Taking much time to be accepted.
krupa's photo
Sat 03/24/12 01:36 PM
It just takes time brother.

Women are no different than men...it takes time to develop familiarity. Familiarity brings trust. Trust opens the path to acceptance. Acceptance is the doorway to love.

Nothing in life comes easily my man. The best things in life require effort, devotion and openess.

You don't walk out into your yard and find a diamond. You gotta get dirty and dig for it. It takes sweat, blood and tears. Acceptance and love is earned. No one gets it handed to them on a platter.

HasidicEnforcer's photo
Sat 03/24/12 01:55 PM
Ok . I will keep on searching. Hope they accept me. I don't mind age or race.


Don't mind age or race, but your OP states you want to date a white lady. Hmm...

PacificStar48's photo
Sat 03/24/12 02:36 PM
If the only criteria is that the woman is white you don't exactly create much of picture of a person of discreetion. Women are unique creatures and find being lumped together really offensive.

Pink_lady's photo
Sat 03/24/12 03:24 PM

From experience, what do you think I can offer?


I dont have any experience of being with you, so i would have no idea what you have to offer!!

Only you know what you have to offer!

no photo
Sat 03/24/12 03:36 PM


What about her personality? What qualities are you looking for there?
She must be good looking, caring and most importantly, have the fear of God


That leaves out all those poor atheist women. I think you're being too vague not too mention rather difficult OP. Trying being more descriptive about what you are seeking and why you are seeking it. Be willing to talk about what makes you feel you are worth it to any potential interested parties.

Otherwise I still hear bribery works.

Search4dluv's photo
Sat 03/24/12 03:43 PM


From experience, what do you think I can offer?
Are you interested in me?. Then tell me what to offer you!

I dont have any experience of being with you, so i would have no idea what you have to offer!!

Only you know what you have to offer!

Pink_lady's photo
Sat 03/24/12 03:47 PM



From experience, what do you think I can offer?
Are you interested in me?. Then tell me what to offer you!

I dont have any experience of being with you, so i would have no idea what you have to offer!!

Only you know what you have to offer!



No, im not interested, but generally, women dont TELL men what to offer them, theres no sincerity on the mans behalf if they have to ask that. Only you know what your likeable traits are, only you can promote the good things about you.

Simonedemidova's photo
Sat 03/24/12 03:52 PM
Better to wait for mrs right then to rush into something totally wrong. It's exciting to find love but rushing and settling often leads to disappointment because u trick yourself into thinking things are more pleasant or acceptable than they are.

samnkansah14's photo
Sat 03/24/12 05:57 PM
how do you relate to ladies?

Simonedemidova's photo
Sat 03/24/12 06:03 PM

how do you relate to ladies?



You can start by listening to them and finding what areas you have in common and what areas you don't.

Search4dluv's photo
Sun 03/25/12 01:32 AM
Thank you all. I really appreciate your contribution and support.

no photo
Sun 03/25/12 01:46 AM
I agree with other comments in that it does take time to find that special someone.

You're profile doesn't say much so maybe you need to think about padding that out a bit and considering that the idea of a long distance relationship doesn't appeal to most women, maybe you need to be a bit more realistic...

speedbug89's photo
Sun 03/25/12 02:08 AM

tell ya somthin dude
in the words of the hippy or the indian. self discovery is key to knowing who you are and what you can offer. i may be young but i spend many nights in the desert alone in the dark it helps me self reflect. i kno what i can offer and what im looking for.

wish you well and may love an peace find you

pyxxie13's photo
Sun 03/25/12 09:45 AM


What about her personality? What qualities are you looking for there?
She must be good looking, caring and most importantly, have the fear of God

Now them are romance lines.....slaphead slaphead

no photo
Mon 03/26/12 07:00 PM

Better to wait for mrs right then to rush into something totally wrong. It's exciting to find love but rushing and settling often leads to disappointment because u trick yourself into thinking things are more pleasant or acceptable than they are.
WOW AINT THAT THE TRUTH
PERFECT RIGHT ON KEYdrinker

mightymoe's photo
Mon 03/26/12 07:13 PM


What about her personality? What qualities are you looking for there?
She must be good looking, caring and most importantly, have the fear of God


the fear of god? you want a scared white woman?

HasidicEnforcer's photo
Mon 03/26/12 07:16 PM

She must be good looking, caring and most importantly, have the fear of God


the fear of god? you want a scared white woman?


LOL he might feel he IS god.

RavenousSin's photo
Mon 03/26/12 10:03 PM

It just takes time brother.

Women are no different than men...it takes time to develop familiarity. Familiarity brings trust. Trust opens the path to acceptance. Acceptance is the doorway to love.

Nothing in life comes easily my man. The best things in life require effort, devotion and openess.

You don't walk out into your yard and find a diamond. You gotta get dirty and dig for it. It takes sweat, blood and tears. Acceptance and love is earned. No one gets it handed to them on a platter.

This seemed passed up by others, but... I think he's on to something.
You know, completely.

no photo
Tue 03/27/12 06:51 AM
Edited by 2KidsMom on Tue 03/27/12 07:05 AM
Women are no different than men...it takes time to develop familiarity. Familiarity brings trust. Trust opens the path to acceptance. Acceptance is the doorway to love.

Nothing in life comes easily my man. The best things in life require effort, devotion and openess.

You don't walk out into your yard and find a diamond. You gotta get dirty and dig for it. It takes sweat, blood and tears. Acceptance and love is earned. No one gets it handed to them on a platter.




True!!!!

I sit back and watch,watch,watch...and read,read,and read more,about what people post,You can find out alot, about a person that way.If my interest is piqued,I will interact with them in the threads.If I feel pressured,or get creeped out,the Red flag..warning....noway ...JMO...Krupa is right,it takes time..familiarity...then trust.



PacificStar48's photo
Tue 03/27/12 09:21 AM


She must be good looking, caring and most importantly, have the fear of God


the fear of god? you want a scared white woman?


LOL he might feel he IS god.


Wonder about that; always wonder about anyone who thinks that leadership or relationships are supposed to be based on fear.

I see no reason to fear GOd; if you are a Christian he makes it very clear what is expected and how you are suppose to run your life. A potential partner that told me how I was suppose to react to my God would be on the delete list fast.