Make the determination, to choose your love to be for life.

IF, they had little silly habits or quirks,,,that bothered you?


Could YOU,,look passed them, and still except them,,
or COULD THAT. Be a STOPPER?

That depends. Are we talking about leaving the toilet seat up and the cap off the toothpaste? Or burying bodies in the backyard?

One man's quirk, is another man's hobby.

I have enough buried bodies in my backyard

in my opinion it depends on how strong the love is, cause love conquers all

Like?

NO,,,dead bodies,,,,lol
Just little things of habit,,,biting nails, clearing throats, toilet seats up or down,,,yes,,,,,,licking lips,,brushing teeth ten times a day,,,you know?,,lol

This is an excellent question T....I'm thinking silly little quirks or habits are deal breakers ONLY when you're NOT in love but just thinking you are...Know what I mean?.....If you are in love, those silly little quirks that might drive someone else to distraction don't bother you at all and can even be things you find endearing or charming in your partner....This is the beauty of love...

i like this answer,lol

I could/would overlook them because he'd have to put up with mine

Little habits and quirks are no big deal.

I've just got a few definitive deal-breakers. Avoid those and anything is possible.

Pfffft.
I think love means always taking
the WHOLE package.
Or not.

Flaws are wrapped up, like old flags,
and put away.
You know where they are, but they
serve no purpose.
Never to be mentioned.

I love the sum total of his parts.
I never wish that one thing or another
would disappear, for fear that might
detract from what makes him who he is.

True love sees, but believes.

INJO
That loves conquers all is an Urban Myth. If a person has so many little "qirks" they are going to have a hard time finding someone who can tolerate them for the long run.

I f a person can make and effort to minimise their "Quirks" by at least making an effort to at least compensate for what they ask a partner to tolerate I think the odds of acceptance go up.

A personal example would be my partner was an Army guy and we moved a lot, often far away from family and friends that do make life easier. He loved his career but recognized the hardship and routinely made efforts to ease the stress on us accordingly. I have had life long physuical disabilities that at time can be a real drag but rather than making my spouse be both Dad and Mom or Husband and housewife I nade it my job to recruite, train, supervise, and pay staff to do the things that a Mom or Homemaker would regularly do. Yes we both made some accomodations for the other but we also took responsiblity not to make it a misery for the other. so life was pretty good. Relationships are a give and take thing.

I will say that some of the things that you think are going to be a flaw to one person is actually a plus to others. Like the Army deployments; what it really turned out to be was yes I missed a few of my family members but I also got to get away from a few that had made my life miserable up until I became a military gypsie. And my Husband found that a wife who was good at finding staff worked out really great because I also was able to find a lot of other qualified people to helo us do other things we wanted to do. So things don't always fit the stereo type.

It depends on what it is! If it is just small things, then it shouldn't be a deal breaker.

Here's an example:

My ex-wife could not spell or pronounce the word "ghosts."

But I didn't divorce her for it.

It took me finding about her drug use for me to do that!

Hahaha that would have to be put out in detail before I would say that love would conquer all...........

My ex could not seem to keep his pants zipped up lets see deal breaker or love conquers all ???????


There are many quirks that can be overlooked some tend to turn into big quirks that have to be dealt with that love can not overcome....

No problem. My quirks would counteract hers, and so she and I would be even.

Hmmmmm.....let's see. I had one boyfriend that use to shake his leg....ALL THE TIME WHILE SITTING. I dealt with it . Another one had a silly little querk...alchol. I dealt with it for as long as I could. One NEVER cooked...ate out breakfast, lunch and dinner. I could not see myself being the 'FOREVER' COOK or eating out all the time.....he was also very prejudiced .

Now I just wait for lightening to strike and shake me to my knees to know ifn' he'stheone

I can accept all the little quirks.....cause I gots a few meself....

She can even have kids......

as long as she dont want any more!!!!!