i should be consciouus of how some men treat women,i have seen friends and family go thruu the samething, but u got over it right?

A woman should always be cautious when it comes to men. Love is just a complicated thing.

Not yet it takes time...... just not able to trust anymore ........ guess thats a lesson learner....... my girlfriend tells me that I have a pure Heart...... but guys don't give a crap....... just like being pretty ....... it's like we get targeted to get screwed over!

so we women dont stand a chance? men will have a balls so i guess we will always be getting screwed over

Yep in one way or another just remember a man will be your friend for months until he finally get what he wants ..... That's why LOVE is a tough subject because Love isen't what it used to be

A man doesn't know what he wants until its out of their lives.

Yay! Man bashing thread!

That's not true for some of us.

No NO NO it's an estrogen imbalance,you know like a chemical imbalance

well it depends on who you date too my friend women can do the same too you know they can cheat or lie but you need to chose a good partner someone that you feel you really can trust it takes time but if you been hurt bad its harder i know:) also remember there are good guys out there and i need to believe theres good lady's as well

ur too funny hahahaahah

it hurts sometimes but the key is to always look at the actions of someone.

Especially young women will say,"but he said he loved me...". Forget what a man says. Look at what he does.

Cracks me up on Maury where men will cheat with dozens of women; including the night before the show with the planted girl in the waiting room; but then they say they love their girl.

No they love the sex, the attention, the money the woman spends on him but they dont love the girl. Love isn't cheating.

Remember; the actions always trump the words. The actions show who someone is, their words try to fool you into thinking they are something they are not.

Touche

(Remember; the actions always trump the words. The actions show who someone is, their words try to fool you into thinking they are something they are not.) This is perfectly said!!!

Sadly this is not a man or woman thing it is a people thing. Men get hurt as well my friend and I know that feeling oh to well of pain and no rest however, the heart does heal,it may be scarred but,it will heal. Time is the teller of all things. If you love yourself enough you will take more time to be alone. When you are happy being alone then take the time to not only get to know someone but to also make him "invest" his time in you. We are all human and have needs and desires but our emotions and desires are something that we control. Your heart has already begun the healing process. Time heals all wounds. It's up to you to move forward and take it as a lesson learned. Be happy it happened because, you learned,you lived through it, now keep it moving. And trust me I know it is easier said than done but... it can be done.

i just looked at your profile ..your gorgeous ....i don't believe people like you deserve treatment like this...your way too good to be
having pain ..i guess i would say date older men ..same advice i found
out i also need to be doing..dating older women ...your wise grown up
superior imo and that doesn't mix well with immature people less intelligent or that just are kidlike and irresponsible or plain
could be your not attracting the right guys....blame nature
for that i guess...lol i hate that myself i think it may be im getting alot of that myself
...you need to be mean to guys just playing you and basically the
bad ones you don't need girl,but give the guys that are right for you your best,maybe turn up the heat so that they can take you seriously and i think they will trust you easier-otherwise it just comes off fake and detached i think....just stay away from them bad guys that live with mommy or live in jail...get the guys that are a little older than you if you have to that know how
to treat a woman and are responsible that actually care about you
...i think were having the same problems you and i or at least similar problems ...i just wished i could find more girls like you
i keep finding these dam problematic nut case drama types or the kidlike ones lol...i know how you feel it gets old

your an awesome girl i wish you the best man babe

Have you ever had nightmares because of what someone has done to you? I have......Sometimes we can't even believe in the things a man does....because it's only temperory...... like onening a door for a woman..... not that I need that it just don't last....Time may heal wounds .... it's the scars that never goaway!

I guess life happens to the best of us......all we can do is make it the best we can & when Life hands us Lemons we can figure out how to make grape juice out of it........ just kidding

i say that cause some people work in a funny way...if people didn't take advantage of others kindness and great qualities then being nice to everyone would reciprocate more meaningfully,but you know how that goes ...then again she comes through very sincerely,definitely makes herself clear she is honestly looking,i tend to look for that cause taking chances for me and her i think as well just aint worth it ...actually she has plenty of passion and heat just the way she is and that should only go to the man that she chooses that treats her the way i know she is going to treat him ...like hes the best thing that ever happened to her.. being nice to everyone is our choice but i aint playing da fool if i have to question anyone's motif then thats a red flag and tells me huh uh nope aint happenin..as for maturity well i think thats a majority thing in older people more commonly but yes that can and does go both directions,one more than another i think ...and nothing is wrong with sex as long as it always consented but some people get a little "CRANKY N SHITTY" of none at all or very little
..i just aint a believer i guess that that has to be put off until
marriage blah blah blah for freakin sakes ..there are people doing
far worse things than having sex..matter of fact i aint on this taboo **** about sex and it gets ridiculous anymore hearing about it
...people want to religion everything up and you cant thats just
our nature it is perfectly ok to have sex i don't care that anyone
disagrees with me ..but im not saying however that it's okay
to do that with everyone we see and meet ..of course not
but that is very much a large role in alot of people's relationships
some more than others but it varies very widely among people
but there is no doubt in my mind this girl will meet a great guy
after all she is a great girl...now if i can find me one of those